Quoting Post Archived Topic: It will not be bumped to the top of the forum. Topic boyfriend troubles. Membername   Not a member? Sign Up Free (takes 20 seconds) Password   Forgotten your password? Post Font: Verdana Arial Black Georgia Comic Sans Impact   Size: Tiny Normal Big Huge   Color: Default Dark Red Red Orange Brown Green Olive Cyan Blue Dark Blue Indigo Black [ Check Spelling ] [ Post Preview ] [ LiveTags ] Quote: from [m]stuffydays[/m] at 9:53 am on Jan. 4, 2009[quote]i've been with my boyfriend for 2 years now. I really really love him, he is the one for me. I don't know whats come over him lately but he's changed, I'm seeing a different side to him. It seems like every little thing I say or do, he finds something wrong with it. He snaps and he's nasty when he doesn't have to be. I don't know why he's acting like this. He keeps forgetting to call/making excuses. At first I thought it was because we were growing apart and coming to an end, or something like he didn't love me anymore. But then every single day he wants to see me, and if I try to tell him no he gets very upset, exclaiming how he loves me and how he just wants/needs to spend time with me. He is like the biggest sweetheart one moment, and the next he's just a big jerk. I don't know what to do. Every time i try to talk to him, he exclaims nothing wrong. I try to tell him that I feel like he's losing intrest in me, but then he points out all of the sweet things he does. I can't make him understand, because I don't understand it myself. I really don't want to lose him... I love him a lot. I'm afraid if I can't work this out with him now it will only get worse. We used to be able to communicate all our problems, but I'm at a loss for words. *sigh* help?[/quote] FAQ Keyword Search: Post Options Favorites Manager Notify me of new replies to this topic by email Notify me of new replies to this topic by private message Original Post stuffydays Posted at 9:53 am on Jan. 4, 2009 i've been with my boyfriend for 2 years now. I really really love him, he is the one for me. I don't know whats come over him lately but he's changed, I'm seeing a different side to him. It seems like every little thing I say or do, he finds something wrong with it. He snaps and he's nasty when he doesn't have to be. I don't know why he's acting like this. He keeps forgetting to call/making excuses. At first I thought it was because we were growing apart and coming to an end, or something like he didn't love me anymore. But then every single day he wants to see me, and if I try to tell him no he gets very upset, exclaiming how he loves me and how he just wants/needs to spend time with me. He is like the biggest sweetheart one moment, and the next he's just a big jerk. I don't know what to do. Every time i try to talk to him, he exclaims nothing wrong. I try to tell him that I feel like he's losing intrest in me, but then he points out all of the sweet things he does. I can't make him understand, because I don't understand it myself. I really don't want to lose him... I love him a lot. I'm afraid if I can't work this out with him now it will only get worse. We used to be able to communicate all our problems, but I'm at a loss for words. *sigh* help?

Replies snowcone200 Posted at 10:03 am on Jan. 4, 2009 Hmm, you two still very young. Maybe he still likes you but the relationship is just becoming a chore to him now. Maybe you can talk to him about this or maybe try take break from each other more. stuffydays Posted at 9:57 am on Jan. 4, 2009 Quote: from snowcone200 at 9:55 am on Jan. 4, 2009 How old are you two. Maybe your becoming to much you know like your like a family member or parent to him. Your always around always doing the same thing. Being young he might losing interest to. we are both 18, and we do spend a LOT of time together at his request. But if he was losing interest, wouldn't he not want to see me? thats what I don't get. I've had it in my head now that we may not be together for much longer, but it would be easier for it to go one way or the other, not just drag on in the middle like this. snowcone200 Posted at 9:55 am on Jan. 4, 2009 How old are you two. Maybe your becoming to much you know like your like a family member or parent to him. Your always around always doing the same thing. Being young he might losing interest to. All 3 previous replies displayed.