Quoting Post Archived Topic: It will not be bumped to the top of the forum. Topic My boyfriend is mad at me. Membername   Not a member? Sign Up Free (takes 20 seconds) Password   Forgotten your password? Post Font: Verdana Arial Black Georgia Comic Sans Impact   Size: Tiny Normal Big Huge   Color: Default Dark Red Red Orange Brown Green Olive Cyan Blue Dark Blue Indigo Black [ Check Spelling ] [ Post Preview ] [ LiveTags ] Quote: from Anonymous at 1:16 am on Jan. 7, 2009[quote]Quote: from [m]enemaguy[/m] at 2:14 am on Jan. 7, 2009[quote]gosh! what did he do?[/quote]I wrote all about it in my post... Obviously, you did not read it =\[/quote] FAQ Keyword Search: Post Options Favorites Manager Notify me of new replies to this topic by email Notify me of new replies to this topic by private message Original Post Anonymous Posted at 1:11 am on Jan. 7, 2009 I guess I screwed up today. It's like I never have before, at least not this bad... and I don't know how to feel. Almost two years into our relationship and it is the first time I have done something to piss him off. My boyfriend and his two younger sisters (15 and 11) and I were checking out the Wii Fit today that the girls got for Christmas. Me and his oldest sister were sitting there eating ice cream and chatting. She said something about a chymo and who would have sex with a girl so young.. Well, I wasn't thinking and I said, "I know who would have sex with a girl who isn't even in her teen years.." She asked me who, and I said her brother, and she automatically thought it was his first long-term girlfriend. He turned around and said no, while I said yes at the same time. See, when he was about sixteen or seventeen, he dated a girl who was about eleven, maybe twelve. They grew up in the same neighborhood. Well, they had sex when she wasn't even a teen and he was nearly an adult. This girl is my age, and this was a long, long time ago (he is now in his mid-twenties..). Apparently, even though his mom knows about him sneaking out to visit the girl in the middle of the night, she does not know they had sex. So I got yelled at. I think it's an awful thing and I don't think I could ever forgive him for such an act... or multiple acts... but for as much as he seems to "hate" having had done that, he sure seemed happy to brag about how they were going at it lyke omg aaalll over the place... while he was telling me a funny story at the beginning of our relationship. Yeah, I know it has been like two years but just him saying "We were having sex and we going at it and we were all over the place in her bedroom" etc just won't leave my mind even to this day.   He is mad at me that I had said this in front of his sisters... (his youngest sister wasn't listening or paying attention, and his mom wasn't there). sigh... I feel crappy =[   Oh yeah, by the way, I am an adult!

Replies belbra Posted at 2:31 am on Jan. 7, 2009 oh thats fucked up but hes gross wtf is his problem seriouslly its like me fucking an eleven year old boy wtf ..well idk what to tell u just fix things with him and im glad just to hear u guys dont fight alot but fix things with him lestat1990 Posted at 1:57 am on Jan. 7, 2009 Quote: from Anonymous at 1:45 am on Jan. 7, 2009 Quote: from lestat1990 at 2:42 am on Jan. 7, 2009    yea he should be that pissed off. but he should love you enough to forgive you I know he will. We have gone through worse things before, and we are still together.   I guess I'm just mad he didn't stay with me tonight =[ That is why I am on LiveWire at nearly three in the morning still. Bored. a cold bed for urself really isn't inviting. i feel for you Anonymous Posted at 1:45 am on Jan. 7, 2009 Quote: from lestat1990 at 2:42 am on Jan. 7, 2009 yea he should be that pissed off. but he should love you enough to forgive you I know he will. We have gone through worse things before, and we are still together. I guess I'm just mad he didn't stay with me tonight =[ That is why I am on LiveWire at nearly three in the morning still. Bored. lestat1990 Posted at 1:42 am on Jan. 7, 2009 Quote: from Anonymous at 1:35 am on Jan. 7, 2009 Quote: from Trashed at 2:30 am on Jan. 7, 2009 Well what he did was unacceptable, it's illegal, immoral and just all around wrong, for someone to do that they must be a bit wrong in the head (no offense).    However, I'm sure he was just mad because he felt ashamed of what he did, I know that if I was him I would be ashamed and I wouldn't tell anyone about it. It was maybe a weak spot for him and you hit it really hard by saying that out loud to his sister. A lot of boys really care what their sisters' think about them and try to be a good role model for when they grow up. If they are seen doing something wrong then their siblings are likely to copy.    You feel crappy now but you can try and talk to him, tell him exactly how you feel about the situation and why you felt the need to say it out loud. You have no right to feel bad for saying the truth and you said it because of what you feel, you didn't say it to purposely hurt him so tell him this, if he doesn't understand well, then he isn't worth getting all worked up about.    Maybe just try and stay calm until things settle over, he won't be mad forever, I'm sorry to hear you're feeling down and you can message me whenever you need to! Hope things get better. We already talked about it, but he was very pissed off. I apologized numerous times, and tried to explain that I did not stop to think about it and it just slipped, and I tried to explain what I explain here. But he just took it as me turning it around.. See, he normally stays the night with me pretty much every night except for when I have to work early in the morning. And tomorrow (today) is my day off, so he was supposed to stay with me and he did not because he needs to cool off.   I understand completely why he is mad. I just did not see his sister as his SISTER at the time I was talking to her. She is very mature and I saw her more as a friend than his sibling. But I just dont think he should be this pissed off about it... I dont know. yea he should be that pissed off. but he should love you enough to forgive you Anonymous Posted at 1:35 am on Jan. 7, 2009 Quote: from Trashed at 2:30 am on Jan. 7, 2009 Well what he did was unacceptable, it's illegal, immoral and just all around wrong, for someone to do that they must be a bit wrong in the head (no offense). However, I'm sure he was just mad because he felt ashamed of what he did, I know that if I was him I would be ashamed and I wouldn't tell anyone about it. It was maybe a weak spot for him and you hit it really hard by saying that out loud to his sister. A lot of boys really care what their sisters' think about them and try to be a good role model for when they grow up. If they are seen doing something wrong then their siblings are likely to copy. You feel crappy now but you can try and talk to him, tell him exactly how you feel about the situation and why you felt the need to say it out loud. You have no right to feel bad for saying the truth and you said it because of what you feel, you didn't say it to purposely hurt him so tell him this, if he doesn't understand well, then he isn't worth getting all worked up about. Maybe just try and stay calm until things settle over, he won't be mad forever, I'm sorry to hear you're feeling down and you can message me whenever you need to! Hope things get better. We already talked about it, but he was very pissed off. I apologized numerous times, and tried to explain that I did not stop to think about it and it just slipped, and I tried to explain what I explain here. But he just took it as me turning it around.. See, he normally stays the night with me pretty much every night except for when I have to work early in the morning. And tomorrow (today) is my day off, so he was supposed to stay with me and he did not because he needs to cool off. I understand completely why he is mad. I just did not see his sister as his SISTER at the time I was talking to her. She is very mature and I saw her more as a friend than his sibling. But I just dont think he should be this pissed off about it... I dont know. DopeSickGirl Posted at 1:31 am on Jan. 7, 2009 what a skeeze. he sucks, anyone who is proud of that at first and then is like an asshole later is a jackass. he bragged about it then got pissed when you said something. unless he delibratley told you not to say anything then he really cant get pissed. in addition, if he hadnt committed the act (which was wrong to begin with) then he wouldnt have been in said awkward position. Hoebag Posted at 1:30 am on Jan. 7, 2009 Well what he did was unacceptable, it's illegal, immoral and just all around wrong, for someone to do that they must be a bit wrong in the head (no offense). However, I'm sure he was just mad because he felt ashamed of what he did, I know that if I was him I would be ashamed and I wouldn't tell anyone about it. It was maybe a weak spot for him and you hit it really hard by saying that out loud to his sister. A lot of boys really care what their sisters' think about them and try to be a good role model for when they grow up. If they are seen doing something wrong then their siblings are likely to copy. You feel crappy now but you can try and talk to him, tell him exactly how you feel about the situation and why you felt the need to say it out loud. You have no right to feel bad for saying the truth and you said it because of what you feel, you didn't say it to purposely hurt him so tell him this, if he doesn't understand well, then he isn't worth getting all worked up about. Maybe just try and stay calm until things settle over, he won't be mad forever, I'm sorry to hear you're feeling down and you can message me whenever you need to! Hope things get better. XOallixs0n Posted at 1:26 am on Jan. 7, 2009 He's gross. What are you even doing with him? He slept with someone my SISTERS age. She JUST turned 11 and can barely even speak correctly. cherryD Posted at 1:18 am on Jan. 7, 2009  I don't know, I guess this kind of stuff could have just slipped out of anyone's mouth. And if I were you, I would be irritated too. I mean, he had sex with a preteen and he's still there, talking about how they were all over the room?  Maybe he just has a thing for younger girls, and she could have been really mature. Still though, wow, 11. The girl's your age? So you are like, 19?  Are you going to apologize? lestat1990 Posted at 1:18 am on Jan. 7, 2009 look you have to admit that wasn't cool to say in front of his sister. you don't discuss ur sex life in front of ur family. you definelty don't do it if ur ashamed of it. he was an idiot for trying to brag about something that sick and i can't blame you for it not leaving ur head. its not somthing to easily over look. Anonymous Posted at 1:16 am on Jan. 7, 2009 Quote: from enemaguy at 2:14 am on Jan. 7, 2009 gosh! what did he do? I wrote all about it in my post... Obviously, you did not read it =\ enemaguy Posted at 1:14 am on Jan. 7, 2009 gosh! what did he do? All 12 previous replies displayed.