Quoting Post Archived Topic: It will not be bumped to the top of the forum. Topic What Do You Think? Membername   Not a member? Sign Up Free (takes 20 seconds) Password   Forgotten your password? Post Font: Verdana Arial Black Georgia Comic Sans Impact   Size: Tiny Normal Big Huge   Color: Default Dark Red Red Orange Brown Green Olive Cyan Blue Dark Blue Indigo Black [ Check Spelling ] [ Post Preview ] [ LiveTags ] Quote: from [m]fleastar[/m] at 4:57 pm on Sep. 8, 2008[quote]yup[/quote] FAQ Keyword Search: Post Options Favorites Manager Notify me of new replies to this topic by email Notify me of new replies to this topic by private message Original Post La La1 Posted at 4:56 pm on Sep. 8, 2008 Do you think calling another man "sexy" is considered cheating if your in a relationship? What do YOU think is the difference from flirting and cheating?

Replies eyewonder Posted at 5:21 pm on Sep. 8, 2008 I think that's a very disrespectful thing to do in a relationship. JennyColada Posted at 5:01 pm on Sep. 8, 2008 What is and what is not cheating really depends on what the rules are of your individual relationship. Many couples do not feel comfortable having their partner openly (or even secretly) feel a desire or attractiveness to other people. For me and my relationship, this is not the case. My partner and I are very open and understanding (and we've even agreed that we would like to try threesomes and stuff of that nature, which many couples would not be ok with). Personally, I feel it would be quite immature and overly sensitive to feel that simply seeing attractive qualities in someone else (i.e. calling them sexy) would be cheating. Flirting and cheating, for some, are synonymous. For others, they are far from each other. I am fine with my boyfriend flirting, in fact, sometimes I even like it and want him to do so. Many couples would not agree with me, and your couple may be in that category, but that is not something anywhere here can answer for you. Many of it is trial and error. Understanding how sensitive your partner is is an ongoing process. Learning what upsets him (or her) and what they seem to be ok with is not something done overnight. That is why relationships blossom as they continue. Talking about your worries and desires with your partner is, I feel, very important. Accidentally making a mistake that deeply hurts your partner and can forever ruin your relationship, well that's no fun. In short: My personaly opinion is that finding someone attractive is ok, so long as you are honest about it. Dishonesty is generally not something that your partner will be ok with. Even though I may be open and ok with my partner flirting and doing more, if I were to find out that he were HIDING doing those things from me I would still be very upset. wingedmisery Posted at 5:01 pm on Sep. 8, 2008 Quote: from DemolitionxXxLover at 4:57 pm on Sep. 8, 2008 That is NOT cheating. You can think whatever you want, but when you act on your thoughts it's cheating. I agree with this RandomBoy34 Posted at 4:59 pm on Sep. 8, 2008 thats not cheating o.o TBMP Posted at 4:58 pm on Sep. 8, 2008 Quote: from Psychosocial at 4:56 pm on Sep. 8, 2008 its not cheating. kissing, fondling, sexual contact is cheating. this LEONIDOS Posted at 4:57 pm on Sep. 8, 2008 not really xxmaggpiexx Posted at 4:57 pm on Sep. 8, 2008 flirting- no physical contact cheating- physical contact DemolitionxXxLover Posted at 4:57 pm on Sep. 8, 2008 That is NOT cheating. You can think whatever you want, but when you act on your thoughts it's cheating. PrincesSita Posted at 4:57 pm on Sep. 8, 2008 no, thats not cheating. If flirting is taken too far though then yea it can be cheating. fleastar Posted at 4:57 pm on Sep. 8, 2008 yup sarah is hot Posted at 4:56 pm on Sep. 8, 2008 Not really. Thats just complimenting him. And the difference is if you actually do something with the guy. Psychosocial Posted at 4:56 pm on Sep. 8, 2008 its not cheating, kissing, fondling, sexual contact is cheating. A Milli Posted at 4:56 pm on Sep. 8, 2008 That is CHEATING, bitch. All 13 previous replies displayed.