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Anonymous Posted at 7:38 pm on Sep. 5, 2008
I have already had an abortion and it scared the shit out of me.. so much that i stopped having sex for years. I had sex for the first time in a very long time last week and i was so horny that i didn't care about having a condom. It didn't last that long cause it was with my ex boyfriend and he hasn't fucked anyone in about a year so... yeah well he only stuck it in twice and it was for no longer than 2 or 3 seconds each time..  
he didn't bust until after like 2 minutes of me giving him a hand job.

Heres my problem though.. im not gonna get my period until sometime next week.. i just feel pretty paranoid cause my stomach feels swollen at times.. i feel like i wanna puke, im a little nauseus and i just feel like crap overall

i dont wanna have to go through this shit again.. i havent even called my ex and we were supposed to get back together..

(btw im too young to be having kids, im in college)

idk i need real advice not rude comments.. help  

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dunebug Posted at 10:24 pm on Sep. 5, 2008
Np, good luck!
Anonymous Posted at 8:31 pm on Sep. 5, 2008
Quote: from dunebug at 8:28 pm on Sep. 5, 2008

You wouldn't be feeling symptoms the day after or even a week after. Technically, you're not even pregnant until around 14 days after intercourse. It takes about 5-7 days for the sperm to make it to your tube, if there's an egg there, it takes another 5-7 days for that fertilized egg to get back down the uterus, implant and set off hormones. Until that point, you're not pregnant and have no symptoms.  

So your symptoms are likely a cold, flu, food poisoning or you psyching yourself out, not pregnancy. It's very unlikely that you're pregnant from that alone.


thanks :) i feel much better now.

dunebug Posted at 8:28 pm on Sep. 5, 2008
You wouldn't be feeling symptoms the day after or even a week after. Technically, you're not even pregnant until around 14 days after intercourse. It takes about 5-7 days for the sperm to make it to your tube, if there's an egg there, it takes another 5-7 days for that fertilized egg to get back down the uterus, implant and set off hormones. Until that point, you're not pregnant and have no symptoms.

So your symptoms are likely a cold, flu, food poisoning or you psyching yourself out, not pregnancy. It's very unlikely that you're pregnant from that alone.

XXeasysuicideXX Posted at 8:12 pm on Sep. 5, 2008
the stress is getting to you sit back and chill and wait to c what happens no sense of freaking out when u dont even kno if u have a problem yet
MEnOC Posted at 7:52 pm on Sep. 5, 2008
srsly, be more RESPONSIBLE
mrlupo8 Posted at 7:44 pm on Sep. 5, 2008
another abortion
Anonymous Posted at 7:42 pm on Sep. 5, 2008
Quote: from xsnortingxashesx at 7:39 pm on Sep. 5, 2008

Well, the nasea thing usually starts in the 2-8th week, so that could be a sign. The swollen thing wouldn't have started yet. All of those could also just be PMS as well.

i started feeling all this the day after.

Violagirl19 Posted at 7:41 pm on Sep. 5, 2008
Well... I'm pretty sure that you wouldn't be experiencing any signs of pregnancy after only what... a week or two?  But seriously... after having experienced it before, you should be smart enough to use a friggin condom.  I mean... really it's not like you were so horny that you couldn't stop for a minute.  If you do get pregnant, maybe this time you'll learn your lesson.
Violently Happy Posted at 7:40 pm on Sep. 5, 2008
U wouldn't be pregnant and feelin sick so quick
stop being a puss
guitar lover Posted at 7:40 pm on Sep. 5, 2008
did you consider the day after pill.. but i guess its a little late for that. i hope your okay just try your hardest to not freak out until your periods suppose to come. Best of luck and your very strong for going through that once.
livelaughlove15 Posted at 7:40 pm on Sep. 5, 2008
just breathe u may just be sick...
cuttergirl13 Posted at 7:40 pm on Sep. 5, 2008
its probably just stress
cjromanos Posted at 7:40 pm on Sep. 5, 2008
Im thinking it might be more of a mental thing, especially if he didnt bust until you gave him a handjob
xsnortingxashesx Posted at 7:39 pm on Sep. 5, 2008
Well, the nasea thing usually starts in the 2-8th week, so that could be a sign. The swollen thing wouldn't have started yet. All of those could also just be PMS as well.
theboxman Posted at 7:39 pm on Sep. 5, 2008
then stop letting people stick their penis in your without a condom
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