Quoting Post Archived Topic: It will not be bumped to the top of the forum. Topic I hate this feeling. Membername   Not a member? Sign Up Free (takes 20 seconds) Password   Forgotten your password? Post Font: Verdana Arial Black Georgia Comic Sans Impact   Size: Tiny Normal Big Huge   Color: Default Dark Red Red Orange Brown Green Olive Cyan Blue Dark Blue Indigo Black [ Check Spelling ] [ Post Preview ] [ LiveTags ] Quote: from [m]SaintKris[/m] at 11:10 pm on Aug. 10, 2008[quote]I'm in a situation like yours. But the girl I love is 2,000 miles away and her phone won't receive my texts...or calls. Lifes a bitch.... Try doing stuff to keep your mind off it.... like I skateboard, or play Xbox live when I'm down. Calms my nerves....Hang in there man...its all going to be okay... Trust me.[/quote] FAQ Keyword Search: Post Options Favorites Manager Notify me of new replies to this topic by email Notify me of new replies to this topic by private message Original Post Anonymous Posted at 11:01 pm on Aug. 10, 2008 I'm so miserable. I love my friend so much, I've never felt so strongly about someone in my entire life. But she's dating another guy, ever since last Monday she's been dating another one of her friends. She knows how I feel about her, she's known almost the entire time. There's so much I want to tell her, so much I want to say, and I know I can't say it. It's so damn hard to deal with this. The only way I can think about her and not want to start crying is if I'm extremely high, which I won't be able to be until at least Thursday or Friday at the best. -_- The worst part is, I want them to break up. I feel like such a horrible person for wanting it. What kind of horrible person wants his friend, the girl he loves, to be unhappy? I'm a horrible friend, and a horrible person for wanting it. I want her to be happy, I do. I just wish I could be the one...

Replies Anonymous Posted at 7:57 am on Aug. 11, 2008 I've gotten over her before, in a sense, when we had a two month falling out. When we started talking again all my old feelings for her came back. I'm not going to try to break them up, I could never do that to her. I love her so much, and I'd give anything to see her happy. I just wish I could be the one who makes her happy. If I tried to break them up she'd hate me for it, and I can't stand the thought of losing her again. SaintKris Posted at 11:21 pm on Aug. 10, 2008 Quote: from im with stupid at 11:10 pm on Aug. 10, 2008 I understand how you feel about liking a friend. I went though it as well. It is something that you really don't want to happen, but you feel that it is just meant to be that way. If she is dating another guy, then you really shouldn't break them up. You can want them to break up, but don't. If she found out, she would be really mad and hostile toward you, and that would not be good at all. She would never go out with you if you did that to them. Most relationships do come to an end, and I highly doubt that this is an exception. Wait for them to break up. You may get over her in the process, and you can start up your life again. That is the time when you should tell those things to her. She will be more caring toward you if you wait. Don't let the right time pass by though. I did that, and I regret it so much. Drugs are not the way to solve your problem, you just need to find a way to get your mind off of her. You can listen to music, play video games, watch TV, or the one that worked best for me - exercising. You aren't a horrible friend for this. Those feelings can get in the way of your life and can cause you to think some things that you never thought that you would think ever before. I have been there. It is not good. The best way to solve this is just to get over her. This takes a while and a lot of perseverance, but I did it, and I am sure that you can to. I have been through this before, and I know that it is hard, but if you really try, you can get over this. If you want to talk further, you can always PM me. Extremely intellegent answer. I have much respect towards you. acausedelle Posted at 11:10 pm on Aug. 10, 2008 I understand how you feel about liking a friend. I went though it as well. It is something that you really don't want to happen, but you feel that it is just meant to be that way. If she is dating another guy, then you really shouldn't break them up. You can want them to break up, but don't. If she found out, she would be really mad and hostile toward you, and that would not be good at all. She would never go out with you if you did that to them. Most relationships do come to an end, and I highly doubt that this is an exception. Wait for them to break up. You may get over her in the process, and you can start up your life again. That is the time when you should tell those things to her. She will be more caring toward you if you wait. Don't let the right time pass by though. I did that, and I regret it so much. Drugs are not the way to solve your problem, you just need to find a way to get your mind off of her. You can listen to music, play video games, watch TV, or the one that worked best for me - exercising. You aren't a horrible friend for this. Those feelings can get in the way of your life and can cause you to think some things that you never thought that you would think ever before. I have been there. It is not good. The best way to solve this is just to get over her. This takes a while and a lot of perseverance, but I did it, and I am sure that you can to. I have been through this before, and I know that it is hard, but if you really try, you can get over this. If you want to talk further, you can always PM me. SaintKris Posted at 11:10 pm on Aug. 10, 2008 I'm in a situation like yours. But the girl I love is 2,000 miles away and her phone won't receive my texts...or calls. Lifes a bitch.... Try doing stuff to keep your mind off it.... like I skateboard, or play Xbox live when I'm down. Calms my nerves....Hang in there man...its all going to be okay... Trust me. Anonymous Posted at 11:07 pm on Aug. 10, 2008 I don't want to wait. I just want to be the guy she can't stop thinking about. I want to be the guy who she can't wait to see, and who she goes to when something's wrong. I want to be her shoulder to cry on and to be her best friend. I want to hold her in my arms and I want to be the guy she wants to be held by. I love her so much, and I know I can never be with her... Demfings Posted at 11:05 pm on Aug. 10, 2008 im there im in love with my best friend and shes been dateing this guy for awhile and she knows how i feel and i really wish that they would just break up but i felt bad for thinking that but dude its human nature to be like that so don't feel bad for feeling like that Neon Lights Posted at 11:04 pm on Aug. 10, 2008 i know man, but be happy you can see her, some of us cant see or talk to the ones we love... ranman Posted at 11:02 pm on Aug. 10, 2008 I'm sorry dude I know how you feel... Just stick it out and wait for that dick to break up with her and then be the shoulder she can cry on. All 8 previous replies displayed.