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Anonymous Posted at 8:29 pm on Nov. 22, 2008
Okay, here's the story; I'm a lesbian, until this year I have had no attention from any females, but now I have a girlfriend and flirt openely etc.

The problem is, last night I went to a stripclub, and I developed a bit of a crush on one of the strippers. I got a lapdance off her after we had got to know each other better and she kissed me twice. She said she wasn't supposed to do that, and we had to hide it from the camera, she let me touch her where I "wasn't supposed to" etc. I was very drunk, therefore I said "it's a pity I won't get to know you better out of here", she replied that it was a possibility and she gave me her phone number.

Now, I like my girlfriend, but I'm not HUGELY sexually attracted to her, whereas I'm very attracted emotionally and sexually to the stripper... Do I just throw the number out?

[By the way, you might think she was saying that to get cash, but the strip club wasn't an overly dirty one, and she wasn't a hooker]

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SkeeterHearts Posted at 8:38 pm on Nov. 22, 2008
Quote: from xBeautifulTragedyx at 8:32 pm on Nov. 22, 2008

This is your only life, take the chance.
I agree with this.
libreg Posted at 8:37 pm on Nov. 22, 2008
It depends on you. Personally, i would never cheat on my girlfriend just because I'm sexually attracted more to another girl. You might have something emotional going, and it's fucked up to ruin it because of sexual tension. But that's just what I think for myself, it depends on the person and what you want from a relationship.
Anonymous Posted at 8:32 pm on Nov. 22, 2008
Quote: from Praise the Lard at 5:31 pm on Nov. 23, 2008

so it was a classy joint which has ways of getting you to think someone actually likes you?

Nah, it's not classy at all. It's not classy, and I'm not even.. stupid enough to have never had that thought cross my mind. It was just a different feeling I got.
Also, I did text her and she did text back.

xBeautifulTragedyx Posted at 8:32 pm on Nov. 22, 2008
This is your only life, take the chance.
Praise the Lard Posted at 8:31 pm on Nov. 22, 2008
so it was a classy joint which has ways of getting you to think someone actually likes you?
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