Quoting Post Archived Topic: It will not be bumped to the top of the forum. Topic I'm getting a abortion Membername   Not a member? Sign Up Free (takes 20 seconds) Password   Forgotten your password? Post Font: Verdana Arial Black Georgia Comic Sans Impact   Size: Tiny Normal Big Huge   Color: Default Dark Red Red Orange Brown Green Olive Cyan Blue Dark Blue Indigo Black [ Check Spelling ] [ Post Preview ] [ LiveTags ] Quote: from [mod]JennyColada[/mod] at 3:20 pm on June 16, 2008[quote]Quote: from [m]RedNoir[/m] at 1:43 pm on June 16, 2008[quote]Before you have an abortion, they do an ultrasound, so that you can see your baby before you get rid of it.   [/quote] They didn't do that for me. I'm sure I could have asked to look, but I'd prefer not to. Let me find an older post of mine, I described it as best as I could, and I'm too lazy to type it out again. Edit: Ok, well, due to older posts being all messed up, I suppose I shall try to type it all again. This is going to be long, and as informational as I can recall spur-of-the-moment: I found out I was pregnant and I called Planned Parenthood to make an appointment. I went in, filled out paperwork, and they did do an ultrasound. I was 2 weeks farther along that I thought I was (from the blood test I got at the doctor's office), but that was fine. They inserted this tampon-like thing that would expand so that they would be able to more easily remove the fetus. The doctor told me it would be uncomfortable (it was), but that if I drink plenty of water that it will be easier (since the tampon thing expanded by sucking up moisture from my body). I felt very nauseated, and nearly threw up in the deli (I got lunch after my appointment with my ride). At home that night I felt horrible. I felt like I wanted to throw up, I had cramps, I laid in bed all day and missed class. I had a friend help me write an essay (since it hurt too much to sit up). I went back the next day (had the option of going back the next day or next week). I also got some pills to fight infection. I took those pills on an empty stomach and remember throwing up in my ride's car. That was probably the most embarassing ever. I felt horrible. Not only was my friend having to miss class to drive her pregnant friend to the doctor, but I had to use a cup to vomit in her car. I felt like the worst person on the planet just then. I got to the doctor's the second day, waiting in the waiting room, then I got taken back to the back waiting room. I was pretty much sitting around with 8 other ladies who were all supposed to get abortions. I got an IV to replace fluids (first and only time I can remember getting one). I remember that I was the last girl to have my procedure, so I spent plenty of time alone, and watching other girls walk to go do what I knew I'd be doing in just a couple of hours. Eventually, after what felt like forever, I got taken into the doctor's room where I took off my pants and put on a gown. I laid down on a bed, and as they started to change my IV I started to cry. I'm not even sure why. I was scared, I felt alone, I was released. One of the nurses started running her fingers through my hair and whispering that I'd be ok. That was the most touching moment of my life, even to this day. That was exactly what I needed at that moment, and luckily it is also the last thing I remember before falling asleep. I woke up, and felt like days had passed. I mumbled to someone walking by "what time is it" and she told me that it's been 15 minutes since I went in, and to feel free to lay down some more. I did, and then a nurse helped me to the restroom where she helped me change my underwear and put on a large pad for any bleeding as well as my pants. I got some painkillers (which I didn't need to use) as well as birth control and plenty of packets explaining risks and warning signs, and who to call in case of anything that could go wrong. Physically, I did not feel badly at all. Whether it was real, or just in my head, my belly felt like it was more empty than before. I was not in pain, just a little woozy. I was fine to walk, called my ride, and went home. I didn't have any paid, scaring, bleeding, or any complications. I can still have children, and am current still on birth control pills. I get regular gynocological checkups and take my health (both reproductive and otherwise) very seriously. Having an abortion is definitely something that I think about every day. I worry about what I would do if I had to make the same choice again. I worry how future romantic partners will react. Will they think I'm a horrible person? Will they leave me? Will they hate me? I worry that, if I don't tell them soon enough, that I'm not being honest. I worry that if I tell them too soon that I will ruin what we have as a relationship. Very rarely do I think about how my life would be different if I had a child, as I love my life child-free. I have never regretted my decision, as I am 100% sure that I made the right one. I have never suffered from depression due to my abortion, nor any other mental anguish. All in all, it went very well, and it is because I was able to make that choice that I have become who I am today, and I love who I am today. For the record, it cost me $710 out of pocket. Let me know if you have any other questions.[/quote] FAQ Keyword Search: Post Options Favorites Manager Notify me of new replies to this topic by email Notify me of new replies to this topic by private message Original Post Anonymous Posted at 1:26 pm on June 16, 2008 i was wondering what all they do before you go under. And what were your experinces when you had one.. i cant keep the child me and the father dont talk  he ran off 4 states away and i cant pay for a child by myself.

Replies RainBowBow Posted at 4:02 pm on June 28, 2008 Well, all i can say is good luck MaryLin Posted at 12:14 pm on June 28, 2008 Quote: from Anonymous at 11:31 pm on June 16, 2008 just a bunch of stuff im 15 almost 16 and the guy was 19 and i just dont want my parents finding out and him going to jail i still love him. Wouldn't you need a parent's consent to get an abortion? aka mama Posted at 12:13 pm on June 28, 2008 I was uncomfortable for a few days but nothing dramatic. It felt like regular menstrual craps. It is true that it cost a pretty penny to get an abortion. aka mama Posted at 12:08 pm on June 28, 2008 I support you on your decision. It's easy for some people to tell you that you should go with adoption. But honestly in my personal opinion aborting the pregnancy is emotionally easier. I had an abortion at 14. It was simple, but my mother was with me because you have to have consent in my state if your under 18. They explain everything first. then they do an ultrasound to make sure you are able to abort the pregnancy. They have you sign a paper saying you consent to the abortion. and then they get you dressed for surgery. I was put to sleep. and when I woke up I was given something to drink and some crackers and my mom took me home to rest. teacherlinks Posted at 11:37 am on June 28, 2008 I had an abortion years ago. It stays with me to this day. I regret what I did and wish I was not so hasty in my decision. No my best friends are looking to adopt. They have been trying for years to have a baby of their own. If you are interested in having your baby and putting it up for adoption, please post. They are a loving couple, with an attorney and home inspection on the way. <br> I wish he wuz mine3R Posted at 3:09 pm on June 19, 2008 well just be prepared for a lot of emotion and pshyical pain. honestly ive never had an abortion but one of my closest friends had 2 and after her second one she kept having dreams about her baby. now shes in a mental institution. JennyColada Posted at 11:35 am on June 19, 2008 Quote: from IamMelissa at 12:37 am on June 18, 2008 and not even considering adoption makes you childish about the whole situation. Maybe she did consider it. Just because she isn't leaning towards the choice that you like the most doesn't mean that she's being childish about it. Choosing to have an abortion is a big step, and instead of running out to find the cheapest one she's actually asking for input, which is quite a mature thing to do. I am luvly Posted at 1:36 am on June 18, 2008 Quote: from interested2010 at 3:33 pm on June 16, 2008 please dont kill the baby! put it up for adoption! let it live! it has feeling to! if your a christian put it this way.   when u get to heaven and see that child up there how can u face it? how will u explain to it why u killed it? It is her choice, and she has obviously already made it. Be supportive of her decision, don't make it harder for her. Just shut your trap. And to all of the people asking her to change her mind, be quiet. She did not ask you to argue her. The question here is not of what she should do. So hush and answer her question, don't play "I art holier than thou." And for the poster, here is a site that will help you learn what you need. http://www.americanpregnancy.org/unplannedpregnancy/surgicalabortions.html IamMelissa Posted at 12:37 am on June 18, 2008 just because u were stupid doesn't mean you have to punish a child. hell, your still a fucking child. and not even considering adoption makes you childish about the whole situation. you r more worried about ur parents being angry at you then the life you made. I'm pretty fucking sure ur parents would be more pissed at the fact that u killed someone then knowing ur pregnant. swtpie Posted at 4:28 am on June 17, 2008 Quote: from Anonymous at 1:31 pm on June 16, 2008 just a bunch of stuff im 15 almost 16 and the guy was 19 and i just dont want my parents finding out and him going to jail i still love him. How can you love him if he ran off? I don't know what they do, but you can sit down with the doctor and talk first. beepchoc Posted at 4:21 am on June 17, 2008 Taken from net doctor A surgical termination can be performed up to 13 weeks. This may be performed under local or a general anaesthetic. A sterile tube is introduced into the uterus through the cervix. Suction is applied through the tube and the pregnancy terminated. Most women leave hospital on the same day. Im glad you have you'r heart set on it rather than asking what you should do. If you don't feel like you can handle it then It's up to you. Good luck. Mieux Posted at 6:22 pm on June 16, 2008 Quote: from sunflower915 at 9:19 pm on June 16, 2008 Quote: from Black Sheep at 1:31 pm on June 16, 2008 Quote: from Lewdness at 4:26 pm on June 16, 2008 Would you consider putting the baby up for adoption?    Do you know how many kids put up for adoption don't get adopted? actuellyyyyy theres like a million people waititng ot adopt babies maybe in like foriegn countries and stuff but im america people are liek fighting to adopt newborn babies I'm sure there are plenty of people that want to adopt, but there are more children up for adoption than there are people who want to adopt. Not to mention, adoption is a lengthy process, expensive, and strict. Not every person meets the criteria. sunflower915 Posted at 6:19 pm on June 16, 2008 Quote: from Black Sheep at 1:31 pm on June 16, 2008 Quote: from Lewdness at 4:26 pm on June 16, 2008 Would you consider putting the baby up for adoption? Do you know how many kids put up for adoption don't get adopted? actuellyyyyy theres like a million people waititng ot adopt babies maybe in like foriegn countries and stuff but im america people are liek fighting to adopt newborn babies ilovethatbiotch Posted at 5:52 pm on June 16, 2008 i recently went through this so please pm to talk. Super Tuesday Posted at 4:33 pm on June 16, 2008 Here, I found some information on abortion you might like. Sorry it took so long to find. Also, the user said you can message her anytime if you have anymore questions. http://www.golivewire.com/forums/peer-ipsyno-support-oa.html#34 Most recent 15 of 50 previous replies displayed.