Quoting Post Archived Topic: It will not be bumped to the top of the forum. Topic My girlfriend is still in love with her ex, or so she says Membername   Not a member? Sign Up Free (takes 20 seconds) Password   Forgotten your password? Post Font: Verdana Arial Black Georgia Comic Sans Impact   Size: Tiny Normal Big Huge   Color: Default Dark Red Red Orange Brown Green Olive Cyan Blue Dark Blue Indigo Black [ Check Spelling ] [ Post Preview ] [ LiveTags ] Quote: from [m]Aerie[/m] at 10:55 pm on Nov. 30, 2008[quote]She's being an ass for doing that to you. She should know wether or not she's totally over her ex. Otherwise she shouldn't be dating.[/quote] FAQ Keyword Search: Post Options Favorites Manager Notify me of new replies to this topic by email Notify me of new replies to this topic by private message Original Post Chasinghistail Posted at 10:53 pm on Nov. 30, 2008 I have a new girlfriend, we have only been dating for a month now, and i know that a month is not a long time. But i feel that she is everything that i want in a girl, we have an enormous amount of fun together. But last week, she received a letter from her ex, and thats when it all started. I have not read the letter, nor do i wish too. But i knw that her ex is in jail, and he misses her terribly. Probably as much as he misses taking showers alone, bad joke i know. Anyways my girlfriend and i are now having a "week off" from our relationship, the week is meant to help her get her head straight. And figure out whether she wants him or me? But i am lost as to whether im doing the right thing or not.......its very confusing i know, if you need more information pls just ask.

Replies iHaveAlargePenis Posted at 8:53 am on Dec. 2, 2008 First of all, congrats on the new girlfriend! :) Now to get to the serious stuff. Taking the 'weel off' was not a good idea. Especially with the other guy in the picture now. What exactly would she be seeing in this man that is in jail? For the next week, keep reminding her how much you care for her. Tell her of all the fun you and her had together :) If she is smart, she would go back to you. A man in jail is nothing to go after. How the hell would she expect to go to the movies with the jailboy? Hes in Jail! You have a great chance of being back with her, but beware. Talk to her as much as you can. kristy27 Posted at 9:54 pm on Dec. 1, 2008 Ha what a total bitch. Way to go on her part, trying to go out with a convict! This way when she gets pregnant she will have some loser guy who can't suport her or the kid because he's in and out of jail and not doing nothing with his life but being a thug. The kids daddy will be a loser, the mommy will be in tears all the time because she can't take care of the baby alone, and the daddy will be stealing and making his life like a thug as gangster being a fuckin loser with no college education, no job, and having a background to prevent from getting a good job. Way to go whoever this chick is, sounds like she has a great future with the fucker! And to top it off the the daddy may come around to try and teach the kid to be a loser like him. Next thing you know the little brat is in Juvi for stealing because daddy has no money and mommy is on welfare. What a great life to live! zigily Posted at 8:56 am on Dec. 1, 2008 Don't let her mess you around. Tell her she needs to make her decision- that you're not just going to wait around for her. Personally I'd cut my loses and move on though nik1 Posted at 2:35 am on Dec. 1, 2008 Dude.....if she is ga-ga over a guy in the pokey I think you should question her brain. CrazyGrrl4U Posted at 12:11 am on Dec. 1, 2008 i think that if she having to "decide" whether she wants to be with him or you, its a good signs she is not ready to be in another relationship. If your girlfriend and this guy have a long history and were together than you and her, those feelings never really go away completely case in poing since she to get her head straight. i think the "week off" its a good idea but you gotta keep in mind that the outcome might not be what you expect. but if it were me.. i would break up with person.. being with a person that isnt sure what they want is only leading for bigger heart break and i rather ended now than get my heart broken later and have it hurt worse.. if its meant to be then theyre a possible of getting together later Chocolate Thunda Posted at 11:13 pm on Nov. 30, 2008 She's playing you. She thinks maybe the grass is greener on the other side and doesn't want to step in either direction. Her ex is an ex for a reason, and if she's in doubt that's her problem, not yours. Don't play into her game by allowing her that hold over you. Dump her, she's slime. emo sux69 Posted at 11:11 pm on Nov. 30, 2008 bitches are dumb if you want her, make her jealous and she will beg for you, your prolly wimping out here and shes getting bored. DrFeelgood Posted at 10:58 pm on Nov. 30, 2008 here a hint: Go check why did her ex get in jail for? He might be in jail for being murderer. If it's real, you better move away honeybee3333 Posted at 10:56 pm on Nov. 30, 2008 Quote: from QueenofHope at 10:55 pm on Nov. 30, 2008 She's being an ass for doing that to you. She should know wether or not she's totally over her ex. Otherwise she shouldn't be dating. what I just said   Scarlet Tears Posted at 10:56 pm on Nov. 30, 2008 Let her make her decision If you love that is If you don't love her... Break it off. Aerie Posted at 10:55 pm on Nov. 30, 2008 She's being an ass for doing that to you. She should know wether or not she's totally over her ex. Otherwise she shouldn't be dating. honeybee3333 Posted at 10:55 pm on Nov. 30, 2008 thats crazy... she can't decide? She obviously doesn't love you as much as you'd think. shes not worth waiting for. Tag548 Posted at 10:55 pm on Nov. 30, 2008 ah i know one thing..if shes ditching you for a dude in jail thats pretty damn humiliating All 13 previous replies displayed.