Quoting Post Archived Topic: It will not be bumped to the top of the forum. Topic being replaced by a video game. Membername   Not a member? Sign Up Free (takes 20 seconds) Password   Forgotten your password? Post Font: Verdana Arial Black Georgia Comic Sans Impact   Size: Tiny Normal Big Huge   Color: Default Dark Red Red Orange Brown Green Olive Cyan Blue Dark Blue Indigo Black [ Check Spelling ] [ Post Preview ] [ LiveTags ] Quote: from [m]stuffydays[/m] at 7:01 pm on Jan. 7, 2009[quote]Quote: from [m]MoonlitEden[/m] at 6:58 pm on Jan. 7, 2009[quote]He texted you, so it isn't like he's ignoring you. I completely understand the phone call being important, but he also has a life outside of you. I know that can hurt to hear, but relationships where the two people dote on each other nonstop usually don't work. Make a time for the two of you to talk, and it doesn't have to be an hour each and every day. Can he talk to you earlier in the day possibly? Things change in relationships and it's up to you whether or not you accept that change. Just talk to him and let him know how you feel, but don't be too clingy about it.[/quote] i think it just surprises me how unimportant it is to him. When I look forward to it so much each and every day, and it doesn't even matter to him. I don't know, it just hurts.[/quote] FAQ Keyword Search: Post Options Favorites Manager Notify me of new replies to this topic by email Notify me of new replies to this topic by private message Original Post stuffydays Posted at 6:54 pm on Jan. 7, 2009 my boyfriend used to call me every night about an hour before bed, and we used to talk about random crap, just sweet nothings really. I always loved that phone call and looked forward to it all day (especially on days when i couldn't see him). It just made it a lot easier to fall asleep, it made me feel good, it made me feel loved. but now, him and his buddies play an online game at night. It just started about a week ago. He would call me like a half hour before they started, so I could deal with that, no big. But it's slowly getting worse. Tonight was he first night he didn't call, all he did was text "playing tonight babe love you good night". I don't know, i always thought that that phonecall was special, i guess its not to him? I'm afraid to tell him, i don't want to sound clingy or obsessed. *sigh* advice?

Replies Set My Soul On Fire Posted at 9:00 pm on Jan. 7, 2009 Get over it. He's allowed to do both, stop being so selfish. sja Posted at 8:47 pm on Jan. 7, 2009 Boys will be boys, you can't expect himt o call every night but then again he is wrong because you guys have a routine which you are use to what you need to do is just find something to do thats just as occupying and let him see how it feels or tell him how you feel about it and see if it changes. WRXSTI Posted at 7:27 pm on Jan. 7, 2009 take the game out of the xbox and scratch the shit out of when he aint looking stuffydays Posted at 7:10 pm on Jan. 7, 2009 Quote: from xsharpi at 7:07 pm on Jan. 7, 2009 Well you can't expect him to give in, if you won't meet him half way. Look around, you may actually find a video game you like. lol, and maybe find 500$ lying on the ground for an Xbox and a TV? Lady Catastrophic Posted at 7:07 pm on Jan. 7, 2009 Well you can't expect him to give in, if you won't meet him half way. Look around, you may actually find a video game you like. stuffydays Posted at 7:05 pm on Jan. 7, 2009 this has nothing at all to do with sex... at all. i don't know where anyone got that from. SomeRandomKid Posted at 7:03 pm on Jan. 7, 2009 if u have a pussy u can rule the world.. no videogame could amount to the pleasure u get from women.. if he's straight.. he'll come thru stuffydays Posted at 7:01 pm on Jan. 7, 2009 Quote: from MoonlitEden at 6:58 pm on Jan. 7, 2009 He texted you, so it isn't like he's ignoring you. I completely understand the phone call being important, but he also has a life outside of you. I know that can hurt to hear, but relationships where the two people dote on each other nonstop usually don't work. Make a time for the two of you to talk, and it doesn't have to be an hour each and every day. Can he talk to you earlier in the day possibly? Things change in relationships and it's up to you whether or not you accept that change. Just talk to him and let him know how you feel, but don't be too clingy about it. i think it just surprises me how unimportant it is to him. When I look forward to it so much each and every day, and it doesn't even matter to him. I don't know, it just hurts. stuffydays Posted at 6:58 pm on Jan. 7, 2009 Quote: from xsharpi at 6:56 pm on Jan. 7, 2009 HAHAHAH... it is an addiction you gotta deal with. If he has an Xbox I understand, but also if he does why not get one live too so you can play together and talk together from two different homes? yes it's Xbox, and i don't play video games I can't stand them. Maybe thats why it gets to me so bad... WHAT it is I'm being replaced by. we're both 18. I know, sad. MoonlitEden Posted at 6:58 pm on Jan. 7, 2009 He texted you, so it isn't like he's ignoring you.  I completely understand the phone call being important, but he also has a life outside of you.  I know that can hurt to hear, but relationships where the two people dote on each other nonstop usually don't work.  Make a time for the two of you to talk, and it doesn't have to be an hour each and every day.  Can he talk to you earlier in the day possibly?  Things change in relationships and it's up to you whether or not you accept that change.  Just talk to him and let him know how you feel, but don't be too clingy about it. Taurian Posted at 6:57 pm on Jan. 7, 2009 Fuck him! It's your right to be clingy! Lohrbas Posted at 6:56 pm on Jan. 7, 2009 I hope it's not WoW.  @.@ Lady Catastrophic Posted at 6:56 pm on Jan. 7, 2009 HAHAHAH... it is an addiction you gotta deal with. If he has an Xbox I understand, but also if he does why not get one live too so you can play together and talk together from two different homes? Clara Bell Posted at 6:56 pm on Jan. 7, 2009 All boys go through phases where they push their girlfriend to the back of their mind. If it becomes excessive, sit him down and talk. But why not call him? Just because he doesn't call doesn't mean the calls aren't special to him. justin1990rm Posted at 6:56 pm on Jan. 7, 2009 you're too clingy and obsessed Most recent 15 of 22 previous replies displayed.