Quoting Post Archived Topic: It will not be bumped to the top of the forum. Topic One-Sided? (long) Membername   Not a member? Sign Up Free (takes 20 seconds) Password   Forgotten your password? Post Font: Verdana Arial Black Georgia Comic Sans Impact   Size: Tiny Normal Big Huge   Color: Default Dark Red Red Orange Brown Green Olive Cyan Blue Dark Blue Indigo Black [ Check Spelling ] [ Post Preview ] [ LiveTags ] Quote: from [m]stuffydays[/m] at 8:46 am on Jan. 7, 2009[quote]I don't know if it's obsession, but whatever it is, its the way that HE wanted it. My boyfriend is like the biggest part of my life. Our relationship (2 years) is the only thing that gives me a sense of true happiness. Homelife is not always the best, and work and school just make me miserable. So, it comes to be that I've grown really attatched to him. Almost anything I do revolves around him. My school papers, what I eat in the morning, my screen name on here is even just a combination of our names. Maybe you could call it obssession, but when he's the only thing I've got, what else is there? This is the way HE wanted it, he always wanted to see me, he always took my time away from friends/hobbies, the lot of it (not intentionally, just, he always wanted to be with me) Now I feel like though, that it's one sided. I feel like I'm an afterthought in his life. Our relationship is still strong, I know he loves me, but I just think that it's pretty one-sided. Like the tpical teen relationship, when I'm around everything is good, but if I'm not, then he completely forgets about me. I don't know how I can switch back, how I can fall out of love with him. There really isn't much else that will give me joy, so I don't know HOW to find other things to do. Friends are a whole nother story, which goes along with trust issues, So I'd really rather not have it involve me making friends. I don't want to ruin our relationship either. *sigh* any advice would be really cool... i'm in a rut.[/quote] FAQ Keyword Search: Post Options Favorites Manager Notify me of new replies to this topic by email Notify me of new replies to this topic by private message Original Post stuffydays Posted at 8:46 am on Jan. 7, 2009 I don't know if it's obsession, but whatever it is, its the way that HE wanted it. My boyfriend is like the biggest part of my life. Our relationship (2 years) is the only thing that gives me a sense of true happiness. Homelife is not always the best, and work and school just make me miserable. So, it comes to be that I've grown really attatched to him. Almost anything I do revolves around him. My school papers, what I eat in the morning, my screen name on here is even just a combination of our names. Maybe you could call it obssession, but when he's the only thing I've got, what else is there? This is the way HE wanted it, he always wanted to see me, he always took my time away from friends/hobbies, the lot of it (not intentionally, just, he always wanted to be with me) Now I feel like though, that it's one sided. I feel like I'm an afterthought in his life. Our relationship is still strong, I know he loves me, but I just think that it's pretty one-sided. Like the tpical teen relationship, when I'm around everything is good, but if I'm not, then he completely forgets about me. I don't know how I can switch back, how I can fall out of love with him. There really isn't much else that will give me joy, so I don't know HOW to find other things to do. Friends are a whole nother story, which goes along with trust issues, So I'd really rather not have it involve me making friends. I don't want to ruin our relationship either. *sigh* any advice would be really cool... i'm in a rut.

Replies stuffydays Posted at 8:53 am on Jan. 7, 2009 Quote: from snowcone200 at 8:50 am on Jan. 7, 2009 So you feel as if he really isn't all into you like they way you are? Don't say this is what he wanted unless he actually said that. If things feel one sided talk to him, or give each other space. this is exactly what I'm saying. He tells me that we're so close as a couple, and how I'm all he thinks about and he does everything he does for me, all that jazz. He's glad I feel the same way. But when it comes down to it, it's just not true. How can you be that into someone and forget to call them? How can you be that into someone and not "feel like coming over" i just don't get it. I'm probably the psycho, i know. I need help. snowcone200 Posted at 8:50 am on Jan. 7, 2009 So you feel as if he really isn't all into you like they way you are? Don't say this is what he wanted unless he actually said that. If things feel one sided talk to him, or give each other space. north star15 Posted at 8:49 am on Jan. 7, 2009 try meeting new guys talking to them hanging out with them fall in love with a new guy flirt All 3 previous replies displayed.