I bet you have never been to an adoption home!
these homes are busting at the seams with unwanted kids all out of control and fucked up on drugs to keep them quiet, nobody wants to adopt!
infact all you adoption freaks should put your money where your mouth is and all go and adopt one to thin out the heard,
once they are 18yo they are out of there, next stop jail!
In all honesty i think that you should go alone and then i hope it haunts you for the rest of your life knowing that you killed your baby!
I was disgusted by this post. People like you piss me off. Is there any need for you to be so damn right spiteful. You do not know the OP, you do not know her situation and you have no right to judge her. I doubt very much that you have been in this situation and until you have i think you should keep your judgemental opinions to yourself.
To the OP, i apologise that you have had nothing but judgemental insults from over opinionated pre-teens that don't have any idea about real life. I'm sure that you're actually probably quite scared at the moment and I'm sure that you don't want to go through this alone, but if you feel that the guy in question will make the situation a lot more stressful for you then i wouldn't bother taking him. You have proved already that you are mature enough to handle your problems on your own, why not this? I'm am certain that the staff will take good care of you and if you let them know that you are a little worried, they'll be extra nice. Just make sure that you get home safely, if you can't get a ride then get a taxi and take it easy.
I sincerely wish you the best of luck and let me know how it goes.
You will not have anyone (friends or family) in the room with you anyway. They could wait in the waiting room, but that is it.
Anyway, I had an abortion as well myself, and the guy that got me pregnant did much the same thing. He wasn't really interested in having contact with me either (well, we did break up before I found out I was pregnant, but still!). He actually went so far as to call me a whore who "must have cheated on me" (like he somehow thought he was unable to get someone pregnant?!).
Anyway, I'm sorry that this is a tough time for you, and I hope everything works out for the best. If you'd like to talk more (privately or publicly) then just let me know.
Quote: from kristajoe2009 at 5:44 pm on Aug. 18, 2008 don't get an abortion, put the baby up for adoption.... plz?That for one wasn't her question, and two you have no right to ask that of anyone. If you are more comfortable alone in the room, then be alone. You will be okay.
don't get an abortion, put the baby up for adoption.... plz?
If you are more comfortable alone in the room, then be alone. You will be okay.
I think this would be best.... The nurses I'm sure will make you feel at home. :)
Quote: from swtpie at 8:22 pm on Aug. 18, 2008 The guy should be there. It's a big thing. After...please don't sleep with him again. You know he won't be there, and is an ass. No worth sleeping with again. Yes i know. I realized this once everything switched after i told him and i realized he wasnt the person i thought he was. I know he has a right to be there cause its his baby too but i really dont want anything to do with him and i dont want him being fake trying to hold my hand or tell me everything is gonna be OK cause i know its all a big act. But no i will NEVER sleep with him again. He was my first yea but he'll also be my last for a long while until i can trust guys at least a little bit again which i could never do in the first place. I plan on telling him exactly how i feel about his SORRY ASS and never talking to him again before this i thought we could at least be friends [other shit happened also] but now its just like fuck it get te hell out of my life and work on yourself please
The guy should be there. It's a big thing. After...please don't sleep with him again. You know he won't be there, and is an ass. No worth sleeping with again.
Yes i know. I realized this once everything switched after i told him and i realized he wasnt the person i thought he was. I know he has a right to be there cause its his baby too but i really dont want anything to do with him and i dont want him being fake trying to hold my hand or tell me everything is gonna be OK cause i know its all a big act. But no i will NEVER sleep with him again. He was my first yea but he'll also be my last for a long while until i can trust guys at least a little bit again which i could never do in the first place. I plan on telling him exactly how i feel about his SORRY ASS and never talking to him again before this i thought we could at least be friends [other shit happened also] but now its just like fuck it get te hell out of my life and work on yourself please
Go you! And Good Luck.
Quote: from ilovetosuck at 8:51 pm on Aug. 18, 2008 Quote: from swtpie at 8:22 pm on Aug. 18, 2008 The guy should be there. It's a big thing. After...please don't sleep with him again. You know he won't be there, and is an ass. No worth sleeping with again. Returning to the actual question. lol. :) well... I've been following this, and I think you both have vaild points. As it is "Anonymous's" life, I would much rather see the poor child have a chance at a good life. Who knows? Maybe the child could be a GORGEOUS girl or boy, who can change the world. But then again, it could turn out to be a criminal. we never know, but why would we want to assume? Btw, the child will have NO recollection of their birth mother. the child is too young. My neighbor was adopted, and he's sweet, funny, and enjoy's his life. But Anonymous, you're right. This is YOUR life, and YOUR decision. We just want u to know how vital this is, cuz once you abort the baby, it's gone... and you'll never be the same... My stance on abortion: Last resort. For example, a girl from a culture where if she had sex before marriage, she was to be stoned, was raped, and got pregnant. So her choices: Abort the baby, or get stoned. Hence, the availablity of abortion. well, this has gotten WAYYY off topic... and if you don't mind me asking... just how old are you??? I don't think anyone ever got around to confirming that.... I've thought the exact same thing, I know that i may be aborting a baby that could be WONDERFUL and change the world who knows? But right now I just cant have a baby and its sad and its selfish i know but I cant put my family through this again-- my sister just had a baby [and it was born premature] Im still in school with no income both of my parents would be unable to help the guy wont help me and adoption is out of the question.. I wouldnt be able to give a child up that I had in my stomach for nine months.. And im almost 19.. And i know the gravity of my decision i think about it all day all night what if this what if that but no one seems to understand me.. except my best friend who i told and the guy which is only cause he doesnt want a baby anyway.. And seeing how people react to this ONLINE just lets me know that i will never tell anyone else other than my sister and maybe my mother if i get the nerve but no one else.. I always knew people were judgemental and close-minded but it just seems like a lot of unneeded stress in my life to let anyone else know about this.
Quote: from swtpie at 8:22 pm on Aug. 18, 2008 The guy should be there. It's a big thing. After...please don't sleep with him again. You know he won't be there, and is an ass. No worth sleeping with again. Returning to the actual question. lol. :) well... I've been following this, and I think you both have vaild points. As it is "Anonymous's" life, I would much rather see the poor child have a chance at a good life. Who knows? Maybe the child could be a GORGEOUS girl or boy, who can change the world. But then again, it could turn out to be a criminal. we never know, but why would we want to assume? Btw, the child will have NO recollection of their birth mother. the child is too young. My neighbor was adopted, and he's sweet, funny, and enjoy's his life. But Anonymous, you're right. This is YOUR life, and YOUR decision. We just want u to know how vital this is, cuz once you abort the baby, it's gone... and you'll never be the same... My stance on abortion: Last resort. For example, a girl from a culture where if she had sex before marriage, she was to be stoned, was raped, and got pregnant. So her choices: Abort the baby, or get stoned. Hence, the availablity of abortion. well, this has gotten WAYYY off topic... and if you don't mind me asking... just how old are you??? I don't think anyone ever got around to confirming that....
Returning to the actual question. lol. :)
well... I've been following this, and I think you both have vaild points.
As it is "Anonymous's" life, I would much rather see the poor child have a chance at a good life. Who knows? Maybe the child could be a GORGEOUS girl or boy, who can change the world. But then again, it could turn out to be a criminal. we never know, but why would we want to assume?
Btw, the child will have NO recollection of their birth mother. the child is too young. My neighbor was adopted, and he's sweet, funny, and enjoy's his life.
But Anonymous, you're right. This is YOUR life, and YOUR decision. We just want u to know how vital this is, cuz once you abort the baby, it's gone... and you'll never be the same...
My stance on abortion: Last resort. For example, a girl from a culture where if she had sex before marriage, she was to be stoned, was raped, and got pregnant. So her choices: Abort the baby, or get stoned.
Hence, the availablity of abortion.
well, this has gotten WAYYY off topic... and if you don't mind me asking... just how old are you??? I don't think anyone ever got around to confirming that....
I've thought the exact same thing, I know that i may be aborting a baby that could be WONDERFUL and change the world who knows? But right now I just cant have a baby and its sad and its selfish i know but I cant put my family through this again-- my sister just had a baby [and it was born premature] Im still in school with no income both of my parents would be unable to help the guy wont help me and adoption is out of the question.. I wouldnt be able to give a child up that I had in my stomach for nine months.. And im almost 19.. And i know the gravity of my decision i think about it all day all night what if this what if that but no one seems to understand me.. except my best friend who i told and the guy which is only cause he doesnt want a baby anyway.. And seeing how people react to this ONLINE just lets me know that i will never tell anyone else other than my sister and maybe my mother if i get the nerve but no one else.. I always knew people were judgemental and close-minded but it just seems like a lot of unneeded stress in my life to let anyone else know about this.
ok, so this is no longer a question of underage sex, it's just a matter of unprotected sex. Alright. Remember that when you tell people online, these people don't know you as a person, and can judge you based on what you say. This is probably NOT the best place to tell everyone. It is selfish to have a baby when you don't have the money or place for it, I agree. My "ex" best friend had a baby with my ex boyfriend. Neither of them has a job, the girl got kicked out of her hosue and put in foster care, and the father can't get a job cuz he couldn't even pass continuation school. And I think that keeping the baby was the most selfish decision she's ever made. because now, that baby doesn't even have a good shot at a good life. So yes, you're right there. but going back to it, killing the baby because you didn't protect yourself is also kind of selfish. BUT I can see why it would be so hard to give the baby up for adoption seeing as u just carried it around for 9 or so months (if all goes well).
I guess you just need to do what you think is best. I would really hate for you to have to kill it, but it's ultimately your decision, and I hope everything turns out well for you.
Do you think ur friend could come in late, or call in sick?
Quote: from ilovetosuck at 9:04 am on Aug. 19, 2008 Quote: from dunebug at 8:37 am on Aug. 19, 2008 Quote: from YellowDuckie at 5:36 pm on Aug. 18, 2008 Your reasoning is so fucking messed up. "You're still taking a home away from an already born baby." STFU. And thinking that it's any woman's job to be a brood mare for the country is sound reasoning? I supposed what YellowDuckie's thought is: Take responsibility for your actions. No, we should sweep everything under the rug.
Quote: from dunebug at 8:37 am on Aug. 19, 2008 Quote: from YellowDuckie at 5:36 pm on Aug. 18, 2008 Your reasoning is so fucking messed up. "You're still taking a home away from an already born baby." STFU. And thinking that it's any woman's job to be a brood mare for the country is sound reasoning? I supposed what YellowDuckie's thought is: Take responsibility for your actions.
Quote: from YellowDuckie at 5:36 pm on Aug. 18, 2008 Your reasoning is so fucking messed up. "You're still taking a home away from an already born baby." STFU. And thinking that it's any woman's job to be a brood mare for the country is sound reasoning?
Your reasoning is so fucking messed up. "You're still taking a home away from an already born baby." STFU.
"You're still taking a home away from an already born baby."
STFU.
And thinking that it's any woman's job to be a brood mare for the country is sound reasoning?
I supposed what YellowDuckie's thought is:
Take responsibility for your actions.
No, we should sweep everything under the rug.
-.-'
It will dont worry
How Pro-life of you.
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