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Anonymous Posted at 7:05 pm on Nov. 22, 2008
Hey, there's a cute girl in my AP chem class who i find to be a great girl to hang out with. She and I are on good terms and i really want to ask her out, but i really don't want to be rejected because she's rather popular and i don't feel like being humiliated. She's very friendly to me but I am not sure if she is willing to "date". any advice?

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JacquelineMiller Posted at 8:42 pm on Nov. 22, 2008
i like dis boy in jrotc but scared 2 talk 2 em bcuz um woried bout wat he mite think or say
penguincube Posted at 7:23 pm on Nov. 22, 2008
You know her better than I do, so only you can make the final call on if this is worth it or not.  But the one thing I've learned is you gotta take chances.  I've asked people out and gotten rejected, and it's never really been awkward for that long of a time, and I'm still friends with them.  

It took me two shots of tequila and convincing myself all day to do it to ask my current gf to be my girlfriend, but I did, and of course it was worth it, so if you want it, just do it.

If it doesn't work out, what are you to be ashamed of?  That you had balls?  Yeah thats a real negative trait..

beingme Posted at 7:20 pm on Nov. 22, 2008
I agree, talk to her after class and ask her there. With confidence. ;)
Anonymous Posted at 7:16 pm on Nov. 22, 2008
Quote: from penguincube at 7:15 pm on Nov. 22, 2008

if she would do that, she's a bitch. Anyone who is half decent would treat a person with dignity when letting them down. If you like her so much, surely she has some class?
well the thing is she likes to gossip, she has class, but loves to talk about other people. I am not sure if this means she would talk about it with friends.
penguincube Posted at 7:15 pm on Nov. 22, 2008
if she would do that, she's a bitch.  Anyone who is half decent would treat a person with dignity when letting them down.  If you like her so much, surely she has some class?
Anonymous Posted at 7:13 pm on Nov. 22, 2008
Quote: from honeybee3333 at 7:11 pm on Nov. 22, 2008

Quote: from Anonymous at 7:07 pm on Nov. 22, 2008

Quote: from prettyinpurple at 7:06 pm on Nov. 22, 2008

try to talk to her outside of class, just the two of you..
meaning telling her how i feel?

yes

my problem is i want to make sure she won't tell everyone if she turns me down, i really cannot deal with that right now.
penguincube Posted at 7:12 pm on Nov. 22, 2008
Quote: from EnticingMind at 10:11 pm on Nov. 22, 2008

Quote: from penguincube at 10:08 pm on Nov. 22, 2008

Bring a globe to class, place it on her desk.  When she asks "what's this for?" Say, " you mean the world to me, and I'd like to take you on a date tomorrow at 7."

Lol that is so cheesy that it HAS to work.


it did, its how i asked my now girlfriend on a date for the first time.
honeybee3333 Posted at 7:11 pm on Nov. 22, 2008
Quote: from Anonymous at 7:07 pm on Nov. 22, 2008

Quote: from prettyinpurple at 7:06 pm on Nov. 22, 2008

try to talk to her outside of class, just the two of you..
meaning telling her how i feel?

yes
EnticingMind Posted at 7:11 pm on Nov. 22, 2008
Quote: from penguincube at 10:08 pm on Nov. 22, 2008

Bring a globe to class, place it on her desk. When she asks "what's this for?" Say, " you mean the world to me, and I'd like to take you on a date tomorrow at 7."

Lol that is so cheesy that it HAS to work.
l0ckert3ch Posted at 7:09 pm on Nov. 22, 2008
Quote: from penguincube at 10:08 pm on Nov. 22, 2008

Bring a globe to class, place it on her desk. When she asks "what's this for?" Say, " you mean the world to me, and I'd like to take you on a date tomorrow at 7."
LOL this
penguincube Posted at 7:08 pm on Nov. 22, 2008
Bring a globe to class, place it on her desk.  When she asks "what's this for?" Say, " you mean the world to me, and I'd like to take you on a date tomorrow at 7."
Inlovewityou Posted at 7:07 pm on Nov. 22, 2008
Quote: from prettyinpurple at 7:06 pm on Nov. 22, 2008

try to talk to her outside of class, just the two of you..


good advice....i agree

Anonymous Posted at 7:07 pm on Nov. 22, 2008
Quote: from prettyinpurple at 7:06 pm on Nov. 22, 2008

try to talk to her outside of class, just the two of you..
meaning telling her how i feel?
prettyinpurple Posted at 7:06 pm on Nov. 22, 2008
try to talk to her outside of class, just the two of you..
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