Quoting Post Archived Topic: It will not be bumped to the top of the forum. Topic How long before kids? Membername   Not a member? Sign Up Free (takes 20 seconds) Password   Forgotten your password? Post Font: Verdana Arial Black Georgia Comic Sans Impact   Size: Tiny Normal Big Huge   Color: Default Dark Red Red Orange Brown Green Olive Cyan Blue Dark Blue Indigo Black [ Check Spelling ] [ Post Preview ] [ LiveTags ] Quote: from [m]Tavis[/m] at 12:10 pm on Jan. 6, 2009[quote]Quote: from [m]abbigayle303[/m] at 3:08 pm on Jan. 6, 2009[quote]i don't plan on having kids or marrying, all children do is empty ur bank account and stress u to the max[/quote] And obviously you can't do the world the favour that your mother did for you. That's selfish, if that is why you don't want to have kids. I'm sure you appreciate being born and raised.[/quote] FAQ Keyword Search: Post Options Favorites Manager Notify me of new replies to this topic by email Notify me of new replies to this topic by private message Original Post Chiefette Posted at 12:06 pm on Jan. 6, 2009 Since I am on a roll with these types of questions... Someone made me think of this. How soon after marriage do you plan to have kids?

Replies Chiefette Posted at 4:02 am on Jan. 7, 2009 I guess things come different at different ages.  I have most of that now.  I have everything ready now, but I am still going to wait a year or so, just for the sake of waiting. LoveKay Posted at 1:42 pm on Jan. 6, 2009 Quote: from Glory at 1:38 pm on Jan. 6, 2009 Quote: from LoveKay at 3:32 pm on Jan. 6, 2009 Considering I will not get married until both of us have our careers already going, I would say probably a few years. I want to be about thirty when I have kids, give or take couple of years. Shit, that seems so old. I want to be 25 when I finish having kids... Well I want to make sure that I have everything else ready first. I want to have a house, I want to have everything finished and done and I want to be bored with my life when I have a kid. I don't want to have any other chores or to do lists or things that need to be bought or paid off or done when I have a child. I definitely want to have enough money, and I definitely still want to live my life before I have a child. Chiefette Posted at 12:38 pm on Jan. 6, 2009 Quote: from LoveKay at 3:32 pm on Jan. 6, 2009 Considering I will not get married until both of us have our careers already going, I would say probably a few years. I want to be about thirty when I have kids, give or take couple of years. Shit, that seems so old.  I want to be 25 when I finish having kids... LoveKay Posted at 12:32 pm on Jan. 6, 2009 Considering I will not get married until both of us have our careers already going, I would say probably a few years. I want to be about thirty when I have kids, give or take couple of years. biSEXual Posted at 12:29 pm on Jan. 6, 2009 apparently several yrs bfr marriage lol I had my daughter in June carbonara Posted at 12:28 pm on Jan. 6, 2009 In an ideal world I'd like to get married between the ages of 21 and 25, and have children when I graduate from university, which will be around 23 ish. But this isn't an ideal world so anything could happen. Narfled the Garthok Posted at 12:27 pm on Jan. 6, 2009 Quote: from Glory at 12:24 pm on Jan. 6, 2009 In all reality, divorce can happen no matter how long you waited to have kids...A divorce does not necessarily mean a shitty childhood either. Yes it can always happen, but I rather be more certain it won't happen then will happen. Divorce doesn't always mean a shitty childhood either but there is still no excuse to put a child through that. See Me Now Posted at 12:26 pm on Jan. 6, 2009 I don't want to have kids until after I am done with school and have started my career, so at least 26-27 years old. Frubeling Posted at 12:26 pm on Jan. 6, 2009 I would like to be married around 23, children maybe 3 to 5 years later Chiefette Posted at 12:24 pm on Jan. 6, 2009 In all reality, divorce can happen no matter how long you waited to have kids...A divorce does not necessarily mean a shitty childhood either. Gaelle Posted at 12:24 pm on Jan. 6, 2009 Not very soon. I'm not that big a fan of kids, but my fiancée's enthusiasm about them has been rubbing of on me lately. I'd say we're getting married when we're around 23 and we'll start *thinking* about kids when we're 25. Narfled the Garthok Posted at 12:23 pm on Jan. 6, 2009 Several years as I want to ensure we as potential parents are stable enough to support such a responsibility. I do not want to put a kid through a divorce, or a shitty childhood because we decided to rush into things. rahawr Posted at 12:19 pm on Jan. 6, 2009 prolly a year. maybe two i guess but i doubt it :p maybe not even a full year haha Under oath Posted at 12:18 pm on Jan. 6, 2009 when she is 20 Chiefette Posted at 12:17 pm on Jan. 6, 2009 I plan to start trying for kids within the next year or so.... Most recent 15 of 38 previous replies displayed.