Quoting Post Archived Topic: It will not be bumped to the top of the forum. Topic Is this normal? Membername   Not a member? Sign Up Free (takes 20 seconds) Password   Forgotten your password? Post Font: Verdana Arial Black Georgia Comic Sans Impact   Size: Tiny Normal Big Huge   Color: Default Dark Red Red Orange Brown Green Olive Cyan Blue Dark Blue Indigo Black [ Check Spelling ] [ Post Preview ] [ LiveTags ] Quote: from [m]Italianlnm[/m] at 9:06 am on July 8, 2009[quote]It is normal. She is becoming a mommy's girl. She knows who takes care of her and provides her with love, food, and a home. It is completely normal for her to cling to you. If she is almost one, she is getting ready to go through the seperation anxiety stage as well.[/quote] FAQ Keyword Search: Post Options Favorites Manager Notify me of new replies to this topic by email Notify me of new replies to this topic by private message Original Post MissPrixy07 Posted at 9:05 am on July 8, 2009 I've noticed that Kai has become very cliny, and attached to me. The same thing with her pacifier. I'm thinking it may have something to do with her being with her father. I'm not trying to keep her away from him, but she spend the weekend there, and now she came back like this. I'm very proud of her, though. She has now learned how to let go of the furniture, and stand by herself. She does that for a couple of seconds, and then she falls on her butt :P

Replies Points Posted at 5:58 pm on July 11, 2009 it's normal. and: awwwwwwwwwwwwwwwww MissPrixy07 Posted at 6:14 pm on July 9, 2009 Quote: from Italianlnm at 5:03 pm on July 9, 2009 Is he paying child support while he is gone? If not, you should file paperwork to have him start paying. That is the least he should do since he won't be there to help with her. I really hate immature teen fathers. He will be paying child support. We don't have to get the law involved, or anything, so we have decided on $42 a week, because he doesn't make all that much. Italianlnm Posted at 2:03 pm on July 9, 2009 Is he paying child support while he is gone? If not, you should file paperwork to have him start paying. That is the least he should do since he won't be there to help with her. I really hate immature teen fathers. heavyrhythm Posted at 2:01 pm on July 9, 2009 It's normal. My son will be 2 in August and he used to be very clingy. He had a pacifier that he used when he was very little and he didn't use it after he turned 1, but he always carried it around. He stopped carrying it around with him about 6 months ago. Don't worry. MissPrixy07 Posted at 1:59 pm on July 9, 2009 Exactly! I've had her since day one, he's not taking her with him to Syracuse. I don't even think he's going to college, I think he's just making up an excuse to justify going away. He told me he'll be down for holidays, but that's it. He's really quite ridiculous. Italianlnm Posted at 1:49 pm on July 9, 2009 Well of Course Not! She needs her mommy! And it is odd, if he was going to college he would even have a place for her.. Well at least he isn't that far away, and can drive down on the weekends to see her. Zac is 8 hours away at the moment. We are flying to see him Friday night. That should be a fun ride.. but I am hoping since the flight is at night the boys will fall asleep. MissPrixy07 Posted at 1:46 pm on July 9, 2009 He's extremely attached to her Grandpas. Both my dad, and Randy's dad. He's moving like 2 1/2 hours away. I guess he's going to college, or that's what he told me. I doubt it, though. I wonder if he's taking his girlfriend, or leaving her, too. He wanted to take Kairi, and I was like NO! Italianlnm Posted at 1:40 pm on July 9, 2009 That is good that you will still have a break sometime, and she can see her grandparents. How faw away will he be? You would think that he wouldn't move away from his baby girl. MissPrixy07 Posted at 1:39 pm on July 9, 2009 It's sad that his daddy's not there with him, but at least it's for a good cause. I honestly don't know how Kairi is going to deal when Randy moves, next month. His dad and step-mom offered to take his place, though, so I still won't have her all the time. Italianlnm Posted at 1:36 pm on July 9, 2009 Yeah.. I ignore him sometimes to, but I pick him up others because I know the only reason he is doing this is because Zac is gone. He is such a Daddy's boy. MissPrixy07 Posted at 1:35 pm on July 9, 2009 Aw, that's so cute! Kairi is so clingy, lately. Luckily, though, I can put her down, and she's fine, as long as she knows I'm still right there. If I put her down in the other room, and I walk away, she starts SCREAMING. I try to ignore her, because she's going to have to get used to me not being able to be with 24/7, but she throws herself on the floor, and holds her breath, and I have to pick her up. Italianlnm Posted at 1:24 pm on July 9, 2009 Quote: from MissPrixy07 at 3:21 pm on July 9, 2009 Quote: from Italianlnm at 9:11 am on July 9, 2009 Quote: from MissPrixy07 at 8:50 pm on July 8, 2009 Quote: from Italianlnm at 12:10 pm on July 8, 2009 Yeah. She is going to start going through the stage where she doesn't want her mom to leave, and she always wants you to hold her and stuff. Roper is in that stage right now. He is sitting on my lap right playing with blocks. If I put him down he starts screaming.   He doesn't hit the keys?! I can never have Kai on my lap when I'm on the computer. Even if I keep the keyboard is pushed in, she still pushes buttons :P    Occasionally but he is more content playing with his blocks and stuff. I give her my cell phone to play with, and she's not even happy with that! He is pretty easy to please. Loves his little cars to play with. And he loves these stuffed block things. But lately I can't put him down with out starting to scream so I sort of have to deal with it. I think it is because usually he is a daddy's boy, but Zac isn't here and he misses Zac. But since we are going to visit him this weekend maybe it will help a little. MissPrixy07 Posted at 12:21 pm on July 9, 2009 Quote: from Italianlnm at 9:11 am on July 9, 2009 Quote: from MissPrixy07 at 8:50 pm on July 8, 2009 Quote: from Italianlnm at 12:10 pm on July 8, 2009 Yeah. She is going to start going through the stage where she doesn't want her mom to leave, and she always wants you to hold her and stuff. Roper is in that stage right now. He is sitting on my lap right playing with blocks. If I put him down he starts screaming.    He doesn't hit the keys?! I can never have Kai on my lap when I'm on the computer. Even if I keep the keyboard is pushed in, she still pushes buttons :P Occasionally but he is more content playing with his blocks and stuff. I give her my cell phone to play with, and she's not even happy with that! Italianlnm Posted at 6:11 am on July 9, 2009 Quote: from MissPrixy07 at 8:50 pm on July 8, 2009 Quote: from Italianlnm at 12:10 pm on July 8, 2009 Yeah. She is going to start going through the stage where she doesn't want her mom to leave, and she always wants you to hold her and stuff. Roper is in that stage right now. He is sitting on my lap right playing with blocks. If I put him down he starts screaming. He doesn't hit the keys?! I can never have Kai on my lap when I'm on the computer. Even if I keep the keyboard is pushed in, she still pushes buttons :P Occasionally but he is more content playing with his blocks and stuff. DADDYS LITTLE GIRL Posted at 9:52 pm on July 8, 2009 clingy is normal at her age. cute pic =] Most recent 15 of 26 previous replies displayed.