Quoting Post Archived Topic: It will not be bumped to the top of the forum. Topic i can't ever get used to being single Membername   Not a member? Sign Up Free (takes 20 seconds) Password   Forgotten your password? Post Font: Verdana Arial Black Georgia Comic Sans Impact   Size: Tiny Normal Big Huge   Color: Default Dark Red Red Orange Brown Green Olive Cyan Blue Dark Blue Indigo Black [ Check Spelling ] [ Post Preview ] [ LiveTags ] Quote: from [m]chicka2011[/m] at 6:58 am on Jan. 4, 2009[quote]my bf and i broke up yesterday.. and i still can't believe this. he still wants to stay close? like friends with benefits (only he doesnt like that term because it sounds like hes only using me for sex) honestly.. i don't even know what to make of this anymore. i can't JUST be a friend to him. i still love him the way i always have. my feelings toward him arent different at all.. and he expects that we are just friends. wtf :\[/quote] FAQ Keyword Search: Post Options Favorites Manager Notify me of new replies to this topic by email Notify me of new replies to this topic by private message Original Post chicka2011 Posted at 6:58 am on Jan. 4, 2009 my bf and i broke up yesterday.. and i still can't believe this. he still wants to stay close? like friends with benefits (only he doesnt like that term because it sounds like hes only using me for sex) honestly.. i don't even know what to make of this anymore. i can't JUST be a friend to him. i still love him the way i always have. my feelings toward him arent different at all.. and he expects that we are just friends. wtf :\

Replies Pebbles123 Posted at 7:20 am on Jan. 4, 2009 Quote: from bosss at 2:58 pm on Jan. 4, 2009 you'll never get over him if you two stay friends with benefits.. baaaaad idea. Exactly what I was going to say. wallopwoop Posted at 7:16 am on Jan. 4, 2009 Sounds pretty good to me. Berend Posted at 7:06 am on Jan. 4, 2009 My best mate was going out with my other best mate. He got bored and broke it off, she still has feelings for him. New years eve they had sex: he believed it to be Break up sex, she thinks it's Make up sex. Now she's gonna get upset and feel used, probably get pissed off with me for still talking to him, he's... Fuck knows what he's gonna do, but essentially  It's all fucked up!   And now I'm gonna suffer some kind of backlash, from one or both peeps, just because he couldn't help but think with his testicles instead of his brain. But dammit, he's like a (in a guy love sense [JD/ Turk kinda thing]) lover to me... You know what.. I'm gonna put this in a post...   Amazingness99 Posted at 7:02 am on Jan. 4, 2009 Don't be friends with benefits with him, you'll NEVER get over him that way. Just stay away from him for a while, until you think you're ready to talk to him again. Disposition Posted at 7:01 am on Jan. 4, 2009 Dude, don't let him use you like that. Maybe you should stay away from him for awhile, since you know he's using you. The sex and stuff will keep you emotional attached and you won't be able to move on that way. You'll find someone else. I know that it's painful, though. chicka2011 Posted at 7:00 am on Jan. 4, 2009 Quote: from skiba at 6:58 am on Jan. 4, 2009 Why did you break up because only seeing eachother 2 times a week wasnt enough for him skiba Posted at 6:58 am on Jan. 4, 2009 Why did you break up GeneralScEnE Posted at 6:58 am on Jan. 4, 2009 You'l get over it, it's better you stay friends than lose him from your life completly. bosss Posted at 6:58 am on Jan. 4, 2009 you'll never get over him if you two stay friends with benefits.. baaaaad idea. The Fantasy Posted at 6:58 am on Jan. 4, 2009 shows how much he cared about you. All 10 previous replies displayed.