Quoting Post Archived Topic: It will not be bumped to the top of the forum. Topic when do relationships get hard? Membername   Not a member? Sign Up Free (takes 20 seconds) Password   Forgotten your password? Post Font: Verdana Arial Black Georgia Comic Sans Impact   Size: Tiny Normal Big Huge   Color: Default Dark Red Red Orange Brown Green Olive Cyan Blue Dark Blue Indigo Black [ Check Spelling ] [ Post Preview ] [ LiveTags ] Quote: from [m]captain obvious[/m] at 11:45 pm on Jan. 11, 2009[quote]i was talking to a friend of mine about my girlfriend of whom i've been going out with for a little more than three months now she said once it got to 5 & 7 months it would be really hard. i've heard of deadlines like this before & i was just wondering what are the times? why does this happen? & how can i avoid them? i love my girlfriend dearly & i just want to be proactive & avoid as many problems as possible before they even happen.[/quote] FAQ Keyword Search: Post Options Favorites Manager Notify me of new replies to this topic by email Notify me of new replies to this topic by private message Original Post captain obvious Posted at 11:45 pm on Jan. 11, 2009 i was talking to a friend of mine about my girlfriend of whom i've been going out with for a little more than three months now she said once it got to 5 & 7 months it would be really hard. i've heard of deadlines like this before & i was just wondering what are the times? why does this happen? & how can i avoid them? i love my girlfriend dearly & i just want to be proactive & avoid as many problems as possible before they even happen.

Replies Johvanni Posted at 12:00 am on Jan. 12, 2009 3 months The Professional Posted at 11:53 pm on Jan. 11, 2009 You can't predict the problems that will arise, but rest assured, they will come.  If both of you are committed, and both of you are truthful and loyal, that is the most important thing.  Every issue that may come between you two can be diffused, discussed, and a compromise or resolution can be found. The problems only become truly toxic when one or both partners fail to remain loyal, honest, or committed to eachother.  It isn't the issue itself, it's how you deal with the issue, basically. Jman19 Posted at 11:53 pm on Jan. 11, 2009 When there is a boner involved.. No but, there is no set date for things to get 'hard'... just don't take each other for granted. medjai Posted at 11:49 pm on Jan. 11, 2009 Once one party starts to take the other for granted, or both take each other for granted, difficulty arises. fullmooncurse Posted at 11:49 pm on Jan. 11, 2009 It gets hard when you find someone else that makes you feel just as good as your bf/gf does. foambuddy Posted at 11:48 pm on Jan. 11, 2009 its gets harder cause you get even more attached and well people get scared when this happend therefore they try to somehow protect themselves from getting hurt The root of the problem most of the time is jealousy misssmadejavuu Posted at 11:48 pm on Jan. 11, 2009 I've only had 2 relationships last over 2 months, my last relationship was 6 months and started getting bad around 3 months, and in my current relationship (we've been dating 2 1/2 months) it is still going good. islandgirl Posted at 11:46 pm on Jan. 11, 2009 hard in what way? All 8 previous replies displayed.