Quoting Post Archived Topic: It will not be bumped to the top of the forum. Topic I need advice in a serious way...POINTS to be rewarded Membername   Not a member? Sign Up Free (takes 20 seconds) Password   Forgotten your password? Post Font: Verdana Arial Black Georgia Comic Sans Impact   Size: Tiny Normal Big Huge   Color: Default Dark Red Red Orange Brown Green Olive Cyan Blue Dark Blue Indigo Black [ Check Spelling ] [ Post Preview ] [ LiveTags ] Quote: from [m]Tinabelle[/m] at 7:23 pm on Nov. 12, 2008[quote] ok not to make this sound weird but I've really always wanted to say this.  I'm the kind of person where I love my own spacer and the thought of having to settle down with someone, like date or live with or spend the rest of my life with (not like married but whatever) kinda makes me not really want to.  Because I'm not good at committing to things.  But I could see myself doing that with you bud.  Like if you were to say "lets move to NYC" or the beach, I'd be right there.  I'm serious.  I'm not just saying that to make you feel better.  I'm serious. lol I'm sure that sounds crazy, but that's a big deal for me.  I never thought I'd feel that way towards anyone. ^^^^What did he mean by that? (A TXT message I recieved from my best friend of 7 years today.) Best and most logical answer will recieve half my points.[/quote] FAQ Keyword Search: Post Options Favorites Manager Notify me of new replies to this topic by email Notify me of new replies to this topic by private message Original Post Tinabelle Posted at 7:23 pm on Nov. 12, 2008 ok not to make this sound weird but I've really always wanted to say this.  I'm the kind of person where I love my own spacer and the thought of having to settle down with someone, like date or live with or spend the rest of my life with (not like married but whatever) kinda makes me not really want to.  Because I'm not good at committing to things.  But I could see myself doing that with you bud.  Like if you were to say "lets move to NYC" or the beach, I'd be right there.  I'm serious.  I'm not just saying that to make you feel better.  I'm serious. lol I'm sure that sounds crazy, but that's a big deal for me.  I never thought I'd feel that way towards anyone. ^^^^What did he mean by that? (A TXT message I recieved from my best friend of 7 years today.) Best and most logical answer will recieve half my points.

Replies 9 Volt Posted at 7:33 pm on Nov. 12, 2008 Quote: from drifting at 7:30 pm on Nov. 12, 2008 Hes insanely crazily infatuated with you, possibly even loves you. He probably really does think you are the greatest person alive (can you blame him? haha). Uhm, more so hes in love with you. But not that weird "You are so fucking hot, I just want to fuck you tons" way, but in the "Wow, you are the most amazing person I have ever known, and I would do anything for you. I would walk half way across the world just to see you. Just being in the same vicinity of you makes my day" kinda way. He would change his very being, if it would make you happy. This! <3 brickster2008 Posted at 7:30 pm on Nov. 12, 2008 He could see being with you, if he had the chance to be with you. He is asking if you would want to be with him...wants to take a chance with you. Pretty freakin' adorable! drifting Posted at 7:30 pm on Nov. 12, 2008 Hes insanely crazily infatuated with you, possibly even loves you. He probably really does think you are the greatest person alive (can you blame him? haha). Uhm, more so hes in love with you. But not that weird "You are so fucking hot, I just want to fuck you tons" way, but in the "Wow, you are the most amazing person I have ever known, and I would do anything for you. I would walk half way across the world just to see you. Just being in the same vicinity of you makes my day" kinda way. He would change his very being, if it would make you happy. RubberTrees Posted at 7:29 pm on Nov. 12, 2008 Basically, he really sees something in you and is hoping that you see something in him.  He just confessed his "love" for you, tbh.   Gabriel Gray Posted at 7:29 pm on Nov. 12, 2008 Well quite obviously your friend is confessing their feelings towards you. It means that you are the first person they believe that they could settle down with and spend the rest of their life with. The only confusing statement would be "(not like married but whatever)" which leaves an open end, you would have to elaborate with them on it as there are many different possibilities. You just need to ask yourself if you like them in the same way... Either way, I do advise you both talk about it and set things straight and take them in the direction best suited for both of you. TeaPotHead Posted at 7:28 pm on Nov. 12, 2008 you're soul mates he thinks so weather you love him back emotionally or physically is unimportant because your love is friendship, is of the soul he's saying that even if things never change, or change totally he always wants you in his life what a nice sentiment Lady Catastrophic Posted at 7:28 pm on Nov. 12, 2008 He is in love with you, really, it is fucking cute. MXfreak Posted at 7:28 pm on Nov. 12, 2008 he likes you Mifan Posted at 7:28 pm on Nov. 12, 2008 Considering he's your best friend of 7 years, he must only be appreciating your friendship, saying that it's so great that he could go anywhere with you. But based on the first part he could be actually destroying the whole friendship thing and is telling you that, ehm... it is worth to commit the mistake of asking you out, even if it goes against my most common ideas. So he's forgetting about his first ideas because of you. 9 Volt Posted at 7:27 pm on Nov. 12, 2008 Methinks your friend likes you dearly and probably wants to be...closer to you. Only problem is, your friend has some conflicts with himself, and he's letting you know. I think he is telling you this for the sake of you knowing, and so you can help him work out his problems. I think he wants to love you as well, but he may be afraid that if you two become lovers, something may happen to where you two can't be lovers anymore, and that strong friendship you two had will crumble completely. You're a very important person to him. I mean, 7 years, that's a keeper! GoliathJustin Posted at 7:27 pm on Nov. 12, 2008 Again, He likes (loves maybe) He was giving you a code of some sort. It of course means he wants you in his life for good :) lucid dreams19 Posted at 7:26 pm on Nov. 12, 2008 he just really likes you. He probably didn't have the courage to say it anytime he knew you or even in person but he finally did. He feels about you like he hasn't about anyone else and just wants to be with you. Your the first person he has ever seen himself with for a long time. haha you should be flattered, and hopefully you like him too i think i got it right, i knwo this feeling haha GoliathJustin Posted at 7:25 pm on Nov. 12, 2008 I think when a guy says that most likely he means it. He wants you to be with him forever and ever. If you love him as much as he loves you. You should do what ever you want to do.... Whether it's move with him or not. Your call. bratalvarado Posted at 7:25 pm on Nov. 12, 2008 he wants 2 move with u u should go dumb ass S K A Posted at 7:25 pm on Nov. 12, 2008 Are you blonde? He likes you. Most recent 15 of 18 previous replies displayed.