Quoting Post Archived Topic: It will not be bumped to the top of the forum. Topic ugh..life Membername   Not a member? Sign Up Free (takes 20 seconds) Password   Forgotten your password? Post Font: Verdana Arial Black Georgia Comic Sans Impact   Size: Tiny Normal Big Huge   Color: Default Dark Red Red Orange Brown Green Olive Cyan Blue Dark Blue Indigo Black [ Check Spelling ] [ Post Preview ] [ LiveTags ] Quote: from [m]stepup029[/m] at 11:11 am on Dec. 4, 2008[quote]well if u love him then go out wit him but set up some rules  so that u do't get hurt and that way u will still be wit him[/quote] FAQ Keyword Search: Post Options Favorites Manager Notify me of new replies to this topic by email Notify me of new replies to this topic by private message Original Post ps2grl37 Posted at 11:06 am on Dec. 4, 2008 i broke up with my boyfriend because he is a liar and a jerk and now he wants me back idk what to do i love him so much i really dont want to let go but i dont wanna get hurt again

Replies Bagheera Posted at 2:12 pm on Dec. 4, 2008 I think you've made it pretty clear that this guy is not what's best for you, in fact he's less, he has a negative impact upon you and your day to day life. If you can find one good reason why that should be ignored, a truly good reason, then you should consider it, but you haven't shown any indication of it being even worth the time of day for you. Granted, people do make mistakes. They do hurt others by mistake, and want a chance to make it up to them. But you're really the only person who can decide whether his indiscretion was a one off mistake, or whether it's just typical, exactly the kind of guy that he is. You don't deserve to open yourself up to the chance of being hurt again. Don't take that risk. PM me if you need to. kaylar28 Posted at 1:58 pm on Dec. 4, 2008 i know its hard but walking away will be best i went through the same thing and im happier then ever it takes time. but it gets better Autumndaze Posted at 1:41 pm on Dec. 4, 2008 Think about your future. You've already said it; he's a liar and a jerk. Why go back to that when you could have someone who's loyal and a sweetheart?  Don't be one of those people who go back to bad relationships that they know won't be that great but still choose to do it because they claim that they're unable to let go of what they built up. Trust me, I know how hard it may be but when something is dreadful, you may not let go of it as fast but you ultimately will let go. Don't put yourself in that position. Don't think twice about things like this. You know he's no good, why go back to something that's horrible. He could be twice as bad as he was before, you never know. It's not even worth taking the risk. Think about it. Good luck. EyeoftheBeholder Posted at 1:31 pm on Dec. 4, 2008 Do you realllllly love him? Or do you miss the routine of having a boyfriend? Crackbuddy Posted at 11:17 am on Dec. 4, 2008 Quote: from rudecrudeswimingdud at 11:11 am on Dec. 4, 2008 people dont change, just the lies they tell. ooooooooooo i've never heard that one. its so true, i'm proof :( ps2grl37 Posted at 11:16 am on Dec. 4, 2008 Quote: from rudecrudeswimingdud at 11:11 am on Dec. 4, 2008 people dont change, just the lies they tell. i like that. Descartes Posted at 11:11 am on Dec. 4, 2008 people dont change, just the lies they tell. stepup029 Posted at 11:11 am on Dec. 4, 2008 well if u love him then go out wit him but set up some rules  so that u do't get hurt and that way u will still be wit him princess timz Posted at 11:08 am on Dec. 4, 2008 Think what if he hurts you again? What life is like when you don't have a boyfriend around. Teenie1 Posted at 11:07 am on Dec. 4, 2008 Ditto, Split up with mine yesterday. All 10 previous replies displayed.