In university, I was determined to change. I got involved (in a sorority, was president of a club) and in my last year one of the most popular guys on campus had a crush on ME!
I saw my old high school crush and realized he's short for a guy (only 5 ft 9, I'm 5 ft 7), never went to college and is still attempting to make it as a musician but he still lives in the small town we grew up in. His friends are the ones from high school.
I think I turned out better.