Quoting Post Archived Topic: It will not be bumped to the top of the forum. Topic Does mystery add something to a relationship or keep it distant? Membername   Not a member? Sign Up Free (takes 20 seconds) Password   Forgotten your password? Post Font: Verdana Arial Black Georgia Comic Sans Impact   Size: Tiny Normal Big Huge   Color: Default Dark Red Red Orange Brown Green Olive Cyan Blue Dark Blue Indigo Black [ Check Spelling ] [ Post Preview ] [ LiveTags ] Quote: from [m]luminaryuprise13[/m] at 3:46 pm on Jan. 3, 2009[quote]If a guy keeps telling you he's being 'mysterious', what does this mean as far as a relationship goes? He doesn't talk at all. He knows this drives me up the wall. I'm not sure if he keeps doing it because he knows it's what makes me keep thinking about him, or he just generally doesn't like me. I asked him a rather personal question, and he told me in a facebook message a week later, after I asked him twice about it. He's not mean. He took me to work on a last minute notice, and was generally cheerful. I don't know if he's this cryptic with other people. It doesn't seem like very friendly behavior, yet he has a million friends (he's class president, after all). What do you think/how should I handle this?[/quote] FAQ Keyword Search: Post Options Favorites Manager Notify me of new replies to this topic by email Notify me of new replies to this topic by private message Original Post luminaryuprise13 Posted at 3:46 pm on Jan. 3, 2009 If a guy keeps telling you he's being 'mysterious', what does this mean as far as a relationship goes? He doesn't talk at all. He knows this drives me up the wall. I'm not sure if he keeps doing it because he knows it's what makes me keep thinking about him, or he just generally doesn't like me. I asked him a rather personal question, and he told me in a facebook message a week later, after I asked him twice about it. He's not mean. He took me to work on a last minute notice, and was generally cheerful. I don't know if he's this cryptic with other people. It doesn't seem like very friendly behavior, yet he has a million friends (he's class president, after all). What do you think/how should I handle this?

Replies LoveKay Posted at 3:55 pm on Jan. 3, 2009 He actually straight out said this is his way of being mysterious? Okay, that is gay. Seriously, this guy must be pretty unknowledgeable and/or immature. If he is trying to keep the flame from dying due to knowing too much about each other, then he is doing it in a totally wrong way. If I was in your position, I would have dumped him a long time ago. That just sounds ridiculous and stupid. Rastafarian Posted at 3:53 pm on Jan. 3, 2009 Maybe it's a bad way of trying to seduce you. Anonymous Posted at 3:47 pm on Jan. 3, 2009 if im anonymous am i mysterious? All 3 previous replies displayed.