Quoting Post Archived Topic: It will not be bumped to the top of the forum. Topic should i tell her? Membername   Not a member? Sign Up Free (takes 20 seconds) Password   Forgotten your password? Post Font: Verdana Arial Black Georgia Comic Sans Impact   Size: Tiny Normal Big Huge   Color: Default Dark Red Red Orange Brown Green Olive Cyan Blue Dark Blue Indigo Black [ Check Spelling ] [ Post Preview ] [ LiveTags ] Quote: from [m]elplatanero2094[/m] at 11:15 pm on Dec. 3, 2008[quote]my and my gf have been together for about 5 months going on 6, and lately she really hasn't been her sweet, romantic self, actually made feel special and wanted whereas early in the relationship she was all that and more.. im her first bf so i've been extremely patient with her and she's rlly self conscious about the way she is as a gf n stuff but also she's been realllly busy n what not lately so i guess stress might factor into it.. but i was just wondering should i tell her "you know you really havent been acting like yourself lately" or just leave it be?[/quote] FAQ Keyword Search: Post Options Favorites Manager Notify me of new replies to this topic by email Notify me of new replies to this topic by private message Original Post elplatanero2094 Posted at 11:15 pm on Dec. 3, 2008 my and my gf have been together for about 5 months going on 6, and lately she really hasn't been her sweet, romantic self, actually made feel special and wanted whereas early in the relationship she was all that and more.. im her first bf so i've been extremely patient with her and she's rlly self conscious about the way she is as a gf n stuff but also she's been realllly busy n what not lately so i guess stress might factor into it.. but i was just wondering should i tell her "you know you really havent been acting like yourself lately" or just leave it be?

Replies nik1 Posted at 11:30 am on Dec. 4, 2008 Communications are the key to a good relationship.  Sometimes when sex is involved early in a relationship it becomes the sole focus and becomes boring.   lostrealist Posted at 5:41 am on Dec. 4, 2008 hey i sound like your gf, I ain't that sweet and show love to my bf but deep inside I'm just waiting for him to do things for me at least.  He's my FIRST BF TOO.  Better tell her that you want to spend time with her and tell her how much you love her.  Don't hide your feelings.  Trust me, she'll love it when you do things for her, like surprises, dinner, etc.   My bf and I argue a lot because I ain't the sweet type and he won't tell me what bothers him and so I ended up disappointed and think that maybe he hasn't love me anyway. bmw1992 Posted at 11:45 pm on Dec. 3, 2008 just be there 4 her LittleNutTammi Posted at 11:36 pm on Dec. 3, 2008 yes, talk about it. tyler3120695 Posted at 11:18 pm on Dec. 3, 2008 Yeah bring it up to her. its not going to hurt to mention it lol Total Destruction Posted at 11:18 pm on Dec. 3, 2008 Tell her or more complications may develop. dreamweaver Posted at 11:18 pm on Dec. 3, 2008 Suggest a date night for you two. Just say, "hey, I've noticed we haven't been spending a lot of time together and was wondering if we could have at least one night a week set aside as a 'date night'?" It's not too blunt and it would actually sound very sweet, while it hopefully tells her what's going on in your mind. peter110788 Posted at 11:17 pm on Dec. 3, 2008 yh tell her Themakingofagod Posted at 11:16 pm on Dec. 3, 2008 Bring it up to her.  For ANY relationship to succeed, communication is key.  She's your girlfriend, you should be able to tell her anything and talk about it without ruining everything. Desertfoxel Posted at 11:16 pm on Dec. 3, 2008 DO IT! All 10 previous replies displayed.