She knew one for 2 years and the other one she was dating. The 3rd we don't know anything about, but who hasn't had a one night stand? (well, nvm. I guess some amount of people here haven't had one night stands or sexual contact).
Either way thats really far from slutty. And the smart people going "Ooo, that sounds classy!". Classy is sort of vague, means fashionable or elegant. I don't see what she said in the post that says she isn't classy. Do classy people not give head or get fingered? Sexual contact is a human thing, it's not "slutty" or some shit especially in this case because she didn't do it with random people.
Either way your thinking of this strangely. You didn't say how your boyfriend "used" you since you guys were dating and it's implied that you are attracted to eachother enough that you both willingly engage in sexual things.
As for the other two guys, don't do something sexual with somebody for the sake of romance unless you are already dating. You set yourself up for that. He can say "I loOoOoOve you baby" all he wants, but he isn't fucking dating you exclusively so what does his word matter anyways.
Don't listen to everyone else. Internet isn't serious buisness. Most people here are internet fags, they judge people through screens and laugh about it because it's the internet.
Im a nice girl and very classy. Im still a virgin and I have performed oral sex on two guys and have gotten fingered by three guys, two of which I gave head too and the other one to which I was with. I don't get it, the guys I gave head to, one was my boyfriend and one was a guy I have been talking to for 2 years! He told me he loved me and yeah, i actually believed it because he was always there...then he just plays me! I swear im not a hoe but guys always seem to use me! I don't go around messing with just anybody....so why is this happening to me?! I don't think im a slut, I don't give out too easily. Im respectful and genuine. =[ Im confused....
Quote: from Tubbz at 3:38 pm on Jan. 7, 2009 Bad choice in guys, or you aren't very attractive. that
Bad choice in guys, or you aren't very attractive.
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