Quoting Post Archived Topic: It will not be bumped to the top of the forum. Topic is my boyfriend a bit controlling? Membername   Not a member? Sign Up Free (takes 20 seconds) Password   Forgotten your password? Post Font: Verdana Arial Black Georgia Comic Sans Impact   Size: Tiny Normal Big Huge   Color: Default Dark Red Red Orange Brown Green Olive Cyan Blue Dark Blue Indigo Black [ Check Spelling ] [ Post Preview ] [ LiveTags ] Quote: from Anonymous at 5:52 pm on July 2, 2009[quote]my boyfriend always tells me that im supposed to do everything he says because the man should be the boss in the relationship.  the first time he said that i thought he was kidding.  but since then, hes said it several more times and always looks serious. he says that when we live together, i should cook, clean, do his laundry, etc...because "girls are better for that stuff than boys." my friends say they wouldn't be able to put up with a guy like him because he seems too controlling. what do y'all think???[/quote] FAQ Keyword Search: Post Options Favorites Manager Notify me of new replies to this topic by email Notify me of new replies to this topic by private message Original Post Anonymous Posted at 5:52 pm on July 2, 2009 my boyfriend always tells me that im supposed to do everything he says because the man should be the boss in the relationship.  the first time he said that i thought he was kidding.  but since then, hes said it several more times and always looks serious. he says that when we live together, i should cook, clean, do his laundry, etc...because "girls are better for that stuff than boys." my friends say they wouldn't be able to put up with a guy like him because he seems too controlling. what do y'all think???

Replies yssuPevoLI Posted at 6:05 pm on July 2, 2009 If he's like that now, when you're just dating, watch out Monroe Posted at 6:00 pm on July 2, 2009 Controlling? No. A jackass? Yes. If I were in your situation, I'd drop him and tell him "good luck finding a girl to obey your every command!" Nowadays, it's equal in relationships. Fuck, my mom works, and my dad stays home and keeps the house. There isn't a certain way things should be done, and your boyfriend shouldn't tell you how it's going to be, with no discussion. You're better off cutting it off. Listen to your friends, they know what they're talking about. CoLoSsEuM GhOsT Posted at 6:00 pm on July 2, 2009 punch him in the face... LikeWhoaaX3 Posted at 5:58 pm on July 2, 2009 That's sexist and controlling.  I had a boyfriend like that.  Trust me, dump him.  It only gets worse. Lucid Nightmare Posted at 5:57 pm on July 2, 2009 GET AS FAR AWAY FROM HIM AS POSSIBLE. riothjjz Posted at 5:56 pm on July 2, 2009 Quote: from utheh at 5:54 pm on July 2, 2009 dump him yeaahh, dump him. you'll feel much better[: promisee! hahahahastupid Posted at 5:55 pm on July 2, 2009 to controlling w T A Z w Posted at 5:55 pm on July 2, 2009 give 'em the boot kindredragon Posted at 5:54 pm on July 2, 2009 Quote: from mvmassacre at 8:53 pm on July 2, 2009 Controlling! You don't need someone like him.   and an Asshole andrethebest1 Posted at 5:54 pm on July 2, 2009 controlling? very. Talk to him about it. Kaijuu Posted at 5:54 pm on July 2, 2009 I'd be okay with a guy like that. Hes controlling. And sexist. aejae Posted at 5:54 pm on July 2, 2009 LEAVE HIM NOW, there's nothing worse than a womanizer, a homophobe, a paedophile, a feminist... date someone neutral WickedWiccan Posted at 5:54 pm on July 2, 2009 Quote: from Anonymous at 8:52 pm on July 2, 2009 what do y'all think??? I think you should leave him as fast as you can. LexieStar Posted at 5:54 pm on July 2, 2009 Dump him, he's an arsehole. A sexist one at that! Chasey Posted at 5:54 pm on July 2, 2009 eurgh wtf leave him Most recent 15 of 22 previous replies displayed.