Quoting Post Archived Topic: It will not be bumped to the top of the forum. Topic Please read and reply Membername   Not a member? Sign Up Free (takes 20 seconds) Password   Forgotten your password? Post Font: Verdana Arial Black Georgia Comic Sans Impact   Size: Tiny Normal Big Huge   Color: Default Dark Red Red Orange Brown Green Olive Cyan Blue Dark Blue Indigo Black [ Check Spelling ] [ Post Preview ] [ LiveTags ] Quote: from [m]strandedgirli[/m] at 11:46 am on Jan. 12, 2009[quote]HAHAHA [/quote] FAQ Keyword Search: Post Options Favorites Manager Notify me of new replies to this topic by email Notify me of new replies to this topic by private message Original Post Tyler4758 Posted at 11:42 am on Jan. 12, 2009 Alright, first off. I cried last Saturday over a discussion and   my girlfriend came outside to comfort me. I felt weak and lonely because she wouldn't cry with me. I asked her today why she didn't and her reply was:"I feel weak when I cry, but if you want me to Baby, I'll cry next time." I told her I would not see her weak if she did cry. In my eyes her crying with me would show how much she really cares and loves me. But all she did that night was frown and sniffle. Next and final problem as of now would be about her friends... A few of her best friends have been feeding her lies saying that I told bad about her behind her back and that I have called her a whore. She is starting to believe them. Also a boy that likes her said I was cheating on her which I am not. Nor have I ever let a negative word about her come out of my mouth. What should I do?

Replies Tyler4758 Posted at 11:59 am on Jan. 12, 2009 Quote: Tell her the truth, if she's a good girlfriend to you, then she'll believe you. Otherwise, she's not being a good one. But, you have to realize, she'll be more inclined to listen to her friends over you. Just tell the truth, if you have said something bad about her, tell her straight up. Queen of Hope..she has not said directly that she doesnt trust me but she has said that if its true to admit it. I told her i love her too much to say or do anything like that to her and that its all not true. all she said was alright in an unsure manner lilmisstalkalot001 Posted at 11:56 am on Jan. 12, 2009 Tell her da truth Tyler4758 Posted at 11:52 am on Jan. 12, 2009 Quote: from Rtheory at 11:47 am on Jan. 12, 2009 Quote: from Tyler4758 at 7:42 pm on Jan. 12, 2009 A few of her best friends have been feeding her lies saying that I told bad about her behind her back and that I have called her a whore. She is starting to believe them. Also a boy that likes her said I was cheating on her which I am not. Nor have I ever let a negative word about her come out of my mouth. What should I do? This.   If she knows you have not told her a negetive thing, she will believe you, and not them. It's trust, if she knows you are not like what they say you are, then she won't believe them. But she does, and that is worrying.   My advise is, that you have a long and hard talk about these rumours, and ask if she trusts you, and if she belives them.   La Motta Posted at 11:48 am on Jan. 12, 2009 Smoke a joint, listen to some Tupac, get an AK and let those crackers feel fear! K r e s c e n d o Posted at 11:47 am on Jan. 12, 2009 Quote: from Tyler4758 at 7:42 pm on Jan. 12, 2009 A few of her best friends have been feeding her lies saying that I told bad about her behind her back and that I have called her a whore. She is starting to believe them. Also a boy that likes her said I was cheating on her which I am not. Nor have I ever let a negative word about her come out of my mouth. What should I do? This. If she knows you have not told her a negetive thing, she will believe you, and not them. It's trust, if she knows you are not like what they say you are, then she won't believe them. But she does, and that is worrying. My advise is, that you have a long and hard talk about these rumours, and ask if she trusts you, and if she belives them. dorothyedgmon Posted at 11:47 am on Jan. 12, 2009 tell ur girlfriend the truth about everything dont let one piece of information go unsaid. if she is as good as you say she is than she'll understand everything but if she aint she'll leave you. just talk with him away from the world and let it just be you two together!!! xPicturesOfYou3 Posted at 11:47 am on Jan. 12, 2009 Um. Just cuz u dont cry doesn't mean you're not feeling nyhting. strandedgirli Posted at 11:46 am on Jan. 12, 2009 HAHAHA wcm wrestling Posted at 11:45 am on Jan. 12, 2009 eh GTFO, stop being a little bitch and crying. Synthetic Posted at 11:45 am on Jan. 12, 2009 If she believes you then its meant to be, don't label crying as a means of showing deep emotion to you, its something that shows deep emotion from within you. If she can't cry with you its better to know that her physical presence is more than enough comfort because not everyone can cry at times, one must be strong for the other, a relationship is a give and take. HANCOCK Posted at 11:45 am on Jan. 12, 2009 Grow some ballz Aerie Posted at 11:44 am on Jan. 12, 2009 Tell her the truth, if she's a good girlfriend to you, then she'll believe you. Otherwise, she's not being a good one. But, you have to realize, she'll be more inclined to listen to her friends over you. Just tell the truth, if you have said something bad about her, tell her straight up. All 12 previous replies displayed.