Quoting Post Archived Topic: It will not be bumped to the top of the forum. Topic What words to put it in? Membername   Not a member? Sign Up Free (takes 20 seconds) Password   Forgotten your password? Post Font: Verdana Arial Black Georgia Comic Sans Impact   Size: Tiny Normal Big Huge   Color: Default Dark Red Red Orange Brown Green Olive Cyan Blue Dark Blue Indigo Black [ Check Spelling ] [ Post Preview ] [ LiveTags ] Quote: from [m]Megathrax[/m] at 10:12 pm on Nov. 17, 2008[quote]What I was thinking of doing, was to take her to a get-together at a friend's house (that we usually go to every other weekend) and taking her to the side of the house, and saying stuff like how I have a lot of feelings for her, and that I've always felt a connection with her that I haven't felt with a girl in a long time... stuff like that. Hopefully it doesn't blow up in my face. What would be the right thing to do if she rejects me; I'm thinking just thank her for being honest and say that I'd still like to be friends... I really don't have much experience with girls at all so I'd appreciate any other advice from anyone.[/quote] FAQ Keyword Search: Post Options Favorites Manager Notify me of new replies to this topic by email Notify me of new replies to this topic by private message Original Post Megathrax Posted at 8:41 pm on Nov. 17, 2008 I've developed some pretty serious feelings for this girl I've been talking to a lot the past month or so. I feel a connection with her, and we practically talk about everything. I want to tell her how I feel, that I like her and everything, but I don't know what words to put it in. I don't just want to come out and say "I like you, wanna start going out?" cause obviously that won't end well. I don't know how she feels about me, so I don't want to say the wrong thing. Anyone got some suggestions or advice as to what I should say to her? Another thing is, she gets uncomfortable/awkward pretty easily, so that's another reason why I want to know what I'm gonna say.

Replies nik1 Posted at 12:35 am on Nov. 18, 2008 Don't make a big deal out of it.  Forget the word date.  Just tell her that you feel like a good movie...would she go with you.   Or, ask her to go for ice cream or dessert with you and make it a fun evening with her....laughs, talk about silly incidental things and surprise her with a walk in the park, skating, bowling...something she won't forget.  Don't talk about anything related to like, love, your feelings about her.  If you make her feel she is really special by respecting, listening and talking her like she the most important person in the world she will not forget and want to go again.   Nothing freaky! Megathrax Posted at 10:12 pm on Nov. 17, 2008 What I was thinking of doing, was to take her to a get-together at a friend's house (that we usually go to every other weekend) and taking her to the side of the house, and saying stuff like how I have a lot of feelings for her, and that I've always felt a connection with her that I haven't felt with a girl in a long time... stuff like that. Hopefully it doesn't blow up in my face. What would be the right thing to do if she rejects me; I'm thinking just thank her for being honest and say that I'd still like to be friends... I really don't have much experience with girls at all so I'd appreciate any other advice from anyone. Alice Cullen Posted at 8:53 pm on Nov. 17, 2008 Uh I don't know maybe read her something from Shakespeare and throw rocks at her window until she looks out the window and tell her you love her ... I know it's old school but romantic that's what girls dig LucidAssassin Posted at 8:53 pm on Nov. 17, 2008 try to slide something hidden in it so it feels normal Synthetic Posted at 8:43 pm on Nov. 17, 2008 Laugh with her to make her settle and I would suprise her with an idea like going out to do something, then the idea can be hers. All 5 previous replies displayed.