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Anonymous Posted at 1:14 pm on Jan. 3, 2009
I'm tired of being such a nice guy. Fuck yeah, it gets you absolutely nowhere. People thinkthey can walk over you.
I'm not a socially retardet secluded boy, infact I am good looking 6"3 and a rugby player and 17.  I know quite a lot of girls ... well did. They just seemed to move on to all the pricks and I slowly got kicked out of the circles.
Fuck sake, going back to school from Christmas hols on Monday. I want to make this term (semester) different and stop hanging out constantly with all my friends who seem to be boys. Should I become an arsehole, prick or what?

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The Persuader Posted at 1:39 pm on Jan. 3, 2009
Quote: from AkSlay47 at 1:16 pm on Jan. 3, 2009

Stay the way you are and find new friends.
Exactly. I'm kind of a nice guy but it works out.
Set My Soul On Fire Posted at 1:23 pm on Jan. 3, 2009
Dude, being a nice guy is a waste of time if you just want to get chick sprung and in bed. Treat girls like shit in a flippant way and they'll be over you. I don't mean be outright nasty and mean, but act like you don't give a shit about them and then they'll try endlessly to make you give a shit about them.
Trashybitchfromhell Posted at 1:20 pm on Jan. 3, 2009
don't change.
it won't be the real youuuu
filliam Posted at 1:19 pm on Jan. 3, 2009
You should just stay true to who you are.  So what, you might not end up getting a girl this year, but at your doing the right thing in being a good guy.  Even if you did turn into an asshole and get a chick, she wouldn't be right for you.  Plus, a lot of chicks are only like that in high school (so I've heard).
lovelyshadows19 Posted at 1:18 pm on Jan. 3, 2009
You should stay you. Don't become something you're not just because the girls you went out with weren't smart enough to stay with ya. Your type is hard to find over here. XD
Lord Cat Posted at 1:16 pm on Jan. 3, 2009
IF your being kicked around your not doing the nice guy bit right I'm a nice guy but i get kicked around coz people know i hold my weight and have a great influence against them
taraxgoesxboom Posted at 1:16 pm on Jan. 3, 2009
How about you stay yourself, but don't let people walk over you? You can still be a good guy and not put up with peoples bs.
samantha89 Posted at 1:16 pm on Jan. 3, 2009
yep if thats the type of girls you want
AkSlay47 Posted at 1:16 pm on Jan. 3, 2009
Stay the way you are and find new friends.
Lihiro Posted at 1:16 pm on Jan. 3, 2009
It sucks doesn't it?
No. Don't diverge to the ranks of moron. Stick to your guns and I reckon you'll have a better life.
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