Quoting Post Archived Topic: It will not be bumped to the top of the forum. Topic Friends vs Parenting Membername   Not a member? Sign Up Free (takes 20 seconds) Password   Forgotten your password? Post Font: Verdana Arial Black Georgia Comic Sans Impact   Size: Tiny Normal Big Huge   Color: Default Dark Red Red Orange Brown Green Olive Cyan Blue Dark Blue Indigo Black [ Check Spelling ] [ Post Preview ] [ LiveTags ] Quote: from [m]musicfan3[/m] at 7:41 am on Nov. 22, 2008[quote]Quote: from [m]ZOMGimrae[/m] at 7:34 am on Nov. 22, 2008[quote]She's had 9 months to prepare for it. And we've been friends for over 7 years. My baby isnt even 2 weeks old yet, and i havent even recovered from my c-section yet. I just wish she'd understand that we're both sick and i cant be there whenever she wants me to be.[/quote] Well it still is very sudden to have your own kid in life being so young. I mean you'll just have to get over her. This is just another consequence of being a teen mom. Your friend doesn't have to deal with these same consequences so she is gonna be frustrated and upset. [/quote] FAQ Keyword Search: Post Options Favorites Manager Notify me of new replies to this topic by email Notify me of new replies to this topic by private message Original Post ZOMGimrae Posted at 7:24 am on Nov. 22, 2008 I've got a friend who is throwing shit in my face because i didnt go see twilight with her yesterday. Her exact words were " I had to go through all your shit, and i end up getting screwed" To those of you who have seen me post before, you know me AND my baby are both sick and im running about a 100-102 fever. She's mad at me because i cant go out, and i have to stay and take care of my baby. wtf?

Replies musicfan3 Posted at 9:37 pm on Nov. 22, 2008 Quote: from ZOMGimrae at 7:48 am on Nov. 22, 2008 Quote: from musicfan3 at 10:41 am on Nov. 22, 2008 Quote: from ZOMGimrae at 7:34 am on Nov. 22, 2008 She's had 9 months to prepare for it. And we've been friends for over 7 years. My baby isnt even 2 weeks old yet, and i havent even recovered from my c-section yet. I just wish she'd understand that we're both sick and i cant be there whenever she wants me to be.    Well it still is very sudden to have your own kid in life being so young. I mean you'll just have to get over her. This is just another consequence of being a teen mom. Your friend doesn't have to deal with these same consequences so she is gonna be frustrated and upset. If you're thinking im like 15 you're wrong. Oh well you never said you were older and this is a site for teens. But I still think you should tell her your a Mom first and a friend second. On the other hand she could of been understanding about you and your kid's illness and reschedule the movie tickets for another showing. b4bydimplez916 Posted at 8:01 pm on Nov. 22, 2008 a true friend would understand! she sucks as a friend Chiefette Posted at 5:41 pm on Nov. 22, 2008 Tell her to screw off.  You have a responsibility to your daughter, and to take care of yourself.  She should understand that.  If she doesn't, she isn't worth being around. katrinadoodle Posted at 2:30 pm on Nov. 22, 2008 Dump her. Trust me, I've had friends like that - they won't get better. And anyone who tries to make your pregnancy and motherhood all about her isn't that great to begin with. tbonerskylar7 Posted at 7:50 am on Nov. 22, 2008 Geeze. She's being an ass about it. Put it out of mind, let her figure out what she said was wrong. ZOMGimrae Posted at 7:48 am on Nov. 22, 2008 Quote: from musicfan3 at 10:41 am on Nov. 22, 2008 Quote: from ZOMGimrae at 7:34 am on Nov. 22, 2008 She's had 9 months to prepare for it. And we've been friends for over 7 years. My baby isnt even 2 weeks old yet, and i havent even recovered from my c-section yet. I just wish she'd understand that we're both sick and i cant be there whenever she wants me to be. Well it still is very sudden to have your own kid in life being so young. I mean you'll just have to get over her. This is just another consequence of being a teen mom. Your friend doesn't have to deal with these same consequences so she is gonna be frustrated and upset. If you're thinking im like 15 you're wrong. Special Agent Orange Posted at 7:46 am on Nov. 22, 2008 what a bitch...can't she understand that a baby is more important than gay twilight? musicfan3 Posted at 7:41 am on Nov. 22, 2008 Quote: from ZOMGimrae at 7:34 am on Nov. 22, 2008 She's had 9 months to prepare for it. And we've been friends for over 7 years. My baby isnt even 2 weeks old yet, and i havent even recovered from my c-section yet. I just wish she'd understand that we're both sick and i cant be there whenever she wants me to be. Well it still is very sudden to have your own kid in life being so young. I mean you'll just have to get over her. This is just another consequence of being a teen mom. Your friend doesn't have to deal with these same consequences so she is gonna be frustrated and upset. ZOMGimrae Posted at 7:34 am on Nov. 22, 2008 She's had 9 months to prepare for it. And we've been friends for over 7 years. My baby isnt even 2 weeks old yet, and i havent even recovered from my c-section yet. I just wish she'd understand that we're both sick and i cant be there whenever she wants me to be. musicfan3 Posted at 7:28 am on Nov. 22, 2008 Well she's your friend you can't really blame her. She probably doesn't understand all the baggage that comes with you being a mom. She doesn't understand that your a mom first and a friend second. All 10 previous replies displayed.