Quoting Post Archived Topic: It will not be bumped to the top of the forum. Topic Lw, I need your help Membername   Not a member? Sign Up Free (takes 20 seconds) Password   Forgotten your password? Post Font: Verdana Arial Black Georgia Comic Sans Impact   Size: Tiny Normal Big Huge   Color: Default Dark Red Red Orange Brown Green Olive Cyan Blue Dark Blue Indigo Black [ Check Spelling ] [ Post Preview ] [ LiveTags ] Quote: from [m]blufindr[/m] at 9:11 pm on Jan. 3, 2009[quote]Give him a chance but be cautious.[/quote] FAQ Keyword Search: Post Options Favorites Manager Notify me of new replies to this topic by email Notify me of new replies to this topic by private message Original Post ang42490424 Posted at 9:05 pm on Jan. 3, 2009 I have been separated from my x for a year, he was my first love. We were together for 2 before he started to distant himself from me, making me leave him. Well, what do you know, in 2 weeks, it will be a year since we have been separated and suddenly, he is back. He says he loves me, that then, he was so busy, he had forgotten that I was there. He is so sorry, but that now he wants to make it up. He has a ring and is going to ask my mom on Wednesday if I can go to California with him. We always had plans to go, get married, have a family. I thought I didnt love him anymore, but every text I get, I smile, like I would before. I think I still am in love with him. Just fooling myself that I wasnt, just so I can forget. But I never did. I would cry because I regretted my decision leaving him, telling myself I should have waited longer. So, what to do I do? Should I give it another shot? I am worried he might be too busy again, but I also think that things will be how they were before. What do I do?

Replies IceTeaEdwin Posted at 6:48 pm on Jan. 8, 2009 Woa, I'm totally behind on this one >-> Well, on January 3 I would have told you to do what YOU want to do.   We live a short life and we must enjoy it as much as we can.  There are consequences for every wrong choice made, but there would be no rewards if no choices are made. HuffleHaire Posted at 9:15 pm on Jan. 3, 2009 Give him a chance, but make sure he knows the ground rules. You'll be quicker to act this time. blufindr Posted at 9:11 pm on Jan. 3, 2009 Give him a chance but be cautious. stuffydays Posted at 9:10 pm on Jan. 3, 2009 give him a chance, but no california. let your heart sink back into it a little more. then see if its for real. littlewing Posted at 9:07 pm on Jan. 3, 2009 Dont go to california with him, give him a chance but take it slow. MusicMonkey Posted at 9:07 pm on Jan. 3, 2009 To me it sounds like he was "too busy" chasing some other girl and now that that's over, he wants you again. All of this sudden-ness sounds like a bad idea. All 6 previous replies displayed.