Quoting Post Archived Topic: It will not be bumped to the top of the forum. Topic ok soo me and my bf lastnight Membername   Not a member? Sign Up Free (takes 20 seconds) Password   Forgotten your password? Post Font: Verdana Arial Black Georgia Comic Sans Impact   Size: Tiny Normal Big Huge   Color: Default Dark Red Red Orange Brown Green Olive Cyan Blue Dark Blue Indigo Black [ Check Spelling ] [ Post Preview ] [ LiveTags ] Quote: from [m]Special Agent Orange[/m] at 6:56 am on Jan. 8, 2009[quote]wow...if i were you id be pissed. sounds like hes trying to tell you something...[/quote] FAQ Keyword Search: Post Options Favorites Manager Notify me of new replies to this topic by email Notify me of new replies to this topic by private message Original Post tinnainparis Posted at 6:54 am on Jan. 8, 2009 were on the phone and he randomly says what would you do if i told you i was in the bed with another girl??? he caught me off guard but i was like idc its your life do what you want.. he was like were not in the same blanket or anything shes just right beside me i didnt want her to sleep on the floor!!!!! again i said i dont really care, its your life if you want to do that its your deal!!!! he just blew it off like he didnt care that i didnt care and was like whatever but i could tell he was upset because i didnt flip out and start asking questions...... why do you think he did it.. i was thinking about it and one of my options was he wanted me to break up with him or he wanted to break up with me!!!! what do you think??

Replies cedesbenz Posted at 7:25 am on Jan. 8, 2009 Its all about how you react. Just do what you been doing and he would stop doing things like that. But i would i simply said tell her to go sleep on the couch or he go sleep on the couch theboxman Posted at 7:01 am on Jan. 8, 2009 I think more that he wanted to get a reaction.  I would stay calm but have a talk with him about trust.  Let him know that you did not worry about the other girl because you trust him to behave in a way that reflects your relationship. Then let him know that without trust there really is no relationship and his behaviour determines if you trust him and that you expect to hear why she was there not some game about he is in bed with another girl.   how much trust you have in him is under his control, and if you lose trust in him then there really is no relationship so if his actions cause you to lose trust then he is choosing to end the relationship - but you would prefer if that is the case that he be a man and just tell you. jessicarickter Posted at 6:59 am on Jan. 8, 2009 I honestly think he's just trying to get a rise out of you. Guys like to screw with girls heads A LOT! my ex is like that. keep showing him that you don't care. his game will get old, and he'll stop. i think if he wanted to break up, honestly he'd just do it. tinnainparis Posted at 6:57 am on Jan. 8, 2009 Quote: from Trashed at 6:55 am on Jan. 8, 2009 If he's reassuring you they aren't in the same blanket then why would he want to break up with you? I think he was upset because it must have felt like you really didn't care about him and if he cheated you wouldn't give a fuck. wel i wouldnt its his life he knows i would never talk to him again if he cheated... i didnt mean to upset him!!! Craziie Posted at 6:56 am on Jan. 8, 2009 he didnt wana lie to you.. so he told u straight up.. and i guess ur reaxtin wasnt satisfactory to him.. he didnt feel important i guess? Special Agent Orange Posted at 6:56 am on Jan. 8, 2009 wow...if i were you id be pissed. sounds like hes trying to tell you something... Hoebag Posted at 6:55 am on Jan. 8, 2009 If he's reassuring you they aren't in the same blanket then why would he want to break up with you? I think he was upset because it must have felt like you really didn't care about him and if he cheated you wouldn't give a fuck. All 7 previous replies displayed.