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Anonymous Posted at 8:19 am on Dec. 4, 2008
My best guy friend and I have been friends for the past 3 years since my sophomore year of college. I've had crushes on him off and on the enitre time I've known him, but I've never done anything about it because I've always been kind of shy around guys. Now I'm graduating in May, and I really don't want to miss my chance. We both live fairly close to each other, so even after I graduate, I'll still be able to see him, but once school ends for me, it'll probably be harder to start a relationship if things worked out for us. So I'm thinking about making a move, but I don't know how he feels about me, and I don't want to mess up our friendship if he's not interested.
So I'm trying to figure out what to do. I'm crazy about him, and I have no idea how he feels about me. I'm not very good at flirting, but I do try to do things like make sure I have good eye contact with him, and maybe touch his arm when I talk to him. Sometimes when we see each other we call each other stuff like cutie and sweetie and precious and stuff. He tells me he loves me whenever we hang up from talking or we are saying goodbye from hanging out. He greets me with hugs the majority of the time, and whenever he sits next to me, he either puts his arm around me, rubs my back, or lays his head on my shoulder. Does it sound like he's interested in me? Should I make a move? If so, what should I do?

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Arrow Posted at 8:30 am on Dec. 4, 2008
shuddup an d make a move already
Anonymous Posted at 8:28 am on Dec. 4, 2008
Quote: from DiscoTraxx at 8:26 am on Dec. 4, 2008

From what you have said, it sounds very much like he is interested in you. I would say let him know. Heck, if he is your best guy friend and you guys are as close as you are, word that you are interested in more than just a friendship will not be the end of it. I mean hell, it's worth a shot! Just let him know how you feel and see how it goes. Let him know you're letting him know because you wanted to get it out before college starts and the two of you are preoccupied with other things.
Hope it all works out!

No we're both in college now. We are both from the same town and we're at the same college, but after I graduate, I'll be working and he'll still be doing school for another year.

DiscoTraxx Posted at 8:26 am on Dec. 4, 2008
From what you have said, it sounds very much like he is interested in you.  I would say let him know.  Heck, if he is your best guy friend and you guys are as close as you are, word that you are interested in more than just a friendship will not be the end of it.  I mean hell, it's worth a shot!  Just let him know how you feel and see how it goes.  Let him know you're letting him know because you wanted to get it out before college starts and the two of you are preoccupied with other things.
Hope it all works out!
sarahanne6969 Posted at 8:24 am on Dec. 4, 2008
sounds like hes trying to do subtle hints to you...try makin a move
MR UNKNOWN Posted at 8:21 am on Dec. 4, 2008
Quote: from mr unknown at 11:13 am on Dec. 4, 2008

if you can't flirt back
just tell him straight froward that you interested

or he will be gone forever and some other lucky girl will steal him


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