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Poisonetta Posted at 7:39 am on Dec. 1, 2008
So, my mother found out we were dating because she added Clinton to her Myspace. Well we argued back and forth a little before she gave me her terms.
Finally she said.
"I would like to meet him. He is allowed over but until I trust him you can't go there."
She gave me the rules and also added.
"If I think this is bad for you or if you start changing your beliefs, its over." And I agreed.

So he and I are finally allowed to date. Thank you all for your words of advice. It means alot..
:D

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theyareAs Posted at 10:51 am on Dec. 1, 2008
Yay for you but your mom seems very controlling
Poisonetta Posted at 9:25 am on Dec. 1, 2008
Let me explain; She doesn't know him and realizes it was horrid to not let me date him if she doesn't know him.
But if she meets him and doesn't like him she might stop it.
The rules are shitty but I can now go with him and keep no secrets. :)
crystal 81308 Posted at 8:21 am on Dec. 1, 2008
aww. yay. thats good:]
BodomChick Posted at 8:17 am on Dec. 1, 2008
awwh i'm happy for you (:
snowcone200 Posted at 7:58 am on Dec. 1, 2008
Well if the kid wants to meh let them. If they wanna end up societies scum or a nuisance to their family and society thats them. Makes it easier for the rest of us to suceed hehe
Chiefette Posted at 7:50 am on Dec. 1, 2008
Quote: from snowcone200 at 10:46 am on Dec. 1, 2008

Quote: from Glory at 7:43 am on Dec. 1, 2008

That seems kinda stupid that your parents can end your relationship.

After all who roof she living under?



I usually agree with that sentence, but not in this situation.  Don't parents realize that a majority of the time when they try to put this much control on a childs life that they are going to ultimately rebel?  She may life in their house, by their rules, but they are letting her date this guy.  There should be no if we don't think he is good enough we can force you to break up.  That is just the massive, pole up the ass, need for power prick thing to do.  I could understand if they said, no you cannot date him, but to make her agree that they can end the relationship....no
zluvsanime Posted at 7:47 am on Dec. 1, 2008
good for you
snowcone200 Posted at 7:46 am on Dec. 1, 2008
Quote: from Glory at 7:43 am on Dec. 1, 2008

That seems kinda stupid that your parents can end your relationship.

After all who roof she living under?

hellojamielee Posted at 7:45 am on Dec. 1, 2008
congrats ay :)
Shania1 Posted at 7:45 am on Dec. 1, 2008
sound just like my life. i aint allowed 2 have a relationship at all till im older
sadnessness Posted at 7:44 am on Dec. 1, 2008
YAY :)
good for you!
Keep following her line and i'm sure she'll give you a bit more freedom soon too
Chiefette Posted at 7:43 am on Dec. 1, 2008
That seems kinda stupid that your parents can end your relationship.  After all, it is your relationship.
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