Quoting Post Archived Topic: It will not be bumped to the top of the forum. Topic I really would like to hava kid. Membername   Not a member? Sign Up Free (takes 20 seconds) Password   Forgotten your password? Post Font: Verdana Arial Black Georgia Comic Sans Impact   Size: Tiny Normal Big Huge   Color: Default Dark Red Red Orange Brown Green Olive Cyan Blue Dark Blue Indigo Black [ Check Spelling ] [ Post Preview ] [ LiveTags ] Quote: from Anonymous at 8:17 pm on Aug. 27, 2008[quote]Quote: from [m]plumc0la[/m] at 11:15 pm on Aug. 27, 2008[quote][color=blue]Don't rush into children just for the sake of having them though. And sorry about the rape thing :sad:[/color][/quote] Yes, I wouldn't even consider it because I know I wouldn't be able to raise a child properly because I'm too young and such.[/quote] FAQ Keyword Search: Post Options Favorites Manager Notify me of new replies to this topic by email Notify me of new replies to this topic by private message Original Post Anonymous Posted at 8:13 pm on Aug. 27, 2008 I have irrational thoughts about having a kid all the time, I really would love one. See, I got raped and then I turned up being pregnant, and I ended up loving the baby entirely and I lost it at four months, so that really upset me. And now when I see a child, I think about how cute they are, and how mine would have looked, and I always get extremely happy and sad at the same time.  Like when I see my sisters baby, she's 9 months old and she is the cutest thing and I baby sit her all the time, but she's just so adorable she makes me sad because I wish that I could've had my baby that was that adorable. Sorry, I'm just complaining.

Replies swtpie Posted at 10:20 am on Aug. 28, 2008 I feel the exact same way. JennyColada Posted at 9:50 am on Aug. 28, 2008 I think your thoughts are more normal than people want to admit. You lost something you loved, and that is always hard to deal with. But you can learn and grow from this. I'm sure you realize that you have the rest of your beautiful life ahead of yours. Being fond of children is great, and no one ever said that you cannot show your love for children on more than just your own child! It's ok to feel close to other children, and kids can always use more friends and playmates. When you find a partner that can help give you your lovely child it will all be worth it, and you'll see there was never anything to be sad about. piemaster Posted at 8:18 pm on Aug. 27, 2008 I'm sorry for your loss. Although it may seem all nice at first, you still must remember the other things that come with a newborn. You must also think of the baby and yourself, you will have to accept the responsibility and be ready for the hard work that is to come. kookykylex3 Posted at 8:17 pm on Aug. 27, 2008 you have babaayfevaa; happens to most girls Anonymous Posted at 8:17 pm on Aug. 27, 2008 Quote: from plumc0la at 11:15 pm on Aug. 27, 2008 Don't rush into children just for the sake of having them though. And sorry about the rape thing Yes, I wouldn't even consider it because I know I wouldn't be able to raise a child properly because I'm too young and such. madrascal32 Posted at 8:16 pm on Aug. 27, 2008 aw that suck,i'm sorry. plumc0la Posted at 8:15 pm on Aug. 27, 2008 Don't rush into children just for the sake of having them though. And sorry about the rape thing rawr41507 Posted at 8:15 pm on Aug. 27, 2008 awwz; thats sad; i sryz yoshiness Posted at 8:14 pm on Aug. 27, 2008 Children are harder then it looks. There's nothing sweet about them beyond infancy. All 9 previous replies displayed.