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theBeeSS
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Posted at 11:18 am on July 6, 2009 |
| Congrats. But man thats going to be hard. Good luck. |
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macdog
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Posted at 11:03 pm on July 5, 2009 |
| As long as both of you have a good job then its all good in my book. congrats |
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DADDYS LITTLE GIRL
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Posted at 10:51 pm on July 5, 2009 |
| Congrats on the new little one and the one on the way! |
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MamaMockingbird
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Posted at 4:28 pm on July 5, 2009 |
| Why the fuck were you having sex 2 weeks later? I was too damn exhausted to even THINK about sex until 10 weeks PP. |
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SugarSweet90
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Posted at 3:41 pm on July 5, 2009 |
Quote: from Chiefette at 3:35 pm on July 5, 2009
I do hope things go well for you, but I think it would have been war to prevent this since the devastation caused when you experience a miscarriage isn't. 
Yes I didn't plan to get pregnant I was planning to go on BC, and losing a child is terrible so yes, I will be devastate if I lose him or her. For this reason I'm trying to get my body to where it needs to be diet wise because that will help. |
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Chiefette
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Posted at 3:35 pm on July 5, 2009 |
| I do hope things go well for you, but I think it would have been war to prevent this since the devastation caused when you experience a miscarriage isn't. |
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SugarSweet90
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Posted at 3:26 pm on July 5, 2009 |
Yes, well I didn't plan to have back to back pregnancies. It just happened that way. I will take it as it comes, if I miscarry I will be devastated and yes I know the chances are raised. Medically this baby, like Artemis will have the best care we can have. So fingers crossed everything will go well. |
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dunebug
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Posted at 3:19 pm on July 5, 2009 |
| I believe she meant the unborn baby. It's not healthy to have back to back pregnancies. |
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Chiefette
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Posted at 3:18 pm on July 5, 2009 |
| The fact that you got defensive about your quality of life makes me wonder when I was not talking about that at all. Health wise it is not good for you or your unborn child. Your abdominal muscles have not returned to normal and neither has your uterus. That takes months and can cause many problems for both of you. If you are beast feeding chances are you will have to stop. You will have trouble supplying enough nutrients to the three of you. You also pose a high risk for miscarriage. You haven't really given your body time to get back to the way it needs to be. |
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SugarSweet90
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Posted at 2:31 pm on July 5, 2009 |
Quote: from Chiefette at 2:24 pm on July 5, 2009
That isn't really good for you or the baby. If you just had your baby 5 weeks ago you would have had to have sex a week after birth to know already. 
Artemis is 7 weeks old and we had sex 2 weeks after she was born. I don't see how it will be bad for her or me, we have a stable life and and i'm a good mum. |
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Chiefette
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Posted at 2:24 pm on July 5, 2009 |
| That isn't really good for you or the baby. If you just had your baby 5 weeks ago you would have had to have sex a week after birth to know already. |
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Clara Bell
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Posted at 2:07 pm on July 5, 2009 |
Quote: from SugarSweet90 at 5:01 pm on July 5, 2009
Quote: from peace love sunshine at 1:58 pm on July 5, 2009
Quote: from SugarSweet90 at 4:56 pm on July 5, 2009
Quote: from peace love sunshine at 1:54 pm on July 5, 2009
Personally, I think you should have taken some precautions to avoid getting pregnant again. Good luck though. :]
I only found out I was pregnant because of the pregnancy test I had to took when I was being prescribed the pill. I don't mind thought, I always wanted a young family. 
You couldn't have waited? I mean, it doesn't matter now, I'm just curious.
Yea we could have, but you know these thing are spontaneous. Plus I thought cause I was breast feeding it reduced the chances of getting pregnant, which is true but it doesn't work as BC. 
I have read about that, the breastfeeding thing. Good luck with the new baby :] |
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SugarSweet90
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Posted at 2:01 pm on July 5, 2009 |
Quote: from peace love sunshine at 1:58 pm on July 5, 2009
Quote: from SugarSweet90 at 4:56 pm on July 5, 2009
Quote: from peace love sunshine at 1:54 pm on July 5, 2009
Personally, I think you should have taken some precautions to avoid getting pregnant again. Good luck though. :]
I only found out I was pregnant because of the pregnancy test I had to took when I was being prescribed the pill. I don't mind thought, I always wanted a young family. 
You couldn't have waited? I mean, it doesn't matter now, I'm just curious.
Yea we could have, but you know these thing are spontaneous. Plus I thought cause I was breast feeding it reduced the chances of getting pregnant, which is true but it doesn't work as BC. |
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ily13107
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Posted at 1:59 pm on July 5, 2009 |
| Well at least your happy and willing to take care of it. :D |
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Clara Bell
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Posted at 1:58 pm on July 5, 2009 |
Quote: from SugarSweet90 at 4:56 pm on July 5, 2009
Quote: from peace love sunshine at 1:54 pm on July 5, 2009
Personally, I think you should have taken some precautions to avoid getting pregnant again. Good luck though. :]
I only found out I was pregnant because of the pregnancy test I had to took when I was being prescribed the pill. I don't mind thought, I always wanted a young family. 
You couldn't have waited? I mean, it doesn't matter now, I'm just curious. |
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