Quoting Post Archived Topic: It will not be bumped to the top of the forum. Topic I need him back....how can i get him back Membername   Not a member? Sign Up Free (takes 20 seconds) Password   Forgotten your password? Post Font: Verdana Arial Black Georgia Comic Sans Impact   Size: Tiny Normal Big Huge   Color: Default Dark Red Red Orange Brown Green Olive Cyan Blue Dark Blue Indigo Black [ Check Spelling ] [ Post Preview ] [ LiveTags ] Quote: from [m]Shmank[/m] at 5:28 pm on Jan. 7, 2009[quote]Well, I feel sorry for him but I think you need to really really really think if you're the one who should help him!! How many more times are you going to allow yourself to get hurt? Yeah his life isn't fair..but you getting hurt a bunch of times isn't any better..I say you just move on and relax for awhile and who knows! Maybe things will happen with him and maybe he'll come around without you..? The next time you get hurt, if you do, might be worse than you ever been physically or mentally hurt by him...that's just NOT right. and you're only 17! you have your whole life ahead of you!! What if you help him out and it takes months, years and then when he's come around and then just blows you off?!! is that really worth it to you? honestly. you have so much ahead of you.. and if you're still in HS or just got out there's an even better reason to just cut things with him.live your life up![/quote] FAQ Keyword Search: Post Options Favorites Manager Notify me of new replies to this topic by email Notify me of new replies to this topic by private message Original Post Em20 Posted at 5:15 pm on Jan. 7, 2009 Me n my boyfriends been 2gether for 6months now he has messed up 2-3 times well he was drunk im 17 he is 20 ...ive given him everything his life is bad cuz he lives in a bad family his mom yells at him 4everything even when she is talking she has to yell ...ummm he has messed around with 3 girls one was bcuz she lives there with his family his mom told her to live ther ...then 2nd was at his dads she thought he wanted her no wasnt true..3rd he is playin her ..my freakin aunt n her sister threatend him to put him in jail if he didn't break up with me well my aunt has tried to mess my family up b4 n then my friend nick n his girlfriend hack onto my yahoo n talk shit to my bfs best friend n then the next day my bf calls me n says we r done ...i was like wtf....i didn't do anything...well he was threatend by nick n jessica so idk he said everything would b ok but its not i miss him so much i have given him another chance so many times well 2 but he isn't a player he was not raised to know right from wronge i love him very much n i don't want him to go...but he won't listen or talk to me idk y its not like i could of stoped it all from happening ...i have cried so much to be with him and ive tried to say im sorry for it all....my family has fucked this up my xxxxxxxbest friends did .....n it feels like i have nothing to live for anymore b4 him i cut n poped pills to get out of pain then he came into my life n i stoped for him im devoted my life to him i am was there to support him with the army..n right now i just need him back tell him everythings gonna b ok ..but i can't ive done all i can and i don't know what else to say...im pissed cuz my xxxxxbestfriends wanted to break us up n they won....thought we were both strong but we arnt i want to b but only with him...he is my world n my rock...i need him more then anything...so plz help me out people i need him now.. b4 i go back to depression n shit...i love him n im not letting him go...its not fair its not my fault ....i want things back to normal....how do i do this...help me...im plus sized n this girl he is playin is bigger then me....so idk he don't love her we have had sex got me pregnant but lost it...i need him he is from a low life family n me a high life family but u wouldn't know that...we got so much incommon it hurts me to know he thinks they will do sumthing to them well they r in Juvinial delencwent center JDC school for bad kids or kid jail...well i turned them in for harassment and assult...so plz anyone help me get him back....n what i should say to him

Replies Em20 Posted at 5:30 pm on Jan. 7, 2009 he never has hurt me or anything just this happen... n i need him so bad n he needs me... Shmank Posted at 5:28 pm on Jan. 7, 2009 Well, I feel sorry for him but I think you need to really really really think if you're the one who should help him!! How many more times are you going to allow yourself to get hurt? Yeah his life isn't fair..but you getting hurt a bunch of times isn't any better..I say you just move on and relax for awhile and who knows! Maybe things will happen with him and maybe he'll come around without you..? The next time you get hurt, if you do, might be worse than you ever been physically or mentally hurt by him...that's just NOT right. and you're only 17! you have your whole life ahead of you!! What if you help him out and it takes months, years and then when he's come around and then just blows you off?!! is that really worth it to you? honestly. you have so much ahead of you.. and if you're still in HS or just got out there's an even better reason to just cut things with him.live your life up! Em20 Posted at 5:22 pm on Jan. 7, 2009 he is worth everything to me....he just needs help with how to live in a good life not always getting yelled at getting hurt by everyone being pused around n played n being a free babysiter n shit that...his family uses him...n they r fucking trailer trash/white trash same things he never was taught good from bad until me..so i need him..he has changed but then this happen ... north star15 Posted at 5:21 pm on Jan. 7, 2009 well i know you know what to doo... and what seems best for you... move on and try to live a happy life. Shmank Posted at 5:18 pm on Jan. 7, 2009 Wow..I'm sorry but that's a crazy situation and I don't even know if there's a solution for this..? :-/   Umm why is he still so worth it to you? Look back on everything that he has put you through. Seriously.. I'm really sorry because this kinda thing is NO fun to go through but yeah..good luck P.S. feel free to message me personally and i'll definitely help you out! :) Fortis Obscurum Posted at 5:16 pm on Jan. 7, 2009 Find a better guy. All 6 previous replies displayed.