But anyways.. If I was to get my mother to come where I live [she lives in Florida I live in Illinois] and she brought my birth certificate and all that stuff could I go with her to get an abortion, or do I need to go with the one I live with [my dad]. I mean they are both my parents, just one i live with and one lives in florida. And only one parent needs to know right? My mom wouldn't tell him. Would this be able to happen?