Quoting Post Archived Topic: It will not be bumped to the top of the forum. Topic My bestie Membername   Not a member? Sign Up Free (takes 20 seconds) Password   Forgotten your password? Post Font: Verdana Arial Black Georgia Comic Sans Impact   Size: Tiny Normal Big Huge   Color: Default Dark Red Red Orange Brown Green Olive Cyan Blue Dark Blue Indigo Black [ Check Spelling ] [ Post Preview ] [ LiveTags ] Quote: from [m]HuffleHaire[/m] at 1:05 pm on Jan. 2, 2009[quote]Tell her to move on, seriously. Tell her it's unhealthy. Other than that, since you've already kinda done that, you can only be there for her. She'll have to realize his assholeyness on her own, I guess. Some people are like that.[/quote] FAQ Keyword Search: Post Options Favorites Manager Notify me of new replies to this topic by email Notify me of new replies to this topic by private message Original Post Clever Girl Posted at 12:57 pm on Jan. 2, 2009 My best friend was dumped just before Christmas by her boyfriend. He did it before too some times. He has cheated on her many times. What surprises me is that my friend always goes back to him, that's irriating. Gosh, she is very sad, and that's why i hate that guy so much. But my problem  - I told her directly my thoughts about that piece of shit. And she's like "omg, stop talking like that" etc, as if he would be an angel. And now she is mad at ME. WTF? She even congratulated him on New year. That makes me sick.

Replies islandgirl Posted at 2:21 pm on Jan. 2, 2009 I find that it's generally not a great idea to talk badly about my friend's boyfriends for a few reasons a) When they get back together, you're suddenly the bitch b) It doesn't tend to stop them from getting back together c) It's insulting to be like 'you just spent a hell of a lot of time with a complete loser'. Better idea? Say that you think that the same problems that were there the first time around are not going to go away, that you don't think that they are compatible and that it's not a healthy relationship if it keeps going on and off. She may not take the advice, but at least you don't end up losing your friend over a guy. HuffleHaire Posted at 1:05 pm on Jan. 2, 2009 Tell her to move on, seriously. Tell her it's unhealthy. Other than that, since you've already kinda done that, you can only be there for her. She'll have to realize his assholeyness on her own, I guess. Some people are like that. mattness Posted at 1:00 pm on Jan. 2, 2009 yaaaaaaaay JucyAndSweet1 Posted at 12:58 pm on Jan. 2, 2009 She should just get rid of him. I dont think a person should stay with someone like that, it is just demeaning her if you think about it. Sanctum Posted at 12:58 pm on Jan. 2, 2009 Shell realize sooner or later danndivision Posted at 12:58 pm on Jan. 2, 2009 if he cheated on her so many times why did she keep going back All 6 previous replies displayed.