Quoting Post Archived Topic: It will not be bumped to the top of the forum. Topic I needcyour opinion. Membername   Not a member? Sign Up Free (takes 20 seconds) Password   Forgotten your password? Post Font: Verdana Arial Black Georgia Comic Sans Impact   Size: Tiny Normal Big Huge   Color: Default Dark Red Red Orange Brown Green Olive Cyan Blue Dark Blue Indigo Black [ Check Spelling ] [ Post Preview ] [ LiveTags ] Quote: from [m]spaz92693[/m] at 8:52 pm on Sep. 27, 2008[quote]Quote: from [m]Googoie[/m] at 10:51 pm on Sep. 27, 2008[quote]I could not bail out on a girl I got pregnant.[/quote] Okay so let's say you're 15 what do you do then?[/quote] FAQ Keyword Search: Post Options Favorites Manager Notify me of new replies to this topic by email Notify me of new replies to this topic by private message Original Post spaz92693 Posted at 8:50 pm on Sep. 27, 2008 If you get a girl pregnant and you know how it feels to go thru life without a dad. Would you move in with her? At what age is it okay to move in? At what stage is it okay to move in?

Replies Shogun villimax Posted at 6:27 pm on Oct. 6, 2008 If you'r 15 and you get a girl pregnant then you should move in with her and her parents and let U.P.N. make your life story into they'r latest sitcom "Fox in the hen house" ajakana Posted at 3:30 pm on Oct. 5, 2008 That's not right because how can some of you guys on here say if I don't love her anymore when you probably already told her you loved her and gassed it up making her believe things you never meant but you can come on here and say I'd be friends with her and do my part as a father then you should have never had sex with her if you weren't going to be with her in case she has a baby, um here's a thought GROW UP you might as well stay with her if you got her pregnant, and just because she is don't mean you have to get married either, I've been throughthis 32 times with guys and been pregnant 9 times don't continue to be a player cause it will bite you in the ass sooner or later swtpie Posted at 2:37 am on Sep. 28, 2008 I wouldn't move in with her just cause she was pregnant. I'd be there as the father. If I loved her, and thinks where going good, I'd consider moving in. Take it slow. Irony Posted at 9:06 pm on Sep. 27, 2008 First, consider whether or not SHE wants you to move in. She probably wants you there with her, sure, but are you sure she wants you to move in? If so, the timing really depends on when she wants you there. You can't decide when you move in with her all on your own, because she certainly has a say too. And I see you said something about being fifteen, and if this is the case, her parents really have the biggest say about you moving in. If she doesn't want you to move in, then definitely offer parent support and joint custody, assuming she's keeping the baby. If not, I personally would convince her to go for adoption, but if she insists on having an abortion (ENTIRELY her idea. You can't stop her if she wants to) then help her pay for it and be there for her before and after, because most women who have abortions do suffer emotionally for years to come after the abortion. silverbullets Posted at 8:57 pm on Sep. 27, 2008 id stay with her figuratively. like. stay friends, and do my part as a father. but only if i didn't love the girl anymore. if i loved her, id move in together adults have babies. and they also support themselves. so id get started on it. Googoie Posted at 8:55 pm on Sep. 27, 2008 Quote: from spaz92693 at 11:52 pm on Sep. 27, 2008 Quote: from Googoie at 10:51 pm on Sep. 27, 2008 I could not bail out on a girl I got pregnant. Okay so let's say you're 15 what do you do then? Um... Y'know, I think I'd just avoid the situation. By being a bit more abstinant. But I stand by what I said initially. spaz92693 Posted at 8:54 pm on Sep. 27, 2008 Quote: from leland515 at 10:52 pm on Sep. 27, 2008 I would talk her into getting an abortion if I wasn't ready for the kid, or I wouldn't put myself in that position to have to choose. I'm completly ready. I had a kid before. I'm fine with her having the kid. I just don't know what to do about the living situation. mikey626 Posted at 8:54 pm on Sep. 27, 2008 ...wow you got yourself a problem there. spaz92693 Posted at 8:52 pm on Sep. 27, 2008 Quote: from Googoie at 10:51 pm on Sep. 27, 2008 I could not bail out on a girl I got pregnant. Okay so let's say you're 15 what do you do then? leland515 Posted at 8:52 pm on Sep. 27, 2008 I would talk her into getting an abortion if I wasn't ready for the kid, or I wouldn't put myself in that position to have to choose. Googoie Posted at 8:51 pm on Sep. 27, 2008 I could not bail out on a girl I got pregnant. All 11 previous replies displayed.