Quoting Post Archived Topic: It will not be bumped to the top of the forum. Topic pre engagement ishhhhh?! Membername   Not a member? Sign Up Free (takes 20 seconds) Password   Forgotten your password? Post Font: Verdana Arial Black Georgia Comic Sans Impact   Size: Tiny Normal Big Huge   Color: Default Dark Red Red Orange Brown Green Olive Cyan Blue Dark Blue Indigo Black [ Check Spelling ] [ Post Preview ] [ LiveTags ] Quote: from [m]Lihiro[/m] at 1:16 pm on Jan. 3, 2009[quote]Wait for college.[/quote] FAQ Keyword Search: Post Options Favorites Manager Notify me of new replies to this topic by email Notify me of new replies to this topic by private message Original Post xdreamingx3 Posted at 1:16 pm on Jan. 3, 2009 long story made short: bf stopped by last night randomly to ask me something... so when he got there he asked me if I would get commited to him before he leaves for college. and i said yes. and then he said "i know im going to love you forever, and that we are going to spend the rest of our lives together, i am ready to get engaged to you before i leave." and i tried to say something to him but he cut me off. and said "i have thought alot about this. and i want you to as well, i dont want you to have any doubts. so dont answer until your completely sure. and then he said "love lasts forever" and HE LEFT! i really do love him. i know that. and i do want to spend the rest of my life with him. but everyone i have talked to thinks that it can never work, because people change too much in college. is it possible? or should we wait and see how college goes before making such a huge commitment?

Replies tearsinheaven Posted at 1:59 pm on Jan. 3, 2009 my feelings are to wait. the make-or-break for most couples is the first 2 months of college. if you make it that far, then go for it. i've been in college for 4 months, with my boyfriend for a year and 4 months. our relationship DEFINITELY changed when we finished highschool. changed for the worse, some days, changed for the better, other days. but we still love each other - a lot, and we get through the times that suck. most of my friends (infact, ALL my friends) are not as lucky. they can't deal with the change, and have all broken up. give it time, don't rush anything. i mean, why would you? you have your whole lives ahead of you to be together. sunshiine Posted at 1:24 pm on Jan. 3, 2009 waait; deff. Niina123 Posted at 1:20 pm on Jan. 3, 2009 My cousin had that same problem and evreryone said that it wouldnt work but she loved him so she followed hr heart and said yes now the are living in cyprus and they hav a baby !!! so follow your heart ;D sweetness9292 Posted at 1:20 pm on Jan. 3, 2009 wait for colleges. skitastic565 Posted at 1:19 pm on Jan. 3, 2009 wait. def wait. trust me. WAIT. MischaELLE Posted at 1:18 pm on Jan. 3, 2009 wait for college Good Plan Batman Posted at 1:17 pm on Jan. 3, 2009 keep together (in touch etc) wait till after college Lihiro Posted at 1:16 pm on Jan. 3, 2009 Wait for college. All 8 previous replies displayed.