Quoting Post Archived Topic: It will not be bumped to the top of the forum. Topic Helpful replies only...please Membername   Not a member? Sign Up Free (takes 20 seconds) Password   Forgotten your password? Post Font: Verdana Arial Black Georgia Comic Sans Impact   Size: Tiny Normal Big Huge   Color: Default Dark Red Red Orange Brown Green Olive Cyan Blue Dark Blue Indigo Black [ Check Spelling ] [ Post Preview ] [ LiveTags ] Quote: from Anonymous at 6:02 pm on July 2, 2009[quote]g[/quote] FAQ Keyword Search: Post Options Favorites Manager Notify me of new replies to this topic by email Notify me of new replies to this topic by private message Original Post Anonymous Posted at 5:59 pm on July 2, 2009 hj

Replies Anonymous Posted at 4:55 pm on July 15, 2009 as emariehawk Posted at 8:18 pm on July 2, 2009 just be friends until you both are on the same page but before persuring anything with yourr ex be fair to your current girlfriend and break things off if your not feeling her anymore cyanotype Posted at 7:51 pm on July 2, 2009 Your situation is pretty odd and I'm sure you're not the first one to be in your place. Do yourself a favor: see where she is in life. Is she with a guy whom she's happy with, in a place where she is not wanting a relationship or is she out on the look for a guy. If she's someone who you feel would accept you back into her life, or would she brush you aside as being someone who needs to be expelled. Try to get in contact with the simplest of intentions to just be friends and see if anything happens. If you think the party is able to be there, go for it by all means. Regarding your current girlfriend, you should reconsider it all. If you're thinking about another girl while with her, consider what this means for her? It means that you're not having the connection that holds you there, you're not having having a quality life with her and I know that I personally wouldn't keep something you're thinking beyond already. I'm hoping that you get something out of this. I hope that you get a second chance with the first girl and I wish you the best of luck. Allen sai Posted at 6:11 pm on July 2, 2009 Yes couples fight - just not everyday. This sounds like a case of the you-never-know-what-you-had-until-you've-lost-it saying. Maybe these feelings are just a result of regret and nothing else. Think about it logically for a minute - if you guys got back together, wouldn't it mean having fights everyday all over again? I think it's best that you ask her out again only if you think you two could improve this time round. And as for your current girlfriend, you might as well dump her, seeing as you don't like her that much anyway. LikeWhoaaX3 Posted at 6:06 pm on July 2, 2009 You need to break up with this new girl for one thing.   Then you should start by being distant friends with your ex, then taking it from there. It's not fair to the girl your with now though if your heart is somewhere else. Go Steph Go Posted at 6:05 pm on July 2, 2009 Quote: from Anonymous at 9:02 pm on July 2, 2009 Quote: from Go Steph Go at 6:00 pm on July 2, 2009 I would say break up with this new girl if you're having these feelings.  If you wanted to see if she was the one you wanted, you did and you want her.  If she wants to go back out with you, go for it.  You guys obviously worked for 2 1/2 years. The thing is, we fought EVERYDAY...and when I told her i didnt want to date anymore, she thought it was cause we fought so much, and she said she would stop fighting. But i mean...relationships have fights..no matter what. My boyfriend and I fight, but we love each other.  If the fights aren't the reason then try it out again.  Let her know you didn't break up because of the fighting. Monroe Posted at 6:05 pm on July 2, 2009 -Before anything, you need to stop comparing your ex girlfriend to your current girlfriend. You made the choice to jump into a relationship right after ending one that lasted so long. So, you really need to think about your feelings for this new girl. Do you like her, do you care about her, do you get along, do you have fun? Think about those questions. -Don't have contact with your ex while you have a girlfriend. That will only hurt your current girl, and probably make you look like a giant prick. -Why did you and your ex break up in the first place? Remember that reason, and think about if it's any different now. -If you think you still have feelings for your ex girlfriend and you want to contact her, spare your current girlfriends feelings and break up with her. Tell her that you jumped into the relationship too soon, and that you're sorry, and be sure to tell her how great she is. Just DON'T get involved with your ex at all, until this other girl's heart is off the line. Good luck. Anonymous Posted at 6:04 pm on July 2, 2009 Quote: from 0h h3ll n0 at 6:03 pm on July 2, 2009 You should definitely stop dating this new girl. You're just stringing her along, and that's not fair. I don't know how you broke up, but you're probably best off sending her an email telling her you're sorry, you made a huge mistake, you always think about her, you stopped dating that other girl, etc.. just tell her exactly how you feel. Well..she doesn't know me and this girl are dating..she assumes we are..but we haven't really told anyone we are dating. 0h h3ll n0 Posted at 6:03 pm on July 2, 2009 You should definitely stop dating this new girl. You're just stringing her along, and that's not fair. I don't know how you broke up, but you're probably best off sending her an email telling her you're sorry, you made a huge mistake, you always think about her, you stopped dating that other girl, etc.. just tell her exactly how you feel. hahahahastupid Posted at 6:02 pm on July 2, 2009 Try to be friends. It could work Anonymous Posted at 6:02 pm on July 2, 2009 g Go Steph Go Posted at 6:00 pm on July 2, 2009 I would say break up with this new girl if you're having these feelings.  If you wanted to see if she was the one you wanted, you did and you want her.  If she wants to go back out with you, go for it.  You guys obviously worked for 2 1/2 years. andrethebest1 Posted at 6:00 pm on July 2, 2009 Its not too long. Be friends first. distant friends. All 13 previous replies displayed.