Quoting Post Archived Topic: It will not be bumped to the top of the forum. Topic Found out. Membername   Not a member? Sign Up Free (takes 20 seconds) Password   Forgotten your password? Post Font: Verdana Arial Black Georgia Comic Sans Impact   Size: Tiny Normal Big Huge   Color: Default Dark Red Red Orange Brown Green Olive Cyan Blue Dark Blue Indigo Black [ Check Spelling ] [ Post Preview ] [ LiveTags ] Quote: from [m]Tr0uble89[/m] at 9:59 am on Dec. 27, 2008[quote]Get a test to make sure you da baby daddy. [/quote] FAQ Keyword Search: Post Options Favorites Manager Notify me of new replies to this topic by email Notify me of new replies to this topic by private message Original Post Muffinman Posted at 9:57 am on Dec. 27, 2008 My ex gf found out she is pregnant with my baby and I am scared shitless I have never been around a baby before and am terrifed! Any suggestions???

Replies beingme Posted at 10:11 am on Dec. 27, 2008       you shouldnt be scared. be a man. you can do it. be thankful!   2kewl4u2know Posted at 10:06 am on Dec. 27, 2008 Well first, don't worry, it's not the end of the world.  It doesn't mean you'll have to completely change your life around, but you will need to make adjustments assuming you really are the father and you intend on having an active role in this child's life. Your first step though would be to make sure she is pregnant.  I've known far too many girls that will fake a pregnancy to either get a man back, or just for attention.  If she is, then it's time for you both to sit down and talk with her parents and your parents all together.  First, she'll need to make the decision of what she's going to do: keep it, abort it, or put it up for adoption.  Then, you need to decide if you'll be involved (if she keeps it), if you two are going to try and work things out together (if not, that's fine, don't worry about it), if you're going to help support the baby monetarily, and so on and so forth. Whatever you do, it'll be a rough next couple of months adjusting.  And if she keeps it, it'll be a bit tougher to do the things you always wanted to do without the responsibility of being a parent.  But like I said, it's not the end of the world, and whatever happens, it will all work out fine. samantha89 Posted at 10:03 am on Dec. 27, 2008 well...time to stand up and be a man about it. you'll learn, everyone isn't a great parent at first but most try to do the best they can chaosdisown Posted at 10:00 am on Dec. 27, 2008 Post from this position was omitted due to content violations Tr0uble89 Posted at 9:59 am on Dec. 27, 2008 Get a test to make sure you da baby daddy. SoaringFalcon2010 Posted at 9:59 am on Dec. 27, 2008 ouch. how old are you? and if you need someone to talk to feel free to pm me. YeahBoii Posted at 9:59 am on Dec. 27, 2008 Post from this position was omitted due to content violations chaosdisown Posted at 9:58 am on Dec. 27, 2008 go on maury and tell him to say, "you are not the babies daddy" i suggest a dna test to make sure you are the father Z o E Posted at 9:58 am on Dec. 27, 2008 how old are you? All 9 previous replies displayed.