Quoting Post Archived Topic: It will not be bumped to the top of the forum. Topic Confused about a girl... Membername   Not a member? Sign Up Free (takes 20 seconds) Password   Forgotten your password? Post Font: Verdana Arial Black Georgia Comic Sans Impact   Size: Tiny Normal Big Huge   Color: Default Dark Red Red Orange Brown Green Olive Cyan Blue Dark Blue Indigo Black [ Check Spelling ] [ Post Preview ] [ LiveTags ] Quote: from [m]EarthEmpire[/m] at 7:33 pm on Jan. 3, 2009[quote]You made the right decision to ask her to choose. It wouldn't be fair to either one of you (you or her (ex)bf) if she was with you both. Good luck :)[/quote] FAQ Keyword Search: Post Options Favorites Manager Notify me of new replies to this topic by email Notify me of new replies to this topic by private message Original Post Deer Shank Posted at 6:45 pm on Jan. 3, 2009 Now back to the topic, recently I told this girl I liked her, this was about a week or two after her and her boyfriend broke up. But when I told her and asked her on a date she said that they had gotten back together. Well we had a day set for us to hang out, and sure enough we did, it started out us watching the Red Wings and Black Hawks on the first. We did not watch it a whole lot, we were laying on my bed and I was tickling her and we were pretty much wrestling. Well after the game we went out for a walk (Yes it was very cold, never doing that again!). Well when we got back from that she was laying down trying to get warm, so I lied down beside here and soon enough it got to where she was in my arms, how we worked to that point is beyond me or her. We started watching movies and by the end of the night she was in my arms sleep, we had started to make out and we are not sure HOW we could have ever of made it to that point. So as you would think, this would make it really awkward, she was making out with another guy when she had a boyfriend, well it did not seems to faze either of us. So we set another day to hang out, which was today, I picked her up, we came back to my place lied in bed and watched movies, making out and cuddling, but now we took it a step further, my hand had found its way into her shirt, we did not go all the way, but I think she would have if I tried. During the cuddling we would talk, I told her I wish you and your boyfriend would not have got back together, she asked me why I did not tell her how I felt earlier, honestly I guess I did not know the answer to that, we are close friends and I guess I feared losing that. We say we love each other, I bring up how we will not be able to act this close at school, and she says she knows. I asked her what we should do about this, and she just says that we will work it. I have no idea if she likes me, I mean I would assume that she would since she is making out with me falling asleep in my arms, and she is not one that will cheat on someone, she was dating this other guy for 2 years prior to the break up, they only broke up because he was controlling and over jealous. I guess what I am trying to ask is, do I have anything to worry about, should I feel nervous, I sent her a message on MySpace telling her that she needs to choose one of us, and to follow her heart to the answer. So can anyone enlighten me?

Replies Deer Shank Posted at 5:45 am on Jan. 4, 2009 Quote: from Is this you at 9:37 pm on Jan. 3, 2009 Quote: from Deer Shank at 7:06 pm on Jan. 3, 2009 Quote: from ocho cinco at 7:05 pm on Jan. 3, 2009 Quote: from Deer Shank at 7:00 pm on Jan. 3, 2009 Sorry for the double post, but either people are taking a long time to reply or no one wants to touch this one..     It's too fucking long jesus christ learn to use paragraphs. Lmao, yeah sorry I know how to use them, I just hate them, I do not even use them on papers in school.   And now the rest of the world hates you. Lol thank you. Well I figured it out, she was confused about being back with the other guy, but sent me a message saying that she would rather be with the other guy and that she just wanted to see if she had any feelings for me. I am assuming that pretty much means that she does not know what she wants. Is this you Posted at 9:37 pm on Jan. 3, 2009 Quote: from Deer Shank at 7:06 pm on Jan. 3, 2009 Quote: from ocho cinco at 7:05 pm on Jan. 3, 2009 Quote: from Deer Shank at 7:00 pm on Jan. 3, 2009 Sorry for the double post, but either people are taking a long time to reply or no one wants to touch this one..    It's too fucking long jesus christ learn to use paragraphs. Lmao, yeah sorry I know how to use them, I just hate them, I do not even use them on papers in school. And now the rest of the world hates you. EarthEmpire Posted at 7:33 pm on Jan. 3, 2009 You made the right decision to ask her to choose. It wouldn't be fair to either one of you (you or her (ex)bf) if she was with you both. Good luck :) Deer Shank Posted at 7:06 pm on Jan. 3, 2009 Quote: from ocho cinco at 7:05 pm on Jan. 3, 2009 Quote: from Deer Shank at 7:00 pm on Jan. 3, 2009 Sorry for the double post, but either people are taking a long time to reply or no one wants to touch this one.. It's too fucking long jesus christ learn to use paragraphs. Lmao, yeah sorry I know how to use them, I just hate them, I do not even use them on papers in school. ocho cinco Posted at 7:05 pm on Jan. 3, 2009 Quote: from Deer Shank at 7:00 pm on Jan. 3, 2009 Sorry for the double post, but either people are taking a long time to reply or no one wants to touch this one.. It's too fucking long jesus christ learn to use paragraphs. Deer Shank Posted at 7:00 pm on Jan. 3, 2009 Sorry for the double post, but either people are taking a long time to reply or no one wants to touch this one.. All 6 previous replies displayed.