Quoting Post Archived Topic: It will not be bumped to the top of the forum. Topic bf problems... Membername   Not a member? Sign Up Free (takes 20 seconds) Password   Forgotten your password? Post Font: Verdana Arial Black Georgia Comic Sans Impact   Size: Tiny Normal Big Huge   Color: Default Dark Red Red Orange Brown Green Olive Cyan Blue Dark Blue Indigo Black [ Check Spelling ] [ Post Preview ] [ LiveTags ] Quote: from [m]filthh[/m] at 8:41 pm on Nov. 18, 2008[quote]i just really need to vent about this. so the other night i was chillin with my boyfriend at my house. and i guess he was really bored so i tried to think of something to do. couldn't really think of anything so he calls me boring. and he was serious. so i was like "whatever i guess" i know i'm not a boring person. but the other night i got really drunk and apparently kinda loud. so i tried my best to quiet down cuz everyone was sleeping in the house. so i started whisper-talking. and then he straight up yelled at me and called me annoying. like...apparently i was getting on his nerves or something. which i found to be kinda rude. a "hey be quiet everyone is sleeping" would be sufficient. and he's like, pretty much been ignoring my calls all day and it's really getting to me. i'm like, freaking in love with this kid and i don't wanna lose him. he's never been as rude as he has been lately to me in all the 8 months we've been dating. :sad: i just don't know what to think. [/quote] FAQ Keyword Search: Post Options Favorites Manager Notify me of new replies to this topic by email Notify me of new replies to this topic by private message Original Post filthh Posted at 8:41 pm on Nov. 18, 2008 i just really need to vent about this. so the other night i was chillin with my boyfriend at my house. and i guess he was really bored so i tried to think of something to do. couldn't really think of anything so he calls me boring. and he was serious. so i was like "whatever i guess" i know i'm not a boring person. but the other night i got really drunk and apparently kinda loud. so i tried my best to quiet down cuz everyone was sleeping in the house. so i started whisper-talking. and then he straight up yelled at me and called me annoying. like...apparently i was getting on his nerves or something. which i found to be kinda rude. a "hey be quiet everyone is sleeping" would be sufficient. and he's like, pretty much been ignoring my calls all day and it's really getting to me. i'm like, freaking in love with this kid and i don't wanna lose him. he's never been as rude as he has been lately to me in all the 8 months we've been dating. i just don't know what to think.

Replies Aimforthehead Posted at 10:17 pm on Nov. 18, 2008 You both seem obnoxious... Um, wow I really cannot think of one possible way to fix that, you guys will just have to deal with each other. warrior chick Posted at 9:45 pm on Nov. 18, 2008 just take it easy, maybe he's just got stuff going on. just give it time and he'll come around foreveralone Posted at 9:20 pm on Nov. 18, 2008 Quote: from DopeSickGirl at 8:45 pm on Nov. 18, 2008 oh wow. okay heres what you do. be busy when he calls you. it sounds dumb but hear me out. absence makes the heart grow fonder. kinda blow him off for a couple weeks. it works i swear, hell be nice to you again. or you can just face the music now and tell him to fuck himself. then you can move on :) this is precisely the kind of thing that gets shit all fucked up...he clearly is trying to create a situation that is uncomfortable because he's lost interest...i would make very certain you really like this guy because it's going to take sitting down and talking honestly with him...don't pull any "i'm busy" bullshit, that will just give him more a reason and fuel his argument thereby allowing him to feel good about breaking it off. Sadly, it sounds like curtains for the relationship unless you're willing to address any underlying problems (ps. no one just arbitrarily becomes boring, that could be a clue he's been using you for his own satisfaction) hottie15 Posted at 8:56 pm on Nov. 18, 2008 Well u guys need to meet up and talk bout it with out one of u yelling open up and talk and tell him how u feel and y didn't u guys play some games but if u need to talk bout it message me k filthh Posted at 8:47 pm on Nov. 18, 2008 Quote: from DopeSickGirl at 9:45 pm on Nov. 18, 2008 oh wow. okay heres what you do. be busy when he calls you. it sounds dumb but hear me out. absence makes the heart grow fonder. kinda blow him off for a couple weeks. it works i swear, hell be nice to you again. or you can just face the music now and tell him to fuck himself. then you can move on :) dude your signature made my day. bahaha. DopeSickGirl Posted at 8:45 pm on Nov. 18, 2008 oh wow. okay heres what you do. be busy when he calls you. it sounds dumb but hear me out. absence makes the heart grow fonder. kinda blow him off for a couple weeks. it works i swear, hell be nice to you again. or you can just face the music now and tell him to fuck himself. then you can move on :) nearlyinsane Posted at 8:43 pm on Nov. 18, 2008 Wow sounds like Male PMS. Maybe he's stressed out about something? I sense irritiability. alastrxxna Posted at 8:43 pm on Nov. 18, 2008 Just take a hint and forget about him, He's trying to forget about you, it seems. All 8 previous replies displayed.