Quoting Post Archived Topic: It will not be bumped to the top of the forum. Topic I Confess...I need some advice on this one LW... Membername   Not a member? Sign Up Free (takes 20 seconds) Password   Forgotten your password? Post Font: Verdana Arial Black Georgia Comic Sans Impact   Size: Tiny Normal Big Huge   Color: Default Dark Red Red Orange Brown Green Olive Cyan Blue Dark Blue Indigo Black [ Check Spelling ] [ Post Preview ] [ LiveTags ] Quote: from [m]xBlondeVixxenx[/m] at 6:32 pm on Jan. 7, 2009[quote]I'm a bit confused about what I should do. about 2 weeks ago my friend introduced me to this guy named Nicholas; he's 25 and I'm 19. We were at Guitar Center and that's where he works and she's known him for a couple of years already. I was with her and she just like casually introduced us nothing big. Well then we start talking on myspace and facebook, just like casual stuff and lately we've been talking a lot on AIM and on the phone. He's a very sweet guy, and he's very intellectual and I enjoy talking to him & he's physically attractive as well & we just seem to have this connection. His parents are going to be in California this weekend and...well Sunday he wants to hang out, go see a movie, and then go to dinner or something where we can talk and get to know each other better. He plays guitar,writes his own songs,and sings, and he has his own studio at his house and he wants to show it to me. And he said after that maybe we can cuddle up in front of the fire place and watch a movie and be all romantic-like maybe have some wine or something as well. And don't get me wrong I'd love to spend time with him; It's just that I don't know him all that well....so I may be a bit uncomfortable being alone at his house with him but idk. He doesn't strike me as the type of man to try anything, like rape or slip me drugs or anything. He seems like a very nice guy and he is according to my friend. But idk..Should I go for it? What should I do or what precautions should I take?[/quote] FAQ Keyword Search: Post Options Favorites Manager Notify me of new replies to this topic by email Notify me of new replies to this topic by private message Original Post xBlondeVixxenx Posted at 6:32 pm on Jan. 7, 2009 I'm a bit confused about what I should do. about 2 weeks ago my friend introduced me to this guy named Nicholas; he's 25 and I'm 19. We were at Guitar Center and that's where he works and she's known him for a couple of years already. I was with her and she just like casually introduced us nothing big. Well then we start talking on myspace and facebook, just like casual stuff and lately we've been talking a lot on AIM and on the phone. He's a very sweet guy, and he's very intellectual and I enjoy talking to him & he's physically attractive as well & we just seem to have this connection. His parents are going to be in California this weekend and...well Sunday he wants to hang out, go see a movie, and then go to dinner or something where we can talk and get to know each other better. He plays guitar,writes his own songs,and sings, and he has his own studio at his house and he wants to show it to me. And he said after that maybe we can cuddle up in front of the fire place and watch a movie and be all romantic-like maybe have some wine or something as well. And don't get me wrong I'd love to spend time with him; It's just that I don't know him all that well....so I may be a bit uncomfortable being alone at his house with him but idk. He doesn't strike me as the type of man to try anything, like rape or slip me drugs or anything. He seems like a very nice guy and he is according to my friend. But idk..Should I go for it? What should I do or what precautions should I take?

Replies flyonthewall Posted at 4:57 pm on Jan. 9, 2009 find yourself your own shortie. dont betray your friend (bros before hoes) flyonthewall Posted at 4:57 pm on Jan. 9, 2009 text the friend that introduced you before you go to his house so somebody knows where you are. he seems nice so dont be paranoid. but also be smart about what you do. Disposition Posted at 6:41 pm on Jan. 7, 2009 It is groupies but I'm sure they wanted both. Disposition Posted at 6:41 pm on Jan. 7, 2009 I'd say you should take it slow. Go to the movies and to dinner, but don't go to his house. If he needs a reason why you can't go, just say you have to get to bed early or something. When you know him better and are legit dating him, going to his house, etc, sounds like a cute idea. xxtearz of despairxx Posted at 6:37 pm on Jan. 7, 2009 sure go out on a date with him, but don't go to his house to "cuddle" "drink wine" and be "romantic".  He's much older, and since you don't know him that well you can't be sure of his intentions.  The smart thing to do would be to date him (if you're that interested) but don't go "full force" especially since you barely know him.  think about it... xxtearz of despairxx Posted at 6:37 pm on Jan. 7, 2009 I find it ridiculous someone called the cops! bloundybab11 Posted at 6:35 pm on Jan. 7, 2009 Ummmm I hope you work it out thats all I can do 4 u!Cuz im new bloundybab11 Posted at 6:35 pm on Jan. 7, 2009 Quote: from CheyBear at 1:01 am on July 25, 2008 Hey there. I'm bad. You? Awh im ok Shibs Posted at 6:35 pm on Jan. 7, 2009 I say go for it. But don't go to his house if he gives you ANY reason to doubt him beforehand. I hope everything works out. Shibs Posted at 6:35 pm on Jan. 7, 2009 Quote: from benjacksoff at 8:10 pm on July 24, 2008 well most of them said they were disease free Most of them will lie. They have no reason to tell you the truth. If anything, it's worse for them because if they did tell you the truth, you wouldn't sleep with them. So it's in their best interest to lie. All 10 previous replies displayed.