Quoting Post Archived Topic: It will not be bumped to the top of the forum. Topic French dating culture Membername   Not a member? Sign Up Free (takes 20 seconds) Password   Forgotten your password? Post Font: Verdana Arial Black Georgia Comic Sans Impact   Size: Tiny Normal Big Huge   Color: Default Dark Red Red Orange Brown Green Olive Cyan Blue Dark Blue Indigo Black [ Check Spelling ] [ Post Preview ] [ LiveTags ] Quote: from [m]luminaryuprise13[/m] at 3:43 pm on Jan. 3, 2009[quote]The French are strange when it comes to love. Mainly, they do whatever feels good. I can't speak for a whole country because each person is different, but infidelity is VERY common. Remember the French are passionate, sensual people, and you should understand things a little better.[/quote] FAQ Keyword Search: Post Options Favorites Manager Notify me of new replies to this topic by email Notify me of new replies to this topic by private message Original Post Skifox Posted at 3:39 pm on Jan. 3, 2009 Ok, I could have made that a totally non-personal thread, but I kinda nneed a bit of help. Alrighty, I had this french exchange partner stay at mine in November. It was a little akward at first, I mean, I didn't know what to say to him, all I said was "ça va" about a hundred times >_< but come the second week it was alright, watched some movies, shared some music. It was pretty cool. Then on the wednesday, we were watching desparate housewives    and I was lying on the sofa. He just came and lied(sp?) next to me, huggin me and holding my hands o.0 And then the day after, he was like, petting my leg. And then we kissed a little bit *cough* a lot *cough* And then he went home. The next day, I get a FB message, saying that he thinks he loves me. However, I know he has a gf, he knows I know too. I just don't know what any of this means, because It's like you have to translate the fucking culture. I know infidelity is frowned upon over there, but not nearly as much as it is here. Aghh, I don't know anything anymore -_- Right, so then Christmas, he got me some perfume, (Black XS ^_^) and Kon teddy from bleach. AS sort of an inside joke, becuase con in French, means like, moron/wanker ... We were talking a lot on msn, and he was always like, "I miss you" "bisou x" which was cute. But he's not really talking to me much now. sort of like, one line FB messages. Mixed signals much? So, I don't know what I'm doing. I don't even know why I'm making this topic. I mean, he's acting like a complete arse, but maybe that's just the French way, arrogant and rude? Not that he's being arrogant, just rude. Wait, maybe he's just trying to get into my pants. Hmm. But he has a gf, why does he need me -_- Whatever. I don't care. That's a lie, I really do, I'm just a bit confused and annoyed. And I bet none of that made a whole lot of sense :)

Replies CherieDee Posted at 4:00 pm on Jan. 3, 2009 Quote: from mentos13 at 3:55 pm on Jan. 3, 2009 um i think it was a one day thing (: this. LoveKay Posted at 3:59 pm on Jan. 3, 2009 So... he could either be wanting two things: you or your ass. Even he wants you, he definitely wants your ass. So first, before moving on, you need to figure out if he wants your ass or you, as well. Then, you need to confront him about his girlfriend back home and what is going through his mind about this entire deal. Once you get an answer, then decide if you want to lead a sexual relationship with him while he is here because you know he will one day leave and chances are, you will not travel to France to see him. So think. mentos13 Posted at 3:55 pm on Jan. 3, 2009 um i think it was a one day thing (: Budokai Posted at 3:46 pm on Jan. 3, 2009 WOW   luminaryuprise13 Posted at 3:43 pm on Jan. 3, 2009 The French are strange when it comes to love. Mainly, they do whatever feels good. I can't speak for a whole country because each person is different, but infidelity is VERY common. Remember the French are passionate, sensual people, and you should understand things a little better. Jman19 Posted at 3:42 pm on Jan. 3, 2009 Don't trust the French. In all seriousness, he does sound like he's a prick who is just using you for when he needs someone to give him attention. All 6 previous replies displayed.