i couldnt take it n e more so i left.
i didnt get 2 see the car my mom told me it was, i didnt get 2 see his sister, as if i were be able 2 recognize her because I DID NOT see her, my mom did. and now i dont know what to do. any advice/ideas?
Why would he volunteer his sister.. its something that could be easily checked out and verified. Even if it wasn't his sister then wtf - he's allowed to have female friends. You're in the wrong. Stop trying to pretend otherwise.
You're in the wrong. Stop trying to pretend otherwise.
You're in the wrong. I sincerely doubt he cheated on you. You accused him of something you have NO proof of. Even if your mother DID see him he wasn't doing anything that made it a date or cheating. You accused him of something and then just WALKED away from the situation without fully letting him defend himself. You're not mature enough for a relationship if you can't even apologize when you're wrong. You're not mature enough for a relationship if you can't trust the guy. You're not mature enough for a relationship if you just take other people's word without having proof.
You're not mature enough for a relationship if you can't even apologize when you're wrong. You're not mature enough for a relationship if you can't trust the guy. You're not mature enough for a relationship if you just take other people's word without having proof.
She's said all that I was trying not to say.
Quote: from Aerie at 7:44 pm on July 2, 2009 I told you like 4 times already. SAY SORRY. You are wrong. You're trying to find ways to pin this off on him, and say it's his fault for it, when it's not. Go apologize. It doesn't matter if he plays dumb other times, he's clearly telling the truth now. its hard for me 2 jst call him up and say i'm sorry, i dont know why tho, i want 2 but then again i dont. ughhh... fucken complicated. i think its because he'll think he's got the best of me, and think he's got me all wrapped around his lil finger.
I told you like 4 times already. SAY SORRY. You are wrong. You're trying to find ways to pin this off on him, and say it's his fault for it, when it's not. Go apologize. It doesn't matter if he plays dumb other times, he's clearly telling the truth now.
SAY SORRY. You are wrong. You're trying to find ways to pin this off on him, and say it's his fault for it, when it's not. Go apologize.
It doesn't matter if he plays dumb other times, he's clearly telling the truth now.
its hard for me 2 jst call him up and say i'm sorry, i dont know why tho, i want 2 but then again i dont. ughhh... fucken complicated. i think its because he'll think he's got the best of me, and think he's got me all wrapped around his lil finger.
Oh well, you're gonna have too.
He did get the best of you. You were dumb, and accused him of something he didn't do.
"your in the wrong. "
wat?
Quote: from beingme at 10:35 pm on July 2, 2009 Quote: from Aerie at 7:31 pm on July 2, 2009 Quote: from Karen18 at 10:28 pm on July 2, 2009 Wow, it took me less than a minute to read. Losers. Anyway, if he was denying it, saying "what girl" and what not and then made up the story I wouldn't believe the stupid son of a bitch. Once a cheater, always a cheater too. If you forgive, or decide to believe him, he can and will fuck you over. he'll do it even more probably since you just about caught him and he'll feel like he can definitely get away with it. You'll come off gullible. Drop him. There's no evidence he cheated. And I'm pretty sure he didn't if he offered more than once to show her his sister. He was asking what girl, because I highly doubt the first girl in his mind would be his sister. you ARE correct, but then later on today we were texting and arguing and he's like the only girl i was with yesterday was my sister, and i'm like wtf, if it were TRUE he would've told me that right off the bat. you know? or am i wrong? You ARE wrong. Like I said, the first girl you'd accuse him of a having a date with wouldn't have been his sister.
Quote: from Aerie at 7:31 pm on July 2, 2009 Quote: from Karen18 at 10:28 pm on July 2, 2009 Wow, it took me less than a minute to read. Losers. Anyway, if he was denying it, saying "what girl" and what not and then made up the story I wouldn't believe the stupid son of a bitch. Once a cheater, always a cheater too. If you forgive, or decide to believe him, he can and will fuck you over. he'll do it even more probably since you just about caught him and he'll feel like he can definitely get away with it. You'll come off gullible. Drop him. There's no evidence he cheated. And I'm pretty sure he didn't if he offered more than once to show her his sister. He was asking what girl, because I highly doubt the first girl in his mind would be his sister. you ARE correct, but then later on today we were texting and arguing and he's like the only girl i was with yesterday was my sister, and i'm like wtf, if it were TRUE he would've told me that right off the bat. you know? or am i wrong?
Quote: from Karen18 at 10:28 pm on July 2, 2009 Wow, it took me less than a minute to read. Losers. Anyway, if he was denying it, saying "what girl" and what not and then made up the story I wouldn't believe the stupid son of a bitch. Once a cheater, always a cheater too. If you forgive, or decide to believe him, he can and will fuck you over. he'll do it even more probably since you just about caught him and he'll feel like he can definitely get away with it. You'll come off gullible. Drop him. There's no evidence he cheated. And I'm pretty sure he didn't if he offered more than once to show her his sister. He was asking what girl, because I highly doubt the first girl in his mind would be his sister.
Wow, it took me less than a minute to read. Losers. Anyway, if he was denying it, saying "what girl" and what not and then made up the story I wouldn't believe the stupid son of a bitch. Once a cheater, always a cheater too. If you forgive, or decide to believe him, he can and will fuck you over. he'll do it even more probably since you just about caught him and he'll feel like he can definitely get away with it. You'll come off gullible. Drop him.
Anyway, if he was denying it, saying "what girl" and what not and then made up the story I wouldn't believe the stupid son of a bitch. Once a cheater, always a cheater too. If you forgive, or decide to believe him, he can and will fuck you over. he'll do it even more probably since you just about caught him and he'll feel like he can definitely get away with it. You'll come off gullible. Drop him.
There's no evidence he cheated. And I'm pretty sure he didn't if he offered more than once to show her his sister.
He was asking what girl, because I highly doubt the first girl in his mind would be his sister.
you ARE correct, but then later on today we were texting and arguing and he's like the only girl i was with yesterday was my sister, and i'm like wtf, if it were TRUE he would've told me that right off the bat. you know? or am i wrong?
You ARE wrong. Like I said, the first girl you'd accuse him of a having a date with wouldn't have been his sister.
true, buT sometimes guys can pretend to not know whats going on, and he is one of them, sometimes he likes to pretend 2 not know whats going on so he'll act all dumb. aghh what should i do?
You've accused him of cheating without anything but speculation to incriminate him. I know it's hard to be in the situation you're in now but you've got to see how he's feeling. It's pretty mean of you to walk up and say he was cheating on you without solid proof. Honestly, if you've never seen his sister and you have nothing but your mother to say he was with some girl. You need to explain what caused you to feel this way to him. Explain that it was your mother who saw this event happen and that you don't know the details that caused you to feel this way. Trust is an important stepping stone in relationships and you didn't have it. Explain your fault to him and he'll be sure to accept this. Tell him that you're not secure about your place in his mind and that he's going to have to bear with you was you try to feel secure with him. There is only so much I have to go on and as a guy, I know that I would have appreciated it greatly if you said all of these things to me if I were in his position.
Honestly, if you've never seen his sister and you have nothing but your mother to say he was with some girl. You need to explain what caused you to feel this way to him. Explain that it was your mother who saw this event happen and that you don't know the details that caused you to feel this way.
Trust is an important stepping stone in relationships and you didn't have it. Explain your fault to him and he'll be sure to accept this. Tell him that you're not secure about your place in his mind and that he's going to have to bear with you was you try to feel secure with him.
There is only so much I have to go on and as a guy, I know that I would have appreciated it greatly if you said all of these things to me if I were in his position.
CORRECT, but i came off strong because what if "what if" it really WASNT his sister, and if i had explained everything rationally he would've had a better chance of making up a story right then and there.
You're really dumb.
i fix'd it.
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