Quoting Post Archived Topic: It will not be bumped to the top of the forum. Topic Would you leave everything behind for one person? Membername   Not a member? Sign Up Free (takes 20 seconds) Password   Forgotten your password? Post Font: Verdana Arial Black Georgia Comic Sans Impact   Size: Tiny Normal Big Huge   Color: Default Dark Red Red Orange Brown Green Olive Cyan Blue Dark Blue Indigo Black [ Check Spelling ] [ Post Preview ] [ LiveTags ] Quote: from [m]clockworkorange71[/m] at 12:49 am on July 4, 2009[quote]I'm currently living away from my boyfriend.. long distance.. and he pretty much said that if I didn't move, I wouldn't be seeing him anymore.. pretty much that I move or we're through.  He hates the idea of living here.. I guess you could say he hates Canada.. and he has no intentions of moving.  But I love it here.. it's where I was born, raised, this is where my family and friends are.. my home.  And even if I would love someone.. I couldn't give that all up.. I have no intention of leaving here. So, I'm just curious.. what would you do?[/quote] FAQ Keyword Search: Post Options Favorites Manager Notify me of new replies to this topic by email Notify me of new replies to this topic by private message Original Post clockworkorange71 Posted at 12:49 am on July 4, 2009 I'm currently living away from my boyfriend.. long distance.. and he pretty much said that if I didn't move, I wouldn't be seeing him anymore.. pretty much that I move or we're through.  He hates the idea of living here.. I guess you could say he hates Canada.. and he has no intentions of moving.  But I love it here.. it's where I was born, raised, this is where my family and friends are.. my home.  And even if I would love someone.. I couldn't give that all up.. I have no intention of leaving here. So, I'm just curious.. what would you do?

Replies nik1 Posted at 12:51 pm on July 4, 2009 So, what he is saying is that where he lives is more important than you.  Hmm.....if I didn't want to leave I would tell him that he needs to pack his bags. LoveKay Posted at 12:07 pm on July 4, 2009 Hopeless romantics whose love life ends up failing miserably will say yes, they will leave.  But you will only have one place where you truly belong while many partners throughout your life. If your boyfriend is threatening you to move or else it's over, then you shouldn't even be with him! He should respect where you belong, what makes you happy. I think of it this way. There are going to be many men in my life and I already know it because I'm still young. I'll enjoy love--it's something that accompanies me, not something that IS me while my family & career IS ME. Joep0113 Posted at 11:45 am on July 4, 2009 Quote: from Aerie at 3:11 am on July 4, 2009 I could. And I will. AndreasMommy Posted at 1:42 am on July 4, 2009 Mmmn if I was in that situation then I wouldn't. Guys come and go. Don't leave your family and friends for a guy. Your family and friends will ALWAYS be there for you when you need them the most. Don't just up and leave them. Aerie Posted at 1:11 am on July 4, 2009 I could. And I will. drifting Posted at 12:56 am on July 4, 2009 Yeah, probably. I dont have much going for me anyways Thanantos Posted at 12:55 am on July 4, 2009 Quote: from Tits McGee at 12:50 am on July 4, 2009 Honestly, I probably would have for my first love. How silly. I know what you mean i would do the smae thing. But fuck i doubt she would do anything :( clockworkorange71 Posted at 12:55 am on July 4, 2009 Quote: from EmerleeX at 12:51 am on July 4, 2009 For my current boyfriend.... yes. If I was like older, had a stable job and enough money to move away. But tbqh, he can't love you all that much to ask you to give up evrything in your life. I'm guessing your like just a teen, don't have a job and don't have LOADS of savings. Tell; me if i'm wrong :) So tbqh, if you don't have the money, you shouldn't leave the stability behind. Well, it would be later on when I'm able to move out and everything.  I don't have any money or job or anything, and was planning to stay here and go to college. Plus.. I'm assuming he would want me to move to where he lives.. and I don't speak the language, so I would be lost there.. it would be difficult for me in that aspect as well. clockworkorange71 Posted at 12:53 am on July 4, 2009 Quote: from utheh at 12:51 am on July 4, 2009 chasey umm what does that mean exactly.. lol. guitargod1 Posted at 12:52 am on July 4, 2009 if there was another reason to go such as school or a job... then yes. but if its just him. thats way too much of a chance Poker Shark Posted at 12:52 am on July 4, 2009 Yes. I want to leave my life behind and just leave and never come back anyway. I guess I'd only do it if it were somewhere I wanted to go. EmerleeX Posted at 12:51 am on July 4, 2009 For my current boyfriend.... yes. If I was like older, had a stable job and enough money to move away. But tbqh, he can't love you all that much to ask you to give up evrything in your life. I'm guessing your like just a teen, don't have a job and don't have LOADS of savings. Tell; me if i'm wrong :) So tbqh, if you don't have the money, you shouldn't leave the stability behind. utheh Posted at 12:51 am on July 4, 2009 chasey See Me Now Posted at 12:51 am on July 4, 2009 Yes, I would leave everything behind if it were me. Aileyy Posted at 12:51 am on July 4, 2009 well idk it seems selfish that he is having you make the compromise. but i suppose i would idk. Most recent 15 of 20 previous replies displayed.