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Elephantis Posted at 10:02 pm on July 16, 2008
I never would have thought I'd be making one of these topics. But a few weeks ago my boyfriend and I were having sex (we use condoms all the time) and realized at the end that the condom slipped off.

My period is a week late, but I'm giving it another week. If I'm pregnant I'm getting an abortion right away. The end.

AND, I'm getting the birth control pill. I don't feel safe with condoms anymore.

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Gabriel Gray Posted at 5:52 pm on July 20, 2008
Quote: from MissPinkieMarie at 8:27 am on July 20, 2008

Quote: from N e o at 10:53 pm on July 19, 2008

Quote: from MissPinkieMarie at 8:02 pm on July 19, 2008

Quote: from N e o at 10:16 pm on July 16, 2008

Quote: from Aratal at 11:10 pm on July 16, 2008

Why immediately choose abortion? You should really think about what it means to kill a life first. But it's none of my business...
   

  Thats an option... Because a bug moves does that mean we shouldn't kill it? After all, it's a bug, it must have no soul. Same with a kid, the brain is not developed... It's not murder.


  The brain develops pretty fast.

  Heart beat at 5 weeks
  Brain patterns at 6 weeks.

  Watch some vidios, during an abortion the fetus "jumps" so to speak, away from the tool.

  And yes, I'm the freak who doesn't kill bugs unless i absolutely have too.


 

 Just because it moves does not mean that it is it's own being.


Means it feels and acknowledges pain.


Do you know this for a fact? Obviously not.

dunebug Posted at 10:25 am on July 20, 2008
Quote: from MissPinkieMarie at 7:27 am on July 20, 2008

Means it feels and acknowledges pain.

Actually it doesn't.

Scientists have studied and studied this issue, unbiased, simply wanting to know when a fetus might actually feel pain. And as near as any scientific approach can report, it's  around 26 weeks at the earliest. They lack the nerves and adapted system before that. You can read more information on it here:
http://www.bmj.com/cgi/content/full/313/7060/795/a

Before that, it's just a muscle twitch, the same way that your knee jerks when your Doctor taps it. You aren't experiencing pain, it's just a muscle response.

ashka Posted at 10:17 am on July 20, 2008
take a test.
SimplisticComplexity Posted at 9:14 am on July 20, 2008
Quote: from Elephantis at 1:06 am on July 17, 2008

Quote: from CaliKevin at 10:05 pm on July 16, 2008

Good plan.  

 Did you realize it too late to get an EC pill?  If not why didn't you do that?


Yeah I didn't think about that. :/


You "didn't think about that"?  Why the heck are you having sex if you don't even know the basics about how to prevent pregnancy?
MissPinkieMarie Posted at 7:27 am on July 20, 2008
Quote: from N e o at 10:53 pm on July 19, 2008

Quote: from MissPinkieMarie at 8:02 pm on July 19, 2008

Quote: from N e o at 10:16 pm on July 16, 2008

Quote: from Aratal at 11:10 pm on July 16, 2008

Why immediately choose abortion? You should really think about what it means to kill a life first. But it's none of my business...

  Thats an option... Because a bug moves does that mean we shouldn't kill it? After all, it's a bug, it must have no soul. Same with a kid, the brain is not developed... It's not murder.


 

 The brain develops pretty fast.  

 Heart beat at 5 weeks  
 Brain patterns at 6 weeks.  

 Watch some vidios, during an abortion the fetus "jumps" so to speak, away from the tool.  

 And yes, I'm the freak who doesn't kill bugs unless i absolutely have too.


Just because it moves does not mean that it is it's own being.


Means it feels and acknowledges pain.

audrey820 Posted at 6:18 am on July 20, 2008
What she does is her choice guys. I'm completely against abortion and would never have one. But at least I can respect the fact that this is her choice. Unless the law changes, we can't do anything to stop her.

Birth control is a really good idea. It will hopefully mean no more moments like this. And hopefully you'll still use condoms too. Can't be too safe really.

Gabriel Gray Posted at 10:53 pm on July 19, 2008
Quote: from MissPinkieMarie at 8:02 pm on July 19, 2008

Quote: from N e o at 10:16 pm on July 16, 2008

Quote: from Aratal at 11:10 pm on July 16, 2008

Why immediately choose abortion? You should really think about what it means to kill a life first. But it's none of my business...
 

 Thats an option... Because a bug moves does that mean we shouldn't kill it? After all, it's a bug, it must have no soul. Same with a kid, the brain is not developed... It's not murder.


The brain develops pretty fast.

Heart beat at 5 weeks
Brain patterns at 6 weeks.

Watch some vidios, during an abortion the fetus "jumps" so to speak, away from the tool.

And yes, I'm the freak who doesn't kill bugs unless i absolutely have too.


Just because it moves does not mean that it is it's own being.

MissPinkieMarie Posted at 7:02 pm on July 19, 2008
Quote: from N e o at 10:16 pm on July 16, 2008

Quote: from Aratal at 11:10 pm on July 16, 2008

Why immediately choose abortion? You should really think about what it means to kill a life first. But it's none of my business...

Thats an option... Because a bug moves does that mean we shouldn't kill it? After all, it's a bug, it must have no soul. Same with a kid, the brain is not developed... It's not murder.


The brain develops pretty fast.

Heart beat at 5 weeks
Brain patterns at 6 weeks.

Watch some vidios, during an abortion the fetus "jumps" so to speak, away from the tool.

And yes, I'm the freak who doesn't kill bugs unless i absolutely have too.

swtpie Posted at 7:25 am on July 17, 2008
Wow, good to see you got it all figured out!
UltimateSatisfaction Posted at 11:06 pm on July 16, 2008
Quote: from twlight kiss 94 at 12:16 am on July 17, 2008

That's really mean. It's a person who can't defend itself and the poor little thing won't even get a chance in this world.
Have to think of what's best for the mother-to-be.. or not-to-be.
CaliKevin Posted at 10:59 pm on July 16, 2008
Who are you to say that fetuses want to be born in the first place?  How do you know we aren't all supposed to have abortions?

Fetuses are an infectious bacteria that steals nutrution from your body.  The result of letting this organism survive and grow is a child.

Do you cry every time a guy masturbates and throws his kids away in a kleenex?  

Elm Posted at 10:21 pm on July 16, 2008
Quote: from CaliKevin at 10:07 pm on July 16, 2008

Quote: from cadetjones2011 at 10:06 pm on July 16, 2008

put it up for adoption abortion is not the answer you may regret it later
She'll regret having the kid and destroying her vagina even more.

Somehow I doubt that unless she is one of the more shallow creatures to grace this earth.

The destruction of human life is not something the human mind can easily adopt to.  Even those trained to kill react badly to it in most situations after extensive training so the reaction is rote the aftermath is usually not easily accepted and once done not easily reversed to mesh back into normal social habits.

There is a reason murder of another human is a crime in almost every culture on the planet - if it is fine to kill another than it would be fine for another to kill you.  What keeps abortion legal is that people dehumanize the fetus easily because it is never seen and cannot speak for itself.  Simple oppression of the easiest to oppress minority on the planet.

Gabriel Gray Posted at 10:17 pm on July 16, 2008
Quote: from twlight kiss 94 at 11:16 pm on July 16, 2008

That's really mean. It's a person who can't defend itself and the poor little thing won't even get a chance in this world.

Take a look at my reference to bugs... Do you murder them? After all, they are defenseless.

twlight kiss 94 Posted at 10:16 pm on July 16, 2008
That's really mean. It's a person who can't defend itself and the poor little thing won't even get a chance in this world.
Gabriel Gray Posted at 10:16 pm on July 16, 2008
Quote: from Aratal at 11:10 pm on July 16, 2008

Why immediately choose abortion? You should really think about what it means to kill a life first. But it's none of my business...

Thats an option... Because a bug moves does that mean we shouldn't kill it? After all, it's a bug, it must have no soul. Same with a kid, the brain is not developed... It's not murder.

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