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merryberrycherry Posted at 11:42 am on Jan. 12, 2009
I've been going out with my boyfriend for about 3, 4months?? He hasn't done anything wrong, he's a bit boring and soppy, but in the general of things he is the most lovely boy there is. But I'm struggling with a lot of stress right now, with school and work and parents, working through some sort of eatind disorder and severe depression. I just want to get out of the relationship as it's putting more pressure on me and stress.

How can I dump him nicely with some excuse as to why? I want a short and sweet break up because I don't want it to be too awkward. HELP PLEASE!!

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Peppermintxo Posted at 12:03 pm on Jan. 12, 2009
Just tell him what you told us.
SpasticTurnip Posted at 11:53 am on Jan. 12, 2009
Quote: from AngelOfTheNight at 7:48 pm on Jan. 12, 2009

Quote: from Tyler4758 at 11:44 am on Jan. 12, 2009

Would breaking up with him really solve your issues right now? Breaking up with him in my opinion would make him feel like he IS the problem. Have you tried asking him for help?

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Agreed.

Joep0113 Posted at 11:53 am on Jan. 12, 2009
Quote: from Tyler4758 at 11:44 am on Jan. 12, 2009

Would breaking up with him really solve your issues right now? Breaking up with him in my opinion would make him feel like he IS the problem. Have you tried asking him for help?
This

But if i was him if you were going to dump me i'd rather it was quick and to the point instead of dancing around it for awhile.

Points Posted at 11:52 am on Jan. 12, 2009
Tell him it's nothing against him, but it's not the best time for you to pursue a relationship.
picklez118 Posted at 11:51 am on Jan. 12, 2009
i liked it better when we were friends. we had so much fun then. id like to be friends again.

AngelOfTheNight Posted at 11:48 am on Jan. 12, 2009
Quote: from Tyler4758 at 11:44 am on Jan. 12, 2009

Would breaking up with him really solve your issues right now? Breaking up with him in my opinion would make him feel like he IS the problem. Have you tried asking him for help?

this
La Motta Posted at 11:46 am on Jan. 12, 2009
Tell him you're pregnant. He'll run!
atomictastic Posted at 11:46 am on Jan. 12, 2009
Quote: from Tyler4758 at 2:44 pm on Jan. 12, 2009

Would breaking up with him really solve your issues right now? Breaking up with him in my opinion would make him feel like he IS the problem. Have you tried asking him for help?

Exactly my words.
wcm wrestling Posted at 11:46 am on Jan. 12, 2009
Tell him how you feel
Aerie Posted at 11:45 am on Jan. 12, 2009
Quote: from Tyler4758 at 2:44 pm on Jan. 12, 2009

Would breaking up with him really solve your issues right now? Breaking up with him in my opinion would make him feel like he IS the problem. Have you tried asking him for help?

This.

strandedgirli Posted at 11:45 am on Jan. 12, 2009
fuck his friend
dorothyedgmon Posted at 11:45 am on Jan. 12, 2009
tell hiim what you told us and hopefully he'll understand. even tell him you dont want him to take this any other way and dont want drama too start by this break up....
Tyler4758 Posted at 11:44 am on Jan. 12, 2009
Would breaking up with him really solve your issues right now? Breaking up with him in my opinion would make him feel like he IS the problem. Have you tried asking him for help?
EmmitWinchell Posted at 11:44 am on Jan. 12, 2009
just tell him and if you two what to get back together then get back together with him.
HANCOCK Posted at 11:44 am on Jan. 12, 2009
Tell him exactly what you told us.
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