Quoting Post Archived Topic: It will not be bumped to the top of the forum. Topic On the Phone Membername   Not a member? Sign Up Free (takes 20 seconds) Password   Forgotten your password? Post Font: Verdana Arial Black Georgia Comic Sans Impact   Size: Tiny Normal Big Huge   Color: Default Dark Red Red Orange Brown Green Olive Cyan Blue Dark Blue Indigo Black [ Check Spelling ] [ Post Preview ] [ LiveTags ] Quote: from [m]EyeoftheBeholder[/m] at 8:56 pm on Dec. 1, 2008[quote]I was on the phone with my girlfriend tonight and she told me how she and her friend were talking about what they'd do if their boyfriends cheated on them. Anyway, it came up how she doesn't believe me when I tell her I would never cheat on her. And she said "What if you're just a really good liar? I'm scared to believe you and end up being crushed if you are lying." She thinks that if I ever get mad at her I'll be too afraid to break up with her and just cheat on her. She also believes that would happen if I find another girl. But I love her more than anything in the world. I can't even look at another person the way I look at her. She is absolutely perfect. How can I make her believe me? [/quote] FAQ Keyword Search: Post Options Favorites Manager Notify me of new replies to this topic by email Notify me of new replies to this topic by private message Original Post EyeoftheBeholder Posted at 8:56 pm on Dec. 1, 2008 I was on the phone with my girlfriend tonight and she told me how she and her friend were talking about what they'd do if their boyfriends cheated on them. Anyway, it came up how she doesn't believe me when I tell her I would never cheat on her. And she said "What if you're just a really good liar? I'm scared to believe you and end up being crushed if you are lying." She thinks that if I ever get mad at her I'll be too afraid to break up with her and just cheat on her. She also believes that would happen if I find another girl. But I love her more than anything in the world. I can't even look at another person the way I look at her. She is absolutely perfect. How can I make her believe me?

Replies EyeoftheBeholder Posted at 9:03 pm on Dec. 1, 2008 I guess the frustrating part is that we've been dating for a year and a half and now, for some reason, she thinks I would even think about cheating on her. EyeoftheBeholder Posted at 8:59 pm on Dec. 1, 2008 I compliment her all the time. She sometimes gets annoyed with how much I do and thinks I'm lying. minnie38 Posted at 8:59 pm on Dec. 1, 2008 make her really happy by getting her a gift cowgirlyehaa Posted at 8:58 pm on Dec. 1, 2008 Let her trust you. Don't just tell her, show her. She sounds like she has low self-esteem. So maybe compliment her sometimes? Lothar1 Posted at 8:57 pm on Dec. 1, 2008 you cant....you really cant all you can do is constantly prove her wrong and mabey eventually she will believe you Aerie Posted at 8:57 pm on Dec. 1, 2008 Stop telling her, clearly words don't mean much to her. Show her, Ignore girls when they attempt to flirt with you etc. All 6 previous replies displayed.