Quoting Post Archived Topic: It will not be bumped to the top of the forum. Topic Scared of being a disappointment - help Membername   Not a member? Sign Up Free (takes 20 seconds) Password   Forgotten your password? Post Font: Verdana Arial Black Georgia Comic Sans Impact   Size: Tiny Normal Big Huge   Color: Default Dark Red Red Orange Brown Green Olive Cyan Blue Dark Blue Indigo Black [ Check Spelling ] [ Post Preview ] [ LiveTags ] Quote: from Anonymous at 5:14 pm on Sep. 27, 2008[quote]Well when i was pregnant i always agreed to everyone that i would go back to school once i'd had my baby and i want to stick to it so i can make a decent life for us.  My problem is it seems so daunting going back.  Mine and my fiances family all want to see me do well and they all say that they will take turns to babysit while i go back.  I'm not too keen on this idea because i want to be the one to do things with my daughter.  I also breast feed so i'd have to express milk everyday for her which is hard work.  I will have to write about 3 essays every week and i don't know if i can cope with that.  I'm worried about christmas aswell so people have suggested i get a weekend job just to bring in that little extra but i really don't think i would cope.  Before i had my little girl i was always unorganised and the difference she has made in my life is amazing because i can handle things so much better and my life finally has something it never had before and thats routine.  I want to go back to school but i'm so scared i'll end up just giving up and disappointing everyone, because they all have such high expectations.  I just dont know how i'll cope.  Any advice would be greatly appreciated.[/quote] FAQ Keyword Search: Post Options Favorites Manager Notify me of new replies to this topic by email Notify me of new replies to this topic by private message Original Post Anonymous Posted at 5:14 pm on Sep. 27, 2008 Well when i was pregnant i always agreed to everyone that i would go back to school once i'd had my baby and i want to stick to it so i can make a decent life for us.  My problem is it seems so daunting going back.  Mine and my fiances family all want to see me do well and they all say that they will take turns to babysit while i go back.  I'm not too keen on this idea because i want to be the one to do things with my daughter.  I also breast feed so i'd have to express milk everyday for her which is hard work.  I will have to write about 3 essays every week and i don't know if i can cope with that.  I'm worried about christmas aswell so people have suggested i get a weekend job just to bring in that little extra but i really don't think i would cope.  Before i had my little girl i was always unorganised and the difference she has made in my life is amazing because i can handle things so much better and my life finally has something it never had before and thats routine.  I want to go back to school but i'm so scared i'll end up just giving up and disappointing everyone, because they all have such high expectations.  I just dont know how i'll cope.  Any advice would be greatly appreciated.

Replies babybluebitch Posted at 8:23 pm on Sep. 27, 2008 i would go back and try me best . i think you showing that you will atless try will make them happy Skull Princess Posted at 5:23 pm on Sep. 27, 2008 1st off all il say well done cause its nice 2 hear that ur baby has made ur life better not worse, n u wana go back n learn even tho u have a baby n a job. If i were u id just see what happens go 2 school n if it works out great if not then u still have a job 2 fall back on. but if i were u id be screaming my head off so i dnt see how u could dissapoint any1 with everythin ur nothin so far x good luck All 2 previous replies displayed.